Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

One of the beautiful things about marriage is the history that you share with that person. Unfortunately, there's both good & bad memories that are buried deep. IMO, regareless of how you convince yourself that something is forgiven, it's always deeply inbedded in your phyche. That being said, they both have a long road ahead if they sincerely want to repair this marriage. If one or both refuse to do that, then it's over. Nat should not be a factor in this equation regardless of the child they share unless Gus wants her continuously in the picture. Raf is a teenager who was raised by one parent. Gus deserves to be in Raf's life, but that doesn't require Nat's attention. Neither does Daisy require that Dylan & Harley being around each other. If they can agree to get along and continue to do their best with the babies they have, it's all good. But it's unfair if Gus & Harley want to repair old relationships from the past. Harley needs to let Dylan go (she didn't need to go to rehab with him) and Gus needs to stop leading Nat on with the subtle kisses and his goofy a$$, so-called explaining things to her. If I were Nat, I would be insulted and embarrassed and would'nt have told him how I felt. She was used for his immediate satisfaction and she ran with those emotions. I know Harley was upset and needed to get away, but why not to some resort or spa.

Bravo Barrie! You nailed it!

Nat owes Harley absolutely nothing, so I don't blame her one whit.

Angel, you are absolutely right. Harley , helped Natalia when she came to town. She was trying to help her. Natalia, is a tramp, with a capital T. Any woman that goes after a married man is just a no good troll! I have never liked Natalia since she game on the scene. I don't care if she has a son with Gus, she needs to leave him alone. Gus, is just trying to compensate for the hard times she had raising their son. But, that time is over, and Gus also needs to realize that. Rafe, is grown up, give him what he needs now. a father figure. Leave Nat out of the picture....

She bugs me so self righteous. Since she's so damn smart why has she been alone fore 16 something years???

In my opinion, Harley was a complete and total witch to Nat when she first came to town. She was always being suspicious and checking under her bed for ghosts, before Nat even tried anything. Yeah, she pretended to be nice, for Gus's sake. But then she had Nat fired for no good reason, other than insane jealousy and spite. Gus was pushing Harley to "play nice," but she would have none of it, in my opinion. Yeah. She opened up her home to Rafe for a literal moment, but then kicked him out practically the next day, preferring her daughter over Gus's son. Hey, it's her prerogative because it's her home.

Nat owes Harley nothing, in my opinion.

She's a wonderfully flawed woman. I really like her.