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Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!

Started by merrymary at 2007/09/04 08:37AM
Latest post: 2007/09/05 12:12PM, Views: 764, Replies: 45
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#11   2007/09/04 11:45AM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Delonjo
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How is he to ignore Natalia, the mother of his son? The same way that Harley ignores each father of her own kids? Harley never does that. In fact, she used to throw all said fathers in Gus's face repeatedly. "They're not your kids!"

#12   2007/09/04 11:52AM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Barrie
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I think they need a break anyway. They both have too much baggage and need to sort things out. Too much drama and unsorted feelings towards their ex's. It's not fair to anyone at this point. Harley should forgive Gus and Gus should forgive Harley, but they need to figure where these other people will fit into their lives. Harley would be crazy to think that Gus is not going to "ever" talk or discuss things with Nat regarding Raf and the same goes for Dylan and Daisy. That whole situation gives me a headache. But, that's what you get when you have different daddys for different kids. Harley didn't create this monster, but she's faced to deal with it - or not. I say, let them separate for awhile - sort out their true feelings and move on from there. It shouldn't be forced.

#13   2007/09/04 11:52AM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Revasfan
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So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.

#14   2007/09/04 12:03PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
merrymary
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Quote Revasfan:

No point. The main issue is constantly being ignored, that he refuses to stop running to Natalia.


Yes, he was running to Natalia in the past. When he truly realized he might be losing Harley, he became more committed to her. That is why he wanted to renew his vowels. To begin anew,start fresh, make more of a commitment. But, no ,Harley is to pig-headed to give him another chance to redeem himself. He gave her another chance, but but not Harley. Love, yes they do love each other, but, once inawhile in anh marriage, you have to compromise, and Harley just can't do this, why?

#15   2007/09/04 12:04PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Barrie
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Quote Revasfan: So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.


Unfortunately, I can't argue with those facts. But, I don't remember Harley having a fit about him stroking her hand or kissing her when he sees her so how is that fool gonna know what ticks her off if she's too dumb to say anything. If I missed it, please forgive. If Gus were my husband, he would have soooo many bruises on his a$$ that he would be scared to say anything other than hows Rafe? That's how I would handle that whole situation. That touchy/feely stuff would cease to exist. Gus wouldn't like that.

#16   2007/09/04 12:05PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
gutsyangel
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Quote Revasfan: So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.


Thank you...Thank you...Thank you.... and by the way, I'd like to add that Harley's other husbands and fathers of her children cheated on her too. So how can she be expected to trust anything that comes out of Gus's mouth? How many times is she expected to forgive and forget? She's not playing the "holier than thou" attidtude, she's being pratical.

#17   2007/09/04 12:09PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
merrymary
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Quote gutsyangel:
Quote Revasfan: So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.


Thank you...Thank you...Thank you.... and by the way, I'd like to add that Harley's other husbands and fathers of her children cheated on her too. So how can she be expected to trust anything that comes out of Gus's mouth? How many times is she expected to forgive and forget? She's not playing the "holier than thou" attidtude, she's being pratical.


I wonder why so many of Harley's husbands have cheated on her? Could it be her holier then thou attitude she has...unforgiving, etc. Harley, always jumps to conclusions,without asking questions. It musst be Harley, huh?

#18   2007/09/04 12:10PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Revasfan
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Quote Barrie:
Quote Revasfan: So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.


Unfortunately, I can't argue with those facts. But, I don't remember Harley having a fit about him stroking her hand or kissing her when he sees her so how is that fool gonna know what ticks her off if she's too dumb to say anything. If I missed it, please forgive. If Gus were my husband, he would have soooo many bruises on his a$$ that he would be scared to say anything other than hows Rafe? That's how I would handle that whole situation. That touchy/feely stuff would cease to exist. Gus wouldn't like that.




Now that I agree with, she's being way nicer then I would have been.

And MerryMary, compromise??? He hopped a plane to New York while she was waiting in her wedding dress.

I mean, I got why, but he should have found her and told her to her face, and the note didn't even say that he was going to New York!!!

#19   2007/09/04 12:11PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Revasfan
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Quote merrymary:
Quote gutsyangel:
Quote Revasfan: So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.


Thank you...Thank you...Thank you.... and by the way, I'd like to add that Harley's other husbands and fathers of her children cheated on her too. So how can she be expected to trust anything that comes out of Gus's mouth? How many times is she expected to forgive and forget? She's not playing the "holier than thou" attidtude, she's being pratical.


I wonder why so many of Harley's husbands have cheated on her? Could it be her holier then thou attitude she has...unforgiving, etc. Harley, always jumps to conclusions,without asking questions. It musst be Harley, huh?




I agree with that, I'm not even a Harley fan. I just call them like I see them and this time I think that she shouldn't be blamed.

#20   2007/09/04 12:13PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
QueenReva
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I just don't understand why the writers keep making Gus look like a complete idiot.

He calls Harley and gets her voicemail, understandably since she is preparing for her marriage renewal, but does he leave her a message? No!

Buzz is in the kitchen, 20 feet away, does he go and tell him what's going on so that Harley won't worry? No!

Stupid, stupid, stupid!!!

#21   2007/09/04 12:15PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
merrymary
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Quote Revasfan:
Quote Barrie:
Quote Revasfan: So staying at the manison? Come on, everyone else in town stays at the damn becaon

stroking her hand in everyones face

kissing her

telling her all his marital problems?

it never ends and those things have nothing to do with his son.


Unfortunately, I can't argue with those facts. But, I don't remember Harley having a fit about him stroking her hand or kissing her when he sees her so how is that fool gonna know what ticks her off if she's too dumb to say anything. If I missed it, please forgive. If Gus were my husband, he would have soooo many bruises on his a$$ that he would be scared to say anything other than hows Rafe? That's how I would handle that whole situation. That touchy/feely stuff would cease to exist. Gus wouldn't like that.




Now that I agree with, she's being way nicer then I would have been.

And MerryMary, compromise??? He hopped a plane to New York while she was waiting in her wedding dress.

I mean, I got why, but he should have found her and told her to her face, and the note didn't even say that he was going to New York!!!


Let me know how you feel when you watch today's show. I'm assuming you haven't watched it yet. You know what they say about making an assumption. Yes, I feel sorry for Gus, he is caught between a rock and a hard place with these two women. He needs to leave Nat alone, I will say that. Just like Harley needs to leave Dylan alone. I do think this problem will work its way through, not right away but, it will . Love conquers all!!! Leave all dthe past behind them and move on,without Nat and Dylan...

#22   2007/09/04 12:58PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Kelly74
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I have to say that I feel sorry for Harley. I think she can forgive his cheating, but realizes that she doesn't have his heart completely anymore. I think she can even be a great stepmom to Rafe, but she knows that she won't ever have a healthy marriage until Gus deals with his feelings for Nat.

#23   2007/09/04 01:05PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
SndrElkins
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Harley is not the forgiving kind.She has never forgave anyone that has cheated on her so why now.It was time for H/G to split. Nat,Gus should just go ahead and be together.

#24   2007/09/04 01:13PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Delonjo
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She forgave Mallet long enough to get him into bed. Harley is a forgiving type, it's just that she has to get something that she wants in return. And Gus and his newfound inability to bow down to the Queen Harley's imminence has Harley is a tizzy. Gus isn't reflexively screaming "How high!" to Harley's announcements. All things change, except for Harley. She's been the same for 20 years.

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#25   2007/09/04 01:22PM
Re: Harley, deserves to lose Gus!!!
Karrie
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Gus & Nat need some closure to their teenage romance. They need to have a "sleepover" like Josh & Reva had so they can reminisce about their old times together, sort out their true feelings & who they really are now. They are not the same kids they were 16 years ago...no one remains stagnant. The only thing they are holding onto is some childhood memory. Until they do that Gus & Harley will never have a chance. Who wants to compete with an old flame? It's not fair to Harley, she deserves to have a man that is committed to her exclusively. Gus can still have a relationship with Rafe but he doesn't owe anything to Natalia unless she is the one he really wants. No woman wants to share their husband with another women.I don't blame Harley for not approving of Gus' "thing" for Natalia. If she accepted it at face value I would have to say she is Crazy!

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