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Cane is a good guy!!

Started by Collett at 2009/07/04 07:16AM
Latest post: 2009/07/08 09:09PM, Views: 2069, Replies: 120
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#41   2009/07/06 02:31PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
Auntirhee
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Quote g4666: ITA. Cane is a good guy and he doesn't deserve how he's being treated by the perfect residents of GC (sarcasm). I really feel for him because he has done everything he can to help. Remember when Tyra and Ana first came to GC. He put them up in a hotel and paid for it himself. When Lily had problems, he was always there to confide in. The same with Jill. He was always there for Jill through tears and cheers. IMHO, Cane gave more than he received. I understand where he is coming from because he had no one. Everybody at the BBQ had families to grow up with. Billy & Philip took theirs for granted and Cane was appreciative to have found one. My heart breaks and bleeds for him because if anyone should have stood by him, it should have been Lily. She is the only person he has spoken to about his lonely childhood. I literally cried when he told Lily about his childhood and that he loved her and he always will.
Bravo! G4, Bravo! I think that so far you and I are the only ones that think this way, my goodness, Cane has suffered tremendously, and is getting murdered for it. He has been on this goody, goody mission since he has been there. He has been a sounding board for everyone basically. And, you are right, everyone had families to grow up with. And most of them took advantage of that blessing. He spoke to Lily on numorous occasions about his childhood. Come on, did it not sink at all, his need to be loved and have a family. If you ask me, the reasoning behind it does not make a whole lot of since to me, depressed, I have to wonder, who is thinking what. Well G, we know that Cane loves Lily, we'll see what Lilys next step will be.

#42   2009/07/07 01:23PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Quote g4666:
Quote foreverb18:
Quote Touched:
Quote Oreo123: Cane is the consumate liar! Viewers were told he was lieing and then we watched him so it with all the sincerity of Pope John Paul in prayer.......AMAZING! Can't seperate truth from his own lies and neither can anyone else.

YES CANE IS GOOD AT LIEING! A REAL PROFESSIONAL!


Yes, but his sins don't come close to what PC3 has done! Keep Cane, boot PC3!


Couldnt have said it better myself!!!!


Foreverb18 gr8 posts and absolutely fabulous summations. ITA. Thank you.


Thanks so much! I just love this show! And Cane!

#43   2009/07/07 01:25PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Quote davistwins2: lol! cane is cruel and and no good from day one. characters like him create drama and cliffhanger fridays. ( gosh friday was good )
- i hate cane because if he wanted to bring comfort then why


Hate is such a strong word. Cane made a mistake and he's admitted doing so. He regrets it. One mistake is not a reason to start hating him. If thats the case then we should hate everyone on the show and not watch it anymore. Seriously, give Cane a break.

#44   2009/07/07 01:28PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Quote davistwins2: lol! cane is cruel and and no good from day one. characters like him create drama and cliffhanger fridays. ( gosh friday was good )
- i hate cane because if he wanted to bring comfort then why


Great quote by Oreo123 which sums up exactly what took place with Cane:

"It takes years to build a reputation and one instant - a lie - to tear it down"

This is what happened with Cane. But he can redeem himself. It doesnt make him a bad guy though. Makes him human.

#45   2009/07/07 01:35PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Quote Auntirhee:
Quote g4666: ITA. Cane is a good guy and he doesn't deserve how he's being treated by the perfect residents of GC (sarcasm). I really feel for him because he has done everything he can to help. Remember when Tyra and Ana first came to GC. He put them up in a hotel and paid for it himself. When Lily had problems, he was always there to confide in. The same with Jill. He was always there for Jill through tears and cheers. IMHO, Cane gave more than he received. I understand where he is coming from because he had no one. Everybody at the BBQ had families to grow up with. Billy & Philip took theirs for granted and Cane was appreciative to have found one. My heart breaks and bleeds for him because if anyone should have stood by him, it should have been Lily. She is the only person he has spoken to about his lonely childhood. I literally cried when he told Lily about his childhood and that he loved her and he always will.
Bravo! G4, Bravo! I think that so far you and I are the only ones that think this way, my goodness, Cane has suffered tremendously, and is getting murdered for it. He has been on this goody, goody mission since he has been there. He has been a sounding board for everyone basically. And, you are right, everyone had families to grow up with. And most of them took advantage of that blessing. He spoke to Lily on numorous occasions about his childhood. Come on, did it not sink at all, his need to be loved and have a family. If you ask me, the reasoning behind it does not make a whole lot of since to me, depressed, I have to wonder, who is thinking what. Well G, we know that Cane loves Lily, we'll see what Lilys next step will be.


I agree with you both. And I think we are in the minority here.

#46   2009/07/07 01:51PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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If Cane loves Lily why did he continue the deception and marry Chloe? All he had to do was substitute his blood for PC III's. He didn't preferring to keep PC's secret and lose Lily...he still would have a family..and a family - with whomever is what was important to him!

Chloe lied but told the truth BEFORE being caught thinking Cane would make a better father and Billy wouldn't take his responsibilities seriously. Then - she fessed up. Cane continued to pretend he was the father even going all out to fight for the right to be her father all the while knowing he was putting more agony upon more people;. Cane told the truth because he had no choice..he was caught..big difference!

Cane will be redeemed so the argument over his deception is moot. PC will be forgiven knowing the inner struggle he wrestled with in a time his sexuality would not have been accepted. Everyone will come to terms with both of them and the fraud they committed. Should each of them wait 20 years or 2 years to forgive them? No...but forgiveness will not come easy...but it will come!

#47   2009/07/07 02:13PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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cane is a good guy sure he made lots of mistake but he genuinely loves that family. phillip is the villain -he's selfish, self absorbed he used cane knowing how much cane wanted a family, then he comes back doesnt even let him know b4 he shows up, even worse he doesnt even have the good graces to defend him! what an ass. and nina treating cane like he's the worst thing that ever happened.
i hope jill and kath. forgive him he was and is a better son to her than either billy or "phillip" im using sarcastic quote marks here.

if all he wanted was to use them he had plenty of chances to swindle them out of their money, i mean he turned away the money kathrine offered him for his wedding and gave it to charity, quit jabot bc he was so loyal to jill i mean come on give him a break.

Lily does have a right to be angry and hurt and she needs time to figure things out. its nice of neil be want to protect her but he needs to back off alittle.
i hope cane and lily eventually work things out.

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#48   2009/07/07 02:19PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
TrudyTramaine
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I love Cane I feel really bad for him. Regardless, I still think he's a good guy! It's not even his fault that he came to GC. And does anyone listen to him? Clearly he came there for the real Philip..not because of the money.
Anyways, I agree with what you said.

#49   2009/07/07 02:20PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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This is a soap and I do believe that Cane and Lily will end up back together.

But please people, let's keep it real. I'm not understanding all of this Lily bashing and Cane defending. Cane was wrong..plain and simple. You can't defend it.

You can still like him, but to try to make Lily out to be the bad guy after what HE did is deflecting from the real issue.

Cane may not be an overall bad guy, but HE DID choose his secret or his loyalty to P3 over his relationship with Lily. He gave her up to raise a child that HE KNEW wasn't his. So for him to come around the corner saying "you are my world, blah blah" is a little hard to believe.

So Lily has every right to livid with him and she has every right to leave him if thats what she chooses.

I didn't see people giving Cane a hard time when he ditched Amber to the curb, (especially in the cruel manner in which he did it) Amber still loved him, she was just misguided. But she deceived him, just like he deceived Lily.

Call a spade a spade. I love Sharon's character, but she is dead wrong for lying about her child's paternity. I won't defend that. I understand people liking Cane, but how in the world can his behavior be defended.

Now everybody's talking about Lily's reaction, she's immature, and Neil and Devon's actions. This has nothing to do with them. They will react as they see fit. Cane is the one that created this mess to begin with.

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#50   2009/07/07 02:24PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
jjourney
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i hope this time cane will fight for lily and go after what he wants. and i hope lily will give him a chance but she should definitely let him grovel for a while.

#51   2009/07/07 02:31PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Who's bashing Lily sj77? As a Lane fan I support both and yes as you said I believe Cane and Lily will find their way back together. My problem with Neil and Devon is the fact that they can be there for Lily, but for goodness sakes don't treat her like she's five years old. It's ridiculous for Neil to refer to her as his little girl. Devon needs to stop walking into Cane's house telling him shut up and don't give me any trouble. All this dialog is ridiculous. I loved the fact that Lily screamed at Cane and wanted answers, that was spot on, but Neil banging on the door and coming in their like big daddy hero was wrong. Let Lily hash things out in her own mind, that's the way she should be written. And with all that's going on, as the title of this thread suggest, Cane is still ultimately a good guy in my eyes.

#52   2009/07/07 02:35PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
jjourney
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did you see the look on Cane's face when he realized how much he had hurt them especially Lily-pure agony-i felt so bad for him.

#53   2009/07/07 02:37PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
sj77
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Quote Charme: Who's bashing Lily sj77? As a Lane fan I support both and yes as you said I believe Cane and Lily will find their way back together. My problem with Neil and Devon is the fact that they can be there for Lily, but for goodness sakes don't treat her like she's five years old. It's ridiculous for Neil to refer to her as his little girl. Devon needs to stop walking into Cane's house telling him shut up and don't give me any trouble. All this dialog is ridiculous. I loved the fact that Lily screamed at Cane and wanted answers, that was spot on, but Neil banging on the door and coming in their like big daddy hero was wrong. Let Lily hash things out in her own mind, that's the way she should be written. And with all that's going on, as the title of this thread suggest, Cane is still ultimately a good guy in my eyes.


Bashing is referring to Lily being immature and wrong for not talking to Cane, etc. I've seen several threads posted about that.

But your post proves my point. You say very little about what Cane did and about 85% of the focus is on how Neil and Devon are protective. Big deal. And what do you expect under the circumstances, really. Lily still does what she wants to do anyway.

What does Neil calling Lily (who's only 22 by the way) his little girl? Lot's of fathers do that. What does that have to do with the cost of tea in China? Nothing.

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#54   2009/07/07 02:49PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
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Quote sj77:
Quote Charme: Who's bashing Lily sj77? As a Lane fan I support both and yes as you said I believe Cane and Lily will find their way back together. My problem with Neil and Devon is the fact that they can be there for Lily, but for goodness sakes don't treat her like she's five years old. It's ridiculous for Neil to refer to her as his little girl. Devon needs to stop walking into Cane's house telling him shut up and don't give me any trouble. All this dialog is ridiculous. I loved the fact that Lily screamed at Cane and wanted answers, that was spot on, but Neil banging on the door and coming in their like big daddy hero was wrong. Let Lily hash things out in her own mind, that's the way she should be written. And with all that's going on, as the title of this thread suggest, Cane is still ultimately a good guy in my eyes.


Bashing is referring to Lily being immature and wrong for not talking to Cane, etc. I've seen several threads posted about that.

But your post proves my point. You say very little about what Cane did and about 85% of the focus is on how Neil and Devon are protective. Big deal. And what do you expect under the circumstances, really. Lily still does what she wants to do anyway.

What does Neil calling Lily (who's only 22 by the way) his little girl? Lot's of fathers do that. What does that have to do with the cost of tea in China? Nothing.


The problem with Neil calling Lily his little girl is the fact that she's not a little girl, she's a grown woman with a husband. Lily was handling her own shyt when Neil comes knocking at the door like a mad man. Lily is very justified to be angry at Cane and to yell scream and do whatever. Lily went to she and Cane's house on her own to do just that, talk, yell or scream at Cane. Neil didn't need to come busting down the door and always trying to fight Lily's battles. Adults have to learn how to fight their own battles and handle their problems. Neil needs to back off and let Lily be an adult. As far as what Cane did, yeah he was wrong, but as I stated I know and feel that he is a good guy as the title of this thread says. I'm not going to bash Cane and say he's this or that, because his secret came out. I support Cane and Lily (Lane) separately and as a couple.

#55   2009/07/07 03:00PM
Re: Cane is a good guy!!
sj77
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Quote Charme:
Quote sj77:
Quote Charme: Who's bashing Lily sj77? As a Lane fan I support both and yes as you said I believe Cane and Lily will find their way back together. My problem with Neil and Devon is the fact that they can be there for Lily, but for goodness sakes don't treat her like she's five years old. It's ridiculous for Neil to refer to her as his little girl. Devon needs to stop walking into Cane's house telling him shut up and don't give me any trouble. All this dialog is ridiculous. I loved the fact that Lily screamed at Cane and wanted answers, that was spot on, but Neil banging on the door and coming in their like big daddy hero was wrong. Let Lily hash things out in her own mind, that's the way she should be written. And with all that's going on, as the title of this thread suggest, Cane is still ultimately a good guy in my eyes.


Bashing is referring to Lily being immature and wrong for not talking to Cane, etc. I've seen several threads posted about that.

But your post proves my point. You say very little about what Cane did and about 85% of the focus is on how Neil and Devon are protective. Big deal. And what do you expect under the circumstances, really. Lily still does what she wants to do anyway.

What does Neil calling Lily (who's only 22 by the way) his little girl? Lot's of fathers do that. What does that have to do with the cost of tea in China? Nothing.


The problem with Neil calling Lily his little girl is the fact that she's not a little girl, she's a grown woman with a husband. Lily was handling her own shyt when Neil comes knocking at the door like a mad man. Lily is very justified to be angry at Cane and to yell scream and do whatever. Lily went to she and Cane's house on her own to do just that, talk, yell or scream at Cane. Neil didn't need to come busting down the door and always trying to fight Lily's battles. Adults have to learn how to fight their own battles and handle their problems. Neil needs to back off and let Lily be an adult. As far as what Cane did, yeah he was wrong, but as I stated I know and feel that he is a good guy as the title of this thread says. I'm not going to bash Cane and say he's this or that, because his secret came out. I support Cane and Lily (Lane) separately and as a couple.


I'm sorry, but when a loved one, whether family or friend feels as though their loved one has been wronged, they step in and protect their friend.

An example would be on the Sex and the City Movie when Big left Carrie at the alter. Charlotte yelled at him to stay away from Carrie. I don't take that as them being too protective. That's waht happens when you're emotional about something and in the heat of the moment. This situation just happened. Good grief. Give everyone involved a chance to think and regroup.

I don't see how it's possible to judge Neil or Devon on their behavior after what Cane has done. They reacted the way any normal family would have reacted.

And my mom considers me her little girl, and it's nothing wrong with that. Lily will handle her business as she's always has.

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