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Cane is a good guy!!
Started by Collett at 2009/07/04 07:16AMLatest post: 2009/07/08 09:09PM, Views: 2073, Replies: 120
#51
2009/07/07 03:07PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
Charme |
Quote sj77: Quote Charme: Quote sj77: Quote Charme: Who's bashing Lily sj77? As a Lane fan I support both and yes as you said I believe Cane and Lily will find their way back together. My problem with Neil and Devon is the fact that they can be there for Lily, but for goodness sakes don't treat her like she's five years old. It's ridiculous for Neil to refer to her as his little girl. Devon needs to stop walking into Cane's house telling him shut up and don't give me any trouble. All this dialog is ridiculous. I loved the fact that Lily screamed at Cane and wanted answers, that was spot on, but Neil banging on the door and coming in their like big daddy hero was wrong. Let Lily hash things out in her own mind, that's the way she should be written. And with all that's going on, as the title of this thread suggest, Cane is still ultimately a good guy in my eyes. Bashing is referring to Lily being immature and wrong for not talking to Cane, etc. I've seen several threads posted about that. But your post proves my point. You say very little about what Cane did and about 85% of the focus is on how Neil and Devon are protective. Big deal. And what do you expect under the circumstances, really. Lily still does what she wants to do anyway. What does Neil calling Lily (who's only 22 by the way) his little girl? Lot's of fathers do that. What does that have to do with the cost of tea in China? Nothing. The problem with Neil calling Lily his little girl is the fact that she's not a little girl, she's a grown woman with a husband. Lily was handling her own shyt when Neil comes knocking at the door like a mad man. Lily is very justified to be angry at Cane and to yell scream and do whatever. Lily went to she and Cane's house on her own to do just that, talk, yell or scream at Cane. Neil didn't need to come busting down the door and always trying to fight Lily's battles. Adults have to learn how to fight their own battles and handle their problems. Neil needs to back off and let Lily be an adult. As far as what Cane did, yeah he was wrong, but as I stated I know and feel that he is a good guy as the title of this thread says. I'm not going to bash Cane and say he's this or that, because his secret came out. I support Cane and Lily (Lane) separately and as a couple. I'm sorry, but when a loved one, whether family or friend feels as though their loved one has been wronged, they step in and protect their friend. An example would be on the Sex and the City Movie when Big left Carrie at the alter. Charlotte yelled at him to stay away from Carrie. I don't take that as them being too protective. That's waht happens when you're emotional about something and in the heat of the moment. This situation just happened. Good grief. Give everyone involved a chance to think and regroup. I don't see how it's possible to judge Neil or Devon on their behavior after what Cane has done. They reacted the way any normal family would have reacted. And my mom considers me her little girl, and it's nothing wrong with that. Lily will handle her business as she's always has. Well maybe we see Neil different because I was raised by a grandmother that wanted me to be independent and stand on my own two feet. She was supportive but she wasn't smothering. Neil and Devon need to support Lily yes. They can be mad as hell at Cane and call him all kinds of names, but at the end of the day Lily needs to be the one to decide when, how and in what way she will deal with her husband's lies. A husband I must add that did something very wrong, but at the heart of him, he is a good guy and through all her pain, I believe Lily knows this. |
#52
2009/07/07 03:12PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
sj77 |
Quote Charme: Quote sj77: Quote Charme: Quote sj77: Quote Charme: Who's bashing Lily sj77? As a Lane fan I support both and yes as you said I believe Cane and Lily will find their way back together. My problem with Neil and Devon is the fact that they can be there for Lily, but for goodness sakes don't treat her like she's five years old. It's ridiculous for Neil to refer to her as his little girl. Devon needs to stop walking into Cane's house telling him shut up and don't give me any trouble. All this dialog is ridiculous. I loved the fact that Lily screamed at Cane and wanted answers, that was spot on, but Neil banging on the door and coming in their like big daddy hero was wrong. Let Lily hash things out in her own mind, that's the way she should be written. And with all that's going on, as the title of this thread suggest, Cane is still ultimately a good guy in my eyes. Bashing is referring to Lily being immature and wrong for not talking to Cane, etc. I've seen several threads posted about that. But your post proves my point. You say very little about what Cane did and about 85% of the focus is on how Neil and Devon are protective. Big deal. And what do you expect under the circumstances, really. Lily still does what she wants to do anyway. What does Neil calling Lily (who's only 22 by the way) his little girl? Lot's of fathers do that. What does that have to do with the cost of tea in China? Nothing. The problem with Neil calling Lily his little girl is the fact that she's not a little girl, she's a grown woman with a husband. Lily was handling her own shyt when Neil comes knocking at the door like a mad man. Lily is very justified to be angry at Cane and to yell scream and do whatever. Lily went to she and Cane's house on her own to do just that, talk, yell or scream at Cane. Neil didn't need to come busting down the door and always trying to fight Lily's battles. Adults have to learn how to fight their own battles and handle their problems. Neil needs to back off and let Lily be an adult. As far as what Cane did, yeah he was wrong, but as I stated I know and feel that he is a good guy as the title of this thread says. I'm not going to bash Cane and say he's this or that, because his secret came out. I support Cane and Lily (Lane) separately and as a couple. I'm sorry, but when a loved one, whether family or friend feels as though their loved one has been wronged, they step in and protect their friend. An example would be on the Sex and the City Movie when Big left Carrie at the alter. Charlotte yelled at him to stay away from Carrie. I don't take that as them being too protective. That's waht happens when you're emotional about something and in the heat of the moment. This situation just happened. Good grief. Give everyone involved a chance to think and regroup. I don't see how it's possible to judge Neil or Devon on their behavior after what Cane has done. They reacted the way any normal family would have reacted. And my mom considers me her little girl, and it's nothing wrong with that. Lily will handle her business as she's always has. Well maybe we see Neil different because I was raised by a grandmother that wanted me to be independent and stand on my own two feet. She was supportive but she wasn't smothering. Neil and Devon need to support Lily yes. They can be mad as hell at Cane and call him all kinds of names, but at the end of the day Lily needs to be the one to decide when, how and in what way she will deal with her husband's lies. A husband I must add that did something very wrong, but at the heart of him, he is a good guy and through all her pain, I believe Lily knows this. Yes, but who says that Lily isn't going to make her own decisions. She just found out. A day hasn't even went by. neil and devon are venting, and they are entitled to. Cane's lucky he didn't get more than mean words form those two. |
#53
2009/07/07 03:17PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Charme |
sj77 I think that we can agree to disagree about Neil and Devon |
#54
2009/07/07 03:22PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
g4666 |
Quote sj77: This is a soap and I do believe that Cane and Lily will end up back together. But please people, let's keep it real. I'm not understanding all of this Lily bashing and Cane defending. Cane was wrong..plain and simple. You can't defend it. You can still like him, but to try to make Lily out to be the bad guy after what HE did is deflecting from the real issue. Cane may not be an overall bad guy, but HE DID choose his secret or his loyalty to P3 over his relationship with Lily. He gave her up to raise a child that HE KNEW wasn't his. So for him to come around the corner saying "you are my world, blah blah" is a little hard to believe. So Lily has every right to livid with him and she has every right to leave him if thats what she chooses. I didn't see people giving Cane a hard time when he ditched Amber to the curb, (especially in the cruel manner in which he did it) Amber still loved him, she was just misguided. But she deceived him, just like he deceived Lily. Call a spade a spade. I love Sharon's character, but she is dead wrong for lying about her child's paternity. I won't defend that. I understand people liking Cane, but how in the world can his behavior be defended. Now everybody's talking about Lily's reaction, she's immature, and Neil and Devon's actions. This has nothing to do with them. They will react as they see fit. Cane is the one that created this mess to begin with. You see this is where everyone has gone wrong. Cane didn't start this, Philip did. If Philip had never gone to Australia, Cane wouldn't have known about GC or the Chancellors. Put the blame where it should be, squarely on PCIII's shoulders. Philip knew exactly how badly Cane wanted to belong and how much family meant to Cane so he played on that hoping that Cane would follow through, and Cane did just that. Now Philip has decided to come back and Cane is getting the brunt of verbal and physical abuse. No, man this is just so wrong. Philip set these events in motion when he faked his death 20 years ago, yet he gets a past but the kind, loving young man that he used is the town's outcast. This is totally unbelievable and just downright wrong. Come on be truthful and be fair about this. |
#55
2009/07/07 03:24PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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sj77 |
Quote Charme: sj77 I think that we can agree to disagree about Neil and Devon  And as you have stated I have no doubt that Lily will make her own decisions. I don't expect her to get over this and/or forgive Cane in a day. I would like to say though, that I wish she had gone to Colleen's, to a hotel, kicked Cane out or gone to the GCAC. I think Lily and Cane will end up together in the end. She just needs time to get past it. It may happen sooner than we think. Spoilers show that Lily will get devasting news. It'll probably be cancer and Cane will be the one that gets her through it. Just my prediction. |
#56
2009/07/07 04:14PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
new life |
Pillip is the blame for this whole thing.Cane was just doing a favor for a freind and reversal.How could Cane turn down a chance to have a loving family finally in his life? Why veryone want to blame Cane is beyonde me it was all Phillips doing. |
#57
2009/07/07 05:53PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
annyhall |
New Life good post. You know what really got me was all the devastated lives this lie caused. I felt so sorry for Jill. She has lost another son now and I think she really loved Cane the most. Mrs C had a stroke and she mentioned that losing Cane was like another death. Nina is hurt finding that P3 didn't want her or her son and would rather be dead then with them. How will his son take the revelation that his father abandoned him? Lily losing her faith in her new husband a broken marriage and a broken heart! Cane has lost everyone he loves he is were he most feared he'd be if the truth was known, alone. PC3 is the only one who seems to have gained anything. He has gotten his entire family back, he is the true heir, he's living in the mansion! He now has come out the closet and is accepted back into the fold. But he is the reason all these lives has been destroyed there would have been no lie if he hadn't put it into motion and this man is emotionless with no remorse. There should be a very hot place in hell for someone that would hurt so many people like he has. PC3 is a selfish man! |
#58
2009/07/07 06:34PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
Sweet Patootie |
Quote Collett: Regardless of what has happened I still think that Cane is a good guy. Lilly told him that she didn't care who he was, she still loved him. He didn't come to GC looking for $$$. Whatever his reasons for helping PC3, I don't think he was trying to hurt anyone. I know that every one is mad at him right now and they have a right to be but hopefully his character will be redeemed and he will stay in GC for a long time. He was a more faithful son and Chancellor than PC3 ever was. Even good people make bad choices. Cane must have been not just willing to help his friend (PC3) out of a jam, but also desperate for a better life. I would have a very hard time forgiving anyone who did this. |
#59
2009/07/07 06:42PM
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annyhall |
Quote Sweet Patootie: Quote Collett: Regardless of what has happened I still think that Cane is a good guy. Lilly told him that she didn't care who he was, she still loved him. He didn't come to GC looking for $$$. Whatever his reasons for helping PC3, I don't think he was trying to hurt anyone. I know that every one is mad at him right now and they have a right to be but hopefully his character will be redeemed and he will stay in GC for a long time. He was a more faithful son and Chancellor than PC3 ever was. Even good people make bad choices. Cane must have been not just willing to help his friend (PC3) out of a jam, but also desperate for a better life. I would have a very hard time forgiving anyone who did this. Why would you have a hard time forgiving someone who ask you for forgiveness. If I had done something that hurt people and then regretted I did it. Could not go back and change it because what is done is done. All I could do is ask for mercy and forgiveness. I would hope the people I asked this from would have the mercy in their hearts to forgive. Unforgiveness has been known to physically kill a person. So forgiveness is not only good for the transgressor but also good for the injured party |
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#60
2009/07/07 06:59PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Sweet Patootie |
Quote annyhall: Quote Sweet Patootie: Quote Collett: Regardless of what has happened I still think that Cane is a good guy. Lilly told him that she didn't care who he was, she still loved him. He didn't come to GC looking for $$$. Whatever his reasons for helping PC3, I don't think he was trying to hurt anyone. I know that every one is mad at him right now and they have a right to be but hopefully his character will be redeemed and he will stay in GC for a long time. He was a more faithful son and Chancellor than PC3 ever was. Even good people make bad choices. Cane must have been not just willing to help his friend (PC3) out of a jam, but also desperate for a better life. I would have a very hard time forgiving anyone who did this. Why would you have a hard time forgiving someone who ask you for forgiveness. If I had done something that hurt people and then regretted I did it. Could not go back and change it because what is done is done. All I could do is ask for mercy and forgiveness. I would hope the people I asked this from would have the mercy in their hearts to forgive. Unforgiveness has been known to physically kill a person. So forgiveness is not only good for the transgressor but also good for the injured party Easier said than done. IMO. |
#61
2009/07/07 07:16PM
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annyhall |
Quote Sweet Patootie: Quote annyhall: Quote Sweet Patootie: Quote Collett: Regardless of what has happened I still think that Cane is a good guy. Lilly told him that she didn't care who he was, she still loved him. He didn't come to GC looking for $$$. Whatever his reasons for helping PC3, I don't think he was trying to hurt anyone. I know that every one is mad at him right now and they have a right to be but hopefully his character will be redeemed and he will stay in GC for a long time. He was a more faithful son and Chancellor than PC3 ever was. Even good people make bad choices. Cane must have been not just willing to help his friend (PC3) out of a jam, but also desperate for a better life. I would have a very hard time forgiving anyone who did this. Why would you have a hard time forgiving someone who ask you for forgiveness. If I had done something that hurt people and then regretted I did it. Could not go back and change it because what is done is done. All I could do is ask for mercy and forgiveness. I would hope the people I asked this from would have the mercy in their hearts to forgive. Unforgiveness has been known to physically kill a person. So forgiveness is not only good for the transgressor but also good for the injured party Easier said than done. IMO. If it was a choice between my health and unforgiveness. Forgiveness would be Easy! |
#62
2009/07/07 07:22PM
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Sweet Patootie |
I don't dispute that forgiveness is a good thing. Therapeutic for the forgiver, especially. I'm just saying it is not easy sometimes to forgive after being hurt, whether intentionally or not. JMO. |
#63
2009/07/07 09:08PM
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CHATTERBOX22 |
Quote daddybigdraws: Cane was wrong for lying about who he was but it is just a shame people can't see him for the person he is. He isn't littered with faults like Billy. He could have taken advantage of the Chancelor fortune many times over but didn't. He just wanted a freaking family. Someone to love. He had Jill's back no matter what. When you think of it he was used by Amber, Chloe, Jill and Kay. He didnt want to fall for Lily because "she was young" but he couldn't help it they had a lot in common. I find myself more pissed off at Nina more then anyone. In fact it has to make her feel like crap that a man would rather die (literally) then be with her...  well that is no exactly true. Cane did admit to going to the lab with his wallet, to have them change the DNA for Chloe's and Cane's paternity test. and guess what I bet it was nit chump change it was Chancellor funds. As far as his lying it was wrong no matter he reasoning. Grant I honestly believes that he loves Lily, but he should still be treated like everyone else. A liar is a liar bottom line. |
#64
2009/07/07 09:11PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
Tambam |
Quote Collett: Regardless of what has happened I still think that Cane is a good guy. Lilly told him that she didn't care who he was, she still loved him. He didn't come to GC looking for $$$. Whatever his reasons for helping PC3, I don't think he was trying to hurt anyone. I know that every one is mad at him right now and they have a right to be but hopefully his character will be redeemed and he will stay in GC for a long time. He was a more faithful son and Chancellor than PC3 ever was. I love Cane too!! I hope he doesn't leave the show. Nevermind he's sexy as hell. |
#65
2009/07/07 09:11PM
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CHATTERBOX22 |
Quote foreverb18: Quote davistwins2: lol! cane is cruel and and no good from day one. characters like him create drama and cliffhanger fridays. ( gosh friday was good ) - i hate cane because if he wanted to bring comfort then why  Hate is such a strong word. Cane made a mistake and he's admitted doing so. He regrets it. One mistake is not a reason to start hating him. If thats the case then we should hate everyone on the show and not watch it anymore. Seriously, give Cane a break. A mistake that he admitted once his back was up to the wall and he had no choice but to come clean. That is not a good guy that is someone who is busted. |
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