Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

Quote gutsyangel:

Delonjo....you don't like the character Harley, do you???

You like Natalie even though she's doing all she can to get Gus back...even using her son Raf...she could have talked to Gus on the phone about the school..it wasn't something that had to be discussed in person. She knew what his answer would be. She's using Raf to stay close to Gus and take him away from Harley.

Quote Delonjo:

But he doesn't make it clear. He simply mouths platitudes for the benefit of do-gooders like Buzz and Frank, those paragons of virtue. I haven't heard him say anything to Nat about leaving him alone, she's crowding him, she needs to back off. Nothing. He tacitly approves of the attention, like Harley with Dylan. In fact, when she admitted her intentions to him, he sat there looking quite dumb and flummoxed. I heard not a single no.

Nat is being passive-aggressive. That's her style and I respect her for it. Until Gus clearly tells her to "step off," he keeps telling her yes, yes, yes. Each time she says "it's about Rafe," I chuckle up a storm.

Quote Delonjo: Yeah. He said those things and I didn't miss the ep. But he sure doesn't act like he said those things.

He can say what he wants. The truth is in allowing Nat to prance around Harley's home while she ain't there. At first, I thought that Gus wanted his marriage to work, but as the weeks have wore on, his wishy-washy intentions become obvious.
Nat's more honest and upfront than Harley and Gus.

Quote PRINCESSANNOD1:


Now that was just more then I could bare. Can you image that little witch offering to make something for Gus to eat in Harley's kitchen...the limits are not being set by GUS.

Quote merrymary: The marriage will be stronger than ever now. Harley, will realize how much she loves Gus and forgive him. It will take time, and time heals all wounds. Delonjo, Gus loves Harley, he has not made a decision to move on as you say he has done. He needs to fight back and let Natalia alone.It will take time, and it is now up to Harley to be sstronger than Gus. Men are the weaker sex!!!!

Quote neiceyblessed:

Ouch!! merrymary

Quote gutsyangel:

She needs to get off His back????? He shouldn't have been with Natalie on HER back!!! He made a Big mistake in running to Natalie after what he thought he saw. It's no excuse to have sex with another woman. Harley may forgive him, but I'm with her when it comes to never forgetting. How can you forget your husband's arms around another woman!!!

Quote Barrie: One of the beautiful things about marriage is the history that you share with that person. Unfortunately, there's both good & bad memories that are buried deep. IMO, regareless of how you convince yourself that something is forgiven, it's always deeply inbedded in your phyche. That being said, they both have a long road ahead if they sincerely want to repair this marriage. If one or both refuse to do that, then it's over. Nat should not be a factor in this equation regardless of the child they share unless Gus wants her continuously in the picture. Raf is a teenager who was raised by one parent. Gus deserves to be in Raf's life, but that doesn't require Nat's attention. Neither does Daisy require that Dylan & Harley being around each other. If they can agree to get along and continue to do their best with the babies they have, it's all good. But it's unfair if Gus & Harley want to repair old relationships from the past. Harley needs to let Dylan go (she didn't need to go to rehab with him) and Gus needs to stop leading Nat on with the subtle kisses and his goofy a$$, so-called explaining things to her. If I were Nat, I would be insulted and embarrassed and would'nt have told him how I felt. She was used for his immediate satisfaction and she ran with those emotions. I know Harley was upset and needed to get away, but why not to some resort or spa.

Quote Delonjo: In my opinion, Harley was a complete and total witch to Nat when she first came to town. She was always being suspicious and checking under her bed for ghosts, before Nat even tried anything. Yeah, she pretended to be nice, for Gus's sake. But then she had Nat fired for no good reason, other than insane jealousy and spite. Gus was pushing Harley to "play nice," but she would have none of it, in my opinion. Yeah. She opened up her home to Rafe for a literal moment, but then kicked him out practically the next day, preferring her daughter over Gus's son. Hey, it's her prerogative because it's her home.

Nat owes Harley nothing, in my opinion.

Quote merrymary: I am getting so angry with Gus. If he wants to get back together with Harley, and make this marriage work, he doesn't even need to see Natalia anymore. Make him self scare and don't feel he needs to talk to her about anything. Rafe ,is a teen now, talk things over with him, not Nat. She is no good in my book. A man chaser!! Harley, needs to get stronger and fight her off. More so then Gus!!

Quote laner111:


At first i kinda wanted to see nat and gus together when harley was acting strange..but seeing how hurt she is..i SO want Natalia to go away!!!! And when Gus was patting Nats hand in front of his emotional wreck of a wife!!! c'mon jerk! Have some compassion for your wife!

Quote neiceyblessed:

She had none for him.......