Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

Why isn't Reva aware of everything that is going on with Jon and Lizzy??? Good grief, they live in the same house and yet Reva has nothing to do with any of them. Jon called her last week to sit with Lizzy after he told Lizzy he was leaving to be with Tammy, therefore, Reva knows they are on the verge of splitting up. Also, Reva still thinks Lizzy has PPD. Wouldn't you think, after all that Reva went through with PPD, that she would have been with Lizzy 24/7??? I just don't understand how the writers could have taken Reva out of all of this. It's so stupid that she ignores her family to be with Cal, whom she hardly knows. Here her son is going through the worst thing in his life, her daughter-in-law has totally lost it, and her grandaughter is at risk of being hurt and yet WHERE IS REVA DURING ALL OF THIS??? She is at the bedside of a stranger. Poor writing, AGAIN.

you have to understand, reva just looked cancer in the face,
fought it hard and survived. she has a bond with cal,because of this shared travesty. i don't know how she could be anywhere else.
jonathan is a grown man, and men take care of themselves and their wives and families. a man who ran home to mama,
when he was having marital troubles, is not a MAN, but nothing more than a mamas boy!
hunter~

Simple answer- Reva is ALL about Reva!