Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

I am getting so angry with Gus. If he wants to get back together with Harley, and make this marriage work, he doesn't even need to see Natalia anymore. Make him self scarce and don't feel he needs to talk to her about anything. Rafe ,is a teen now, talk things over with him, not Nat. She is no good in my book. A man chaser!! Harley, needs to get stronger and fight her off. More so then Gus!!

He's made clear noises that he's moving on. He was immediately remorseful and apologetic after sex with Nat. But then Harley went off to help Dylan with his Medicare, leaving a restarted Nat alone with her husband. Nat is "the one that got away."

Isn't that romantic?

The marriage will be stronger than ever now. Harley, will realize how much she loves Gus and forgive him. It will take time, and time heals all wounds. Delonjo, Gus loves Harley, he has not made a decision to move on as you say he has done. He needs to fight back and let Natalia alone.It will take time, and it is now up to Harley to be sstronger than Gus. Men are the weaker sex!!!!

Today's show was a dissappointment. Gus makes a bad choice in the end. If he was smart, he would have come up with a better plan. I hope you agree when you watch it.

A man made a bad decision.

In other news: water is wet. LOL

Kidding!

Bad decisions are necessary for soapdom. Which is why I love Olivia and loathe REVA: Olivia does the right thing for the wrong reasons and REVA does the wrong thing for the "right" thing. Brilliant drama for all.

I haven't watched yet, but I hope that Gus told Harley to go back off and help Dylan get his 4-wheel scooter for the elderly. She needs to get off his back.

What I meant by "get off his back" is that Harley is always slapping people and throwing tantrums and hissy fits (similar to a young Vanessa in the 80s with Henry Chamberlain). What she really needs to do is grow up. She is still the same reckless, manipulative teenager who premiered in 1987, only with three kids in tow. She and Gus need to actually talk, have an in-depth conversation to hash things out. But Harley won't do that because that's not who she is. She's a simple reactionary. Yeah, he slept with another woman. But Harley slept with Mallet. Yes, I heard the "reason" was that she thought that he was dead. That would be acceptable if Harley hadn't thrown Mallet in Gus's face and fantasized and flirted with him for months beforehand. (Sounds familiar today with Dylan?) Harley got the ball rolling with Mallet, and when the time was right (Gus's "death"), she took advantage. I mean, she bedded Mallet before the "body" was cold. She played the same game with Dylan by throwing Dylan and Daisy and their "family dinners" in Gus's face while putting him down for not knocking her up as fast as she wanted.

Glass houses...

PS: I sure hope he slaps her back today.

Delonjo, why should he slap her? Hasn't he done that already by sleeping with Nat. That was a real slap in the face. Yes, I know Harley slept with Mallet, but, Gus forgave her. Deed done and over. He accepted Harley's failure, now it is her turn to do the same. She loves him, enough said!! Forgive, but sometimes you can forget....

Hitting is always out of the question. Women aren't aloud to slap a man any more than a man is allowed to slap a woman. Judge Judy learned me that.

He forgave her. But will Harley give him the same courtesy? If she cannot, which is absolutely expected from Harley the Hypocrite, then the Mallet situation needs to be dusted off and thrust back on the table.

If my wife walked away for two weeks with her baby daddy, I'd be reluctant to mend things too, especially after she slapped me.

I not diverting from Gus's actions. And the past should not be verboten. If Harley was spotlessly clean and always was a beacon of faithfulness and never flirted with either Dylan or Mallet, then Harley would have a right to become indignant and unmovable. That's not the case, IMO. Harley does have an interest in Dylan. She merely denies it. When she was "drugged," she admitted to Dylan that she has latent feelings for Dylan. She encouraged Dylan continually, especially with that "family dinners" nonsense.

Remember, if Harley hadn't disregarded Gus's concerns about Dylan, the fight would not have happened, which in turn would not have begotten that stupid "deal," which lead to Harley lying in Dylan's hotel bed, which lead to Gus's affair, which lead to Harley leaving town with Dylan. I didn't ignore the "deal"; I just thought it was irrelevant in the big picture.

Gus has stood lamely by Harley during all of her crap (remember the debacle with Rick and their engagement?). Now it's her turn. Is she woman enough?