One Life To Live - MESSAGE BOARDS

this is what I am hearing. Starr and Cole both aren't so sure they want to get married. John interrupts and Starr postpones the wedding. Todd refuses to sign after Blair does. Starr threatens to run away, so he does. I have no idea what happens with Cole yet

Starr threatens to run away if daddy doesn't sign the paper. Hmm is that acting like an adult? no I call that acting like the child she is!! Todd should have stood his ground! This is what is wrong with parnting today! We are letting our kids rule us because we are afraid!! A parents job is to teach there kids right from wrong to be good people, work ethic etc. It is not our job to coddle them and teach them that if they whine and pout and stamp their feet we will cave! This isn't how the real world works! Their boss isn't going to tell their employee oh it's okay to be late, it's okay to take extra breaks it's okay to not do your job! The real world idn't like that! Starr needs to grow up!!IMO!! and with that baby she better hurry up!!

Im glad im not alone I got called mean on the other Star and cole wedding thread.

If the wedding doesn't take place morally thats a good thing, but in soapland it's another. Maybe the surprize that is mentioned in the spoilers and the double wedding has to do with Marko and Langston.....instead of the Vicki, Charlie, Clint and Nora wedding.

I was thinking it could be Langston and Marko too. I doubt it. There's another new spoiler and it says Starr tells Cole about her view on marriage. The JOP is suppose to air on the 6 and 7 and this is the 8. They are too young to get married. I don't think Cole is going to jail. To me, it feels like she wants to marry him to keep him off drugs

i want it to be langston and markko too...but i think its viki and charlie,starr and cole...

I dont think the wedding is going to happen.I read that Bo wants john back on the force and John says the only way he will come back is if Cole doesnt have to go to jail?
So i am not sure who suggests it but Cole is asked to go undercover to bust the teen drug ring in his school?
I am not sure if Starr with be told to truth about working undercover but i can see Starr changing her mind about the wedding when Cole doesnt go to jail and Cole decides that he doesnt want Starr to be in danger with his undercover work so he decides that marrying her shouldnt happen!!

SPOILER-Cole tries to ease Starr's doubts. Starr and Cole DO get married. During the cermony JOHN MAKES AN ANNOCMENT...to help Cole's fate

i LOVE starr and cole together, but i don't want them to get married right now. i think it will cause them more angst than happiness and ultimately destroy them.

So he gets out of jail and what next. are they gonna get their own place? Yeah thats a good message to send out to all the teen girls out there!! Threaten your parents and get your own way right into your BF bed. she'll be knocked up in less then 5 months!!

I am sorry if this offends anyone in any way. Being a Young Adult/Teen depends on your view I do agree with what is going on with Starr and Cole. I am only 23 years old now. My sister Had her 1st child at the age of 17 like Starr as well. Starr is going to be turining 18 in 6 months anyways. I think it is ok for her to get married she has had a child and grown up. The spoiler about her throwing a fit is incorrect if you look at the soaps board for spoilers I think that was someones oppinion. Jon does get involved but not for a good reason. I am glad they are getting married Cole and Starr want to do the right thing by their baby and I fully AGREE!

Wow! Am I that disconnected and prehistoric? I never thought that I would live to see parents trying to talk their daughters out of marrying a young man who was trying to give their baby two married parents. I guess you all have never heard of "shotgun" weddings. LOL!

Not too long ago, if you got someones daughter pregnant, you couldn't avoid marriage because the parents were hunting you down (literally). I know Starr's situation is not the ideal situation...(there seldom is an ideal situation because of economics) but because the baby is here I can understand Cole and Starr wanting to do right by his daughter. They are in love and that's more than I can say about many teens today. Cole really does want to do the right thing!

How can you say to your son "Baby, a father should take responsibility and marry the mother of your child" and in the same breath say "don't marry her right now". The baby is already here in this situation!

Maybe it's because most people I know are married and are products of two married parents (and haven't conformed to the nu-wave of planned single parenting). But I feel the upcoming marriage could help place Cole and Starr in a better frame of mind having been through everything they've been through.

Marriage would give Starr and Hope something to look forward to and give Cole something to come home to. The deed has been done folks so why not get married? Starr can still attend school. I actually went to school with a married teen and she and her husband are still together with children. These days anything is possible with hard work! It would stop the ridiculing too!

I am by no means advocating teen pregnancy! Most of my children saw teen pregnancies during school and avoided unprotected sex like the plague because we taught them about protecting themselves and taught them to love their bodies etc. Thanks GOD they listened. Mix message - yes! Are they alive and happy - Yes! Smothering is not recommended folks!

Yes, Cole is in an awful situation at the moment. I'm really hoping he gets it together. (I"ve read that John will help) But IMO they are the sweetest thing since Romeo and Juliet. Trying to keep them apart can only invite more trouble.

Believe me teens I've met have shared some crazy things that parents could have avoided so easily. They would rather talk to anyone but their parents. How sad is that!!!Blair and Todd must become a little more open-minded at this point and support (not enable) but support them. Again, this is just my opinion.