One Life To Live - MESSAGE BOARDS

==You're right ...I've never seen Blair discipline any of her children. Blair is a pouter! Hence, this is where her children get their attitudes from. IMO. LOL!

Anyone remember how old Jessica was when she and Christian were in love and she got pregnant with his child?

After watching yesterday! I stand by my earlier post!! She is not old enough to get married! She is already tring to use guilt and blame as well as her own daughter Hope to get her way! I loved how she said to Todd yesterday after he signed the papers "Now we can go check on Hope". Like it was Todds fault they weren't with her already!! Um hello sweetheart! One of you could have checked on her this whole time!! But instead you are acting like a spoiled brat!! Can't wait till Hope is older so she will finally get a clue!! And when she called Todd by his name because she wasn't getting her own way! I love Starr but what a brat!! A parents Job is to take care of their child, and teach him/her right and wrong, and many other important things! It is not to coddle them and let them do as they please just because they pout and stamp there foot!! I could have slapped Blair too! Acting like she has no problem with it! WHat a 2 faced Witch!! and then when Todd caves it's all his fault! She needs a wake up slap!!

ooh so much to say but must hold back

Humm! I stand by Starr who has every right not to trust Todd. Who's trying to be the adult here? Starr

If being an adult means making plans to steal a baby because you don't agree with your daughter's decision to place her under adoption then Starr should listen to Todd... or maybe lying to everyone we love is adult-like. Or maybe keeping a woman with amnesia and pretending she is childless and making love to her because she forgot who you really are is who Starr should look to for advice.

If being an adult means lying to a judge and the court no less to secure you win a judgement or chasing men most of your adult life - then yes Starr should listen to Blair, the other great parent for guidance.

Todd nor Blair has earned any merits in the parenting department. Although, children should listen to their parents, we must consider the parents in this case. Blair and Todd should be listening to Starr most of the time. ...Lead by example comes to mind. Todd is not a source to trust.

Starr is young but her reasoning skills beats Todd and Blair 95% of the time. Yes Starr made a mistake that most adults make as well. Think not? But she is trying to do the right thing which is more than I can say about Blair and Todd bickering and playing games all day long!

Todd and Blair have lied ,cheated and set nothing but horrible examples in front of their children. I felt for Todd when he wanted to keep his grandchild but let's face it, he was definitely part of the reason Starr did what she did.

If we're simply referring to age then yes Starr is under age. But thank goodness for the courts allowing parental consent because Starr and Cole should receive consent.

Blair and Todd have been married (what 5 times) too many times to preach that Starr must make adult decisions. Starr's reference to "The Ex-wives Club" was classic!

Yet Starr should listen to TODD? It's laughable to wonder why Starr doesn't desire a little more stability!

Cole made a mistake. Who doesn't? Oh yeah, Todd is the one we all should listen to. NOT!!! But as Starr pointed out they have a child and Cole wants commitment. He always has. This all could have played out differently if Todd and Blair were more adult-like.

If we are following the history of this show, I'd leave Todd's coniving arse too.

Whether Cole and Starr get married right away or not Todd and Blair have not been great examples at all. But is there still HOPE for them?

Key words here are they are the parents! and she is a minor who is acting like a spoiled brat! Her comment about" now they can go to Hope" spoke volumes!! Jst because her parents have done lots of stupid things is no reason to let her have free reign to do as she pleases! Most parents make mistakes but to let your kids walk all over you because they throw your wrong doings in your face every time they wat to do somethin stupid is wrong!! And IMO for once Todd is the only rational adult here!!
I have no problem with them being engaged but she needs to wait for marriage until she can LEGALLY on her own go to the town hall and file for the marriage Liscence without Mommy and Daddy!!

they are not getting married. The commercial doesn't even show them kissing

I really do believe that they will get married. THEY HAVE TOO!!! I mean look how far they have come. The baby is thiers and it's only right they get married. end of story spoilers or no spoilers.

They do not get married they postponed the wedding due to John's announement.The promo made me think they get married because they exchange rings but baley is right that the promo did not have them kissing.

I am upset to that they don't get married but at the same time I am happy because I would perfer they stay engaged til after the dangerous undercover story wraps up then get married when she turns 18.

Yay no wedding! That makes the mommy in me so happy!! I hope they stay engaged till she turns 18, and then not only can she have a big wedding with her family and friends!, she can go into the Landview Town Hall and file (with Cole ) for a marriage licsence and not have to force her parents to do anything!! Because she's of legal age!!
And by the way I am a Starr and Cole fan(well Starr more than Cole)but that doesn't mean i'm willing to say some things(Under age marriage and premarital sex) are okay when IMO it's not!!

Are we sure they are not getting married, cause in the clips, it shows them slipping the rings on each others fingers.

Ok so i only registered to post this cause i have been on this site forever and never felt the need to post. But as far as ppl saying Starr is acting like a whinny spoiled brat and so on and that they shouldn't get married. Who Cares if she wants to and this wasn't soapland she probally could do it without any parental consent. Cause in Most states when you have a baby they consider you an emancipated minor. Even if not right off the bat with her age and the drama with blair and todd. She could walk into any courthouse and get classified as one no problem. So let them be and quit acting like its the real world. Cause if it was She wouldn't need parental concent anyways.

I love Starr and Cole to death they have come so far to be together from the very beginning. they are meant to be. but I would love to see Cole out of his situation and Starr off in College or something and then marriage. it would be a happier time for them. and they would be alot older. if they get married now I think it would do them more harm than good. jumping into something before they are ready for it.isnt good. they are just both terrified of losing each other and they think if they get married then that wont happen. if think that was why Starr was fighting her dad so hard about it b/c she is just scared of losng Cole. dont hold it against her. they are just learnng how to be teen parents
postponing the wedding would be a very good thing.