The Young and the Restless - MESSAGE BOARDS

Ideally Lily would have her hair and look like she normally does, but that is not the reality of cancer. Many women with cancer are bald either by choice of shaving and/or by losing their hair through the chemo. So if we had a view of these individuals in their most intimate moments with their husband or boyfriend, how would they look? I can understand how this may have looked to you, but for me I saw the beauty of the situation and the fact that this man could look beyond the hair and just love his wife for the person that she is. I knew a young lady that was burned terribly at an eary age. Her face and whole body was disfigured as a child. Later on she had a baby and I was just amazed and happy to know that someone could look beyond her physical appearance. Cane and Lily making love to me sent a very important message for women going through what Lily is going through. Lily needed to know as Cane told her that she was beautiful still to him and that he loves her unconditionally.
ETA: I'd much rather focus on how people treat each other. In the whole scheme of thing hair and the way you look is insignificant. What's more import is your character and the goodness of your heart. I hope someone suffering from cancer, witnessed this scenes, that it helped to brighten their day and/or inspired them.

Sorry to disappoint you, but Lily really looks cute with that bald head. She is rocking that "bald look" and enjoying that "bald love" of Cane. That used to be a look in the sixties where women shaved their heads and really rocked the bald look and they did not have cancer. It was stylish to do so.

But since you insist on bringing that idea forward, a bald head does not make Lils any less of a woman than before. Her female equipment is in the same place and I am sure that Cane can attest to that. I loved the scenes.

Well, in my opinion, I didn't think Lily looked
like a little boy at all. All I could see was
Lily's beautiful sparkling brown eyes. Her pretty
smile and her gorgeous skin. I'm sure Cane thought
Lily was all woman too!

crjb1, you have a right to your opinion. But No, never has Lily looked like a boy to me. The girl is too beautiful to mistake her for a boy.

btw I wonder could there be a bald woman suffering from Cancer possibly reading this board and ran across this thread? I wonder if she is struggling with self esteem problems because of having no hair and maybe she doesn't feel like she is an attractive woman anymore? I wonder how this thread and the first post in this thread would make her feel? Some things and opinion don't need to be written out for the sake of other people suffering real life trauma. I learned this the hard way I said something negative to a poster not knowing she was dealing with the subject I so callously described. She literally cussed me out. I felt so bad. Not because of her reaction but because I hurt someones feeling by putting thoughts in my head on this message board that should have just stayed in my head.

I won't apologize for my question, I just wanted to see if anyone else shared my view, but it seems I'm in a distinct minority. There are many issues with story lines where someone may recognized themselves in them, and unfortunately, still be sensitive to. I am not trying to conjure up ill feelings. Lily is indeed a beautiful young woman, but bald looks like a very young boy. Thats just my thought.

Are some of the posts missing here? This thread is totally confusing. People are replying to people who haven't posted. Something must have been deleted. Moving on.

Lily, by far is the pretties bald woman I have ever seen. her eyes are drop dean gorgeous, her smile is beautiful, her skin tone is flawless.

I thought Cane and Lily are so blessed. they have the very best love story on this show. I don't know how hey go home t their spouses, because the chemistry these two have on the screen is unbelievable...I love this couple!