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lily has a right to be upset

Started by soapoperapimp at 2009/07/03 10:54AM
Latest post: 2009/07/08 01:13AM, Views: 607, Replies: 26
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#11   2009/07/04 01:50PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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I agree that Lily does have a right to be upset but I feel she needs to stop running home to Neil. She is a married woman and as long as she is around her family they will discourage her from communicating with Cane. No matter what Cane has done, it is very clear that he loves Lily very much. He came to GC to find a family and help PC3 out. He didn't plan on falling in love but he did. To give him credit, after he got married he called Philip and told him what was happening but Philip asked him to keep up the charade. It is not like he maliciously continued lying. He informed Philip that Nina was investigating and Philip still wanted him to carry on lying. And what I know of the Cane character, he is loyal and supportive of the people that he loves.

Lily needs to work her business out and keep her family out of it. Devon has no right speaking to Cane in Cane's house like that. I think they have gone too far with that. Cane allowed Devon and Neil to speak to him like that because he respects them as Lily's family and he feels ashamed of what he did. Respect should go both ways. Cane treats Lily well so I hope that Colleen is the voice of reason in all of this. You can sympathize with Lily but point out too that she has never been happier than when she was with Cane and that it is as plain as the nose on her face that Cane really and truly loves her.

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#12   2009/07/04 03:09PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Quote soapoperapimp: she dies not serve what just happen cane lying to her lily has doen nothing to hurt anyone nor does she look down on people can't understand why people don't like her and say she deserves it


I don't blame her a bit. She just found out the man she loved, trusted and married has been lying to her for years. About one of the most basic things there is, who he is. HE may not have set out to hurt anyone, but that has been the end result.

#13   2009/07/05 04:01PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Exactly, this is about deception, lies, and trust. Cane may not have set out to intentionally hurt Lily, but his choices and actions have caused her great pain. Lily has every right to be upset. She needs some time to process what she has learned and to sort out her emotions. Then she can determine how to handle her marriage. If she chooses to do that at home with Neil, then that is her choice. There is nothing childest about leaning on family for support and everyone on this soap has done it. If she was sticking by his side without wavering, people would call her weak and needy. She's wrong regargless of what she does to some people.

Quote Oreo123: This is not about being a Chancellor heir or namesake. It is about a deception that went on for two years while he smiled, lied and kept right on smiling. He lies sooooooo easily. How can Lily trrust ANYTHING he said was the truth? His deception was selfishly motivated and hurt many people affecting many lives -and broke Lily's heart. Tight up to the end he lied..asking for a celebration kiss when his DNA results were shown he was PC III...AMAZING! Then the DNA testing for Dehlia....had Chloe not owned up Cane never would have....Chloe could have had her baby ripped from her by a deceitful liar. No this is not about lying about your name, or the year of your birth...it is stealing someones trust and playing on that for 2+ years for your own agenda and needs.You put yourself first Cane..your needs not Lily. You do not do that to someone you love.
Upset...Lily will be devastated....shattered....until she can heal....

#14   2009/07/05 04:06PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
Soulja
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I have not seen the show, but Devon doesn't need to criticize anyone. Next, he'll be fantasizing about Ana.



And Devon needs to butt out, he is a self righteous jerk. Nobody would dare to come into my house and confront my husband that way. He would simply receive a blow to his ego, and be escorted out by a well placed boot to his arrogant ass. "I'd like to help you out... which way did you come in." [/quote]

#15   2009/07/05 06:21PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Quote EVSCNB:
Quote Demus: If they showed Lilly in shock -

Lilly told Cane she loves him for who he is and that it DIDN'T MATTER IF HE WAS A CHANCELLOR OR NOT. Lilly never knew about his childhood and she just about excepted the fact that he didn't want to talk about it.

So, yeah Lilly has a right to be upset but -

It's not like he came to GC to deliberately hurt her. If her love is so strong for him and we all know he loves her, she should be able to find it in her heart to forgive him.

It's all about forgiveness!!!!! Let's see if snow white will forgive her prince charming

Edited to remove spoiler talk. Thanks, Candace


Let me tell you why Lily shouldn't be alllllll about forgiveness. Delia. He deliberately separated from Lily to maintain a lie. His desire to not be found out was more important than his love for her.


That's not true. Cane didn't want to separate from Lilly because of Delia...SILLY LILLY broke it off with Cane so he can be with Chloe and be the best father he could to Delia. Don't you remember the discussions about that...how dumb Lilly was to give up her man cuz some chick was preggers!

Anyway, I understand her being upset but I would rather see her shocked more than anything.

Love is love and she still acts like a little teeny bopper. JMO

#16   2009/07/05 10:05PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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yes Lily has every right to be pi$$ed at Cane..but that doesnt mean that she should just bail on her marriage and run back to Daddys

#17   2009/07/05 10:56PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Of course, Lilly has a right to be upset. Her world has just fallen apart because of what Cane has done. Her reaction to that was justified and understandable. I like Cane but all his convincing lies with such a sincere caring nature about him I really don't understand. And I really need to understand this more just like everyone else involved. Lily is really hurt right now. She needs to get over this tremendous shock and it will take some time for her to process this. Just like everyone else. There is really no excuse for decieving all the people that Cane did. I hope that in some way, he does pay for what he has done. He needs to know the seriousness of what he did. He might have meant well, but he decieved all the people that he claimed to love and care about. We need to know all the facts and I'm sure that Lilly will too.

#18   2009/07/06 08:16PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Quote nutterville: i so agree with you, lilly has a right to be upset but if she really loves cane then she should hear him out and try to work it out, thats why there are so many divorces. people don't try to work things out. cane is good to her doesn't beat on her. he lied yes but not out of malice, he didn't expect to meet lily and fall in love with her, sometimes you get in deeper and never quite know how to come clean, talking always helps.


It's too early for her to forgive him. She needs to deal with her emotions and heal from the deception and shock. She's, once again, been betrayed. To make matters worse, by someone whom she's come to see as her soulmate. As much as we all criticize the writers about their erratic writings and the silly storylines, we're now trying to flip the script on a possible potential for a character like Lilly to fully develop as a woman who's overcome a great challenge. She'll probably forgive him in the long run, but she has to work through her pain, and he has to prove his worth to her.

#19   2009/07/06 08:45PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Quote dimie:
Quote nutterville: i so agree with you, lilly has a right to be upset but if she really loves cane then she should hear him out and try to work it out, thats why there are so many divorces. people don't try to work things out. cane is good to her doesn't beat on her. he lied yes but not out of malice, he didn't expect to meet lily and fall in love with her, sometimes you get in deeper and never quite know how to come clean, talking always helps.


I am so co-signing your post.
It's too early for her to forgive him. She needs to deal with her emotions and heal from the deception and shock. She's, once again, been betrayed. To make matters worse, by someone whom she's come to see as her soulmate. As much as we all criticize the writers about their erratic writings and the silly storylines, we're now trying to flip the script on a possible potential for a character like Lilly to fully develop as a woman who's overcome a great challenge. She'll probably forgive him in the long run, but she has to work through her pain, and he has to prove his worth to her.

#20   2009/07/06 08:49PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
Northlander
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She doesn't deserve what happened but come on Neil, let your daughter grow up. Lily, you yourself said it didn't matter if Cane was a Chancellor. I am just hoping the writers will open Lily's eyes and keep this couple together. They really work.

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#21   2009/07/06 08:54PM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
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Quote annyhall:
Quote Tambam:
Quote soapoperapimp: she dies not serve what just happen cane lying to her lily has doen nothing to hurt anyone nor does she look down on people can't understand why people don't like her and say she deserves it



I like Lily. I kinda wish the writers make her think about this thing with Cane. I truly believe he loves her. Being newlyweds they are at the stage were they could forgive each other anything. I mean he only lied about his whole existence. Petty stuff. I said it before and I'll say it again. If Nikki can forgive Paul for giving her the clap. Anybody should be able to forgive anything on a soap.


LOL! Let the Church say Amen!!


Too funny.

#22   2009/07/08 01:13AM
Re: lily has a right to be upset
partyvibe
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Lily will be find,she just find out her husband has been lying to everyone for almost 2 years and she need time to digest it.This is the man she loves and want to have children with only to find out such news.

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