The Young and the Restless - MESSAGE BOARDS

Why would you ever desecrate your loving family members grave in that way. It was disgusting. I would never in a million years do that to my parents grave who passed. That just wrong in everyway nomatter how drunk you may be, you dont disrespect there memory in that way.

I think, in "pure twisted Billy thinking", he was having a toast with Colleen, whom he misses dearly and said so...I also still feel that he's suffering tremendous guilt for her death in that he failed to meet her at the cabin the day she went there and he did not...that's when she found the tied up Patti and the rest is history...

He and Colleen have shared beers and talks. He wanted to talk to her and he brought her a beer. I don't think I would have left the bottle behind but I see why he was there and he wanted thier old times back.

Even if you drank beers together would you poor beer on a relatives grave? I dont know just seemed wrong.

People have been known to "poor a little" out of a beer and/or licquor bottle for those who are no longer on this earth to drink with them.

It was a term of endearment.

I don't do it but I know many who have and still do...mostly men

I respect those who don't like the idea but I have done it myself. My Dad passed away over 30 years ago. On the anniversary of his death or on his birthday., I take a little beer out and pour it on his grave. He loved to have a brewski and watch the game! It's done totally out of love.

Did Billy say, "This is for my hommies..." and then poor it out while playing "I Wish" by R. Kelly

OK, that was over the top and stereo-typical my bad

Countrymom...I don't find it disrespectful at all but we live in a different culture from other so I won't fault them either.

I still find it weird that Billy did that, but then again it's a typical Billy move

I respect anybody that felt this was inappropriate and was disgusted or insulted by what Billy did.I understand your feelings perfectly.You have every right to feel the way you do.But my opinion was I thought it was such a sweet thing to do.Billy is hurting so bad and he loved his precious C.C.This was an endearing gesture to her and that's what he was doing.Showing her how much he loves and misses her so much that he was sharing a beer with her for old time's sake.I really am liking Billy more every day.He's just so open and out there.But out there in a good way.