The Young and the Restless - MESSAGE BOARDS

I was really upset to see Nicki not attend Nick's memorial. I can't understand why Sharon was sitting with Victor. I realize that she was his 1st wife and they have a child together but, Phyliss is his current wife and he loves her. If anybody should have been sitting with Victor it should have been Vicki, Brad,and Phyliss. Not Sharon. Even after the memorial no one even came over to talk to her and see if she was alright. She looks totally lost and its like no one even cares.

I agree Phyllis should of been at least in the same row, but Phyllis and the Newmans just had a big blowout. I think they Like Sharon better than Phyllis. They have a long history with her and then theres Noah of course who definatly deserves to sit near Victor. It could be also nobody is thinking cleary at this time of tragedy.

Whatever all her reasons are -Phyliss totally gave up her authority--I wonder if she will look back one day and regret giving over to her grief and not taking more control?

That's Phyllis....no class at all....oh well...got to like the woman for who she is no etiquette at all.

I was touched when Phyliss was "talking" to Nick about the arrangements for the memorial service saying he would hate what his mother was doing. She is probably right. Nick had a sense of humor, or I should say has since I don't believe he is really dead. Michelle Stafford is doing a great job of portraying the utter grief a woman in Phyliss' position would feel.

I think more than anything Phyliss wanted to introduce Nicks humorous side to the ceremony--input the things that made them laugh together-