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Sharon playing God

Started by Butterfly_Kissess196 at 2009/06/30 03:55AM
Latest post: 2009/07/03 08:52PM, Views: 2237, Replies: 84
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#51   2009/07/02 06:39PM
Re: Sharon playing God
BoldMama
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Quote Soulsistah:
Quote suegerry: She needs not play God ....she has always been a good person. A thoughtful woman who cares about everyone and puts herself at risk for others.


Absolutely. The grave error, however, the writers are making is making Sharon out to be a Martyr again for Phick's sake, which after the past several weeks, no one is buying. Sharon would deny her own child the right to know her true father in order for the mistress who helped end her marriage to Nick and HER child live happily every after with Nick? It's so ludicrous that it's stunning. Every single message board out there is saying the same thing - whether you're a Sharon fan or not: WHY did she have to do that? Not believable at all. It's totally not in her character to deliberately hurt 3 people she loves dearly - Noah, Nick and Jack. She doesn't think her decision is hurting them, but is first and foremost protecting NICK, at the expense of the truth. This is where even ardent Sharon fans recognize that this sacrifice is just not in character for Sharon because it makes absolutely no sense for the reasons stated in this and other threads. No, this is simply a case of horrifically contrived writing on the part of the writers and just another reason fans have stopped watching.



ITA!!! I have always been a Sharon and Nick fan, but I'm sick of this s/l. It's not realistic.

#52   2009/07/02 06:49PM
Re: Sharon playing God
dumbfairiesgirl
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Quote BoldMama:
Quote Soulsistah:
Quote suegerry: She needs not play God ....she has always been a good person. A thoughtful woman who cares about everyone and puts herself at risk for others.


Absolutely. The grave error, however, the writers are making is making Sharon out to be a Martyr again for Phick's sake, which after the past several weeks, no one is buying. Sharon would deny her own child the right to know her true father in order for the mistress who helped end her marriage to Nick and HER child live happily every after with Nick? It's so ludicrous that it's stunning. Every single message board out there is saying the same thing - whether you're a Sharon fan or not: WHY did she have to do that? Not believable at all. It's totally not in her character to deliberately hurt 3 people she loves dearly - Noah, Nick and Jack. She doesn't think her decision is hurting them, but is first and foremost protecting NICK, at the expense of the truth. This is where even ardent Sharon fans recognize that this sacrifice is just not in character for Sharon because it makes absolutely no sense for the reasons stated in this and other threads. No, this is simply a case of horrifically contrived writing on the part of the writers and just another reason fans have stopped watching.



ITA!!! I have always been a Sharon and Nick fan, but I'm sick of this s/l. It's not realistic.


Wait for first of all it was Sharon doing to lie to Nick, Noah and Jack for Phyllis didn't walk up to Sharon and ask her to lie. Phyllis has more important things to worried about.
Second, I really think that she thinks that it will be all her fault if she took Summer away from daddy dearest. Even though that Nick can be involved with Summer and totally concern and still be there for her baby. Just like Noah for he is still a father to them
But whatever the reason was she was not thinking about Summer when she slept with Nick or how would Phyllis feel. Which proves one thing that she couldn't be the better person. For it still wrong for her to sleep with Nick.
She is letting everything stand in her way for she didn't fight Nick then because she can't deal with what was in front of them. Suddenly he is not responsible for just Noah.
So much as happened and Shick fault is that they didn't grow together.

#53   2009/07/02 08:15PM
Re: Sharon playing God
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While I realize that this is just a soap, the writers should realize that many people watch this soap and some being long time viewers. What they have done to Sharons character is wrong and I believe they are either trying to turn this soap into something beyond bizarre or make a political statement. To some who say Sharon is being selfish by lying you may be right to a degree. But were Nick and Phyllis not selfish in what they have done? What are the writers trying to say here, that its ok for skanks to break up marriages and then be given respect that wife # 1 didn't deserve? What makes Phyllis any more special? NOTHING DOES!!!! And I have posted many times-Sharon would not be dealing with any of this were it not for Phyllis imposing herself on Sharons marriage to Nick in the first place!!!!!

#54   2009/07/02 08:37PM
Re: Sharon playing God
Mrs. Sharon ...
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like i said in another thread...

i don't agree with Sharon lying about the results but i don't hate her for doing it. she is doing the wrong thing for good reason( in her mind).now wrong is wrong and she will have to live with the aftermath of it all .

Sharon is not doing out of malicious content and i sure as hell don't think its because she wants nick to choose her and only her. Sharon does not want nick to have to choose between her and the baby and phyllis and summer.

lord knows even when nick can have both in his life he always choose one over the other. nick Chose Phylis and having an affair over being with his grieving wife. Nick chose to go running to Sharon and after Sharon when he had phyllis (his wife) at home. sharon knows nick would hate him self if he was not there for Phylis like he was not for Sharon.

i would have preferred sharon to tell nick the truth but tell him that things are complicated right now and that they need to step back and deal with other things first....

like i said i don't agree with what she is doing but im not going to stone her for it.

#55   2009/07/02 08:52PM
Re: Sharon playing God
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Quote Mrs. Sharon Newman: like i said in another thread...

i don't agree with Sharon lying about the results but i don't hate her for doing it. she is doing the wrong thing for good reason( in her mind).now wrong is wrong and she will have to live with the aftermath of it all .

Sharon is not doing out of malicious content and i sure as hell don't think its because she wants nick to choose her and only her. Sharon does not want nick to have to choose between her and the baby and phyllis and summer.

lord knows even when nick can have both in his life he always choose one over the other. nick Chose Phylis and having an affair over being with his grieving wife. Nick chose to go running to Sharon and after Sharon when he had phyllis (his wife) at home. sharon knows nick would hate him self if he was not there for Phylis like he was not for Sharon.

i would have preferred sharon to tell nick the truth but tell him that things are complicated right now and that they need to step back and deal with other things first....

like i said i don't agree with what she is doing but im not going to stone her for it.


Well Said!

#56   2009/07/03 04:17AM
Re: Sharon playing God
dumbfairiesgirl
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Quote shademorgis: While I realize that this is just a soap, the writers should realize that many people watch this soap and some being long time viewers. What they have done to Sharons character is wrong and I believe they are either trying to turn this soap into something beyond bizarre or make a political statement. To some who say Sharon is being selfish by lying you may be right to a degree. But were Nick and Phyllis not selfish in what they have done? What are the writers trying to say here, that its ok for skanks to break up marriages and then be given respect that wife # 1 didn't deserve? What makes Phyllis any more special? NOTHING DOES!!!! And I have posted many times-Sharon would not be dealing with any of this were it not for Phyllis imposing herself on Sharons marriage to Nick in the first place!!!!!


I never thought that Nick and Phyllis was right for I said that it was fantasy just escaping reality but that still doesn't make it right.
And just because Phyllis slept with Nick doesn't make it right for Sharon to do the same thing. As the old saying goes two wrong never make it right.
For isn't Sharon responsible for her own mistakes just like Phyllis.
And what cause their marriage to failed wasn't Phyllis.
As I posted many times before that before Nick was turning to Phyllis he has a lot of guilt and anger and he wasn't there for Sharon. Big mistake!
For he went after Daniel because he thought that Daniel was getting away with Cassie death. In turns that is what cause their marriage to failed for they can't deal with it.

#57   2009/07/03 04:21AM
Re: Sharon playing God
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And also I just want to said to shademorgis why are you not giving Nick the blame for he is the one that will always be a cheater. He cheat with Phyllis and now Sharon that makes them both homewrecker. But it still takes two to tango.

#58   2009/07/03 10:49AM
Re: Sharon playing God
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Fairiesgirl-I totally agree, and have posted that Nick takes most of the blame for this. But Phyllis should never have made herself available to Nick when he was married to Sharon. Even if Nick and Sharon were having marital problems, it was THEIR problems to work out. If its ok for people like Phyllis to make themselves available to a married person, this to me undermines marriage. If that is acceptable, then whats the point of marriage at all? Phyllis wants her marriage to Nick respected, yet she didn't respect Sharon's. Also, Nick and Phyllis have also had marital problems. Did that give Sharon the right to be available for Nick while married to Phyllis? No. Then the same should apply to Phyllis.

#59   2009/07/03 02:08PM
Re: Sharon playing God
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I so agree with everyone. Phyllis never should have been involved with Nick, since she too was a rebound. Why in the heck would she think this thing with her and nick would last when he cheated on his wife. DUH what goes around come around point blank..

#60   2009/07/03 08:52PM
Re: Sharon playing God
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Quote shademorgis: Fairiesgirl-I totally agree, and have posted that Nick takes most of the blame for this. But Phyllis should never have made herself available to Nick when he was married to Sharon. Even if Nick and Sharon were having marital problems, it was THEIR problems to work out. If its ok for people like Phyllis to make themselves available to a married person, this to me undermines marriage. If that is acceptable, then whats the point of marriage at all? Phyllis wants her marriage to Nick respected, yet she didn't respect Sharon's. Also, Nick and Phyllis have also had marital problems. Did that give Sharon the right to be available for Nick while married to Phyllis? No. Then the same should apply to Phyllis.


okay I agree with that but it should more of Nick head than Phyllis. Well Phyllis shouldn't make her available should stay away. But I really thought that you were putting this whole thing on Phyllis. And that throw me a bit because my thinking is that if Nick really love Sharon then he would had done things a lot different like try to keep his pants on in both affairs. For he is the one that forsaken his marriage vows because now I don't think that he knows what he wants but now the damage has been done.
Sharon should never went after Nick for that is why I thought that it was payback and also not making her a homewrecker but also a hypocrite. And I don't see that as love at all. For once a cheater always a cheater
and btw I do think that Phyllis is a hypocrite but still she got pregnant with Nick baby then I can see that Phyllis will see as one thing a threat to her marriage and that is why she is so deeply trying to hold on.

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