Tell your friends

TELL YOUR FRIENDS

POPULAR SEARCHES

List of Shows


Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

Soaps Boards :: Guiding Light Forum :: jeffery is a jerk!!

Please register and login to be able to post in this message board.

jeffery is a jerk!!

Started by sagirl22 at 2007/08/16 03:25PM
Latest post: 2007/08/19 03:37PM, Views: 1067, Replies: 45
« 1 2 3 4 » »| page:
#21   2007/08/17 06:26PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
Barrie
image

Quote Pam1962: Barrie, Jeffrey did NOT put anything in Olivia's drink. You evidently watch a different show than I do. Jeffrey was 18 and Olivia was 16 on that drunken night years and years ago and I am totally sick of the subject. HE has apologized for his part in that night but I think they have two different versions of that night. Olivia told him she doesn't see him that way anymore, whatever has been in her mind.


Pam, I admit to being wrong about the drink. I was guessing about that. That being said, I said that's why "I" think he's a jerk. You don't have to agree with me. That's your right! It's also your right to be tired of it. The fact remains, I don't have to find him as appealing as others and that's MY right. We don't have to tit-for-tat on this subject. I don't think anyone should consider this personal. We're all adults here.

#22   2007/08/17 06:35PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
Pam1962
image

Barrie, yes, we are adults, but I am like some of the Reva fans and Olivia fans, I take Jeffrey insults personally, especially if something is not true about what he did. He didn't put anything in her drink. I haven't missed a minute of Jeffrey so I know exactly what he has done and not done. Basically, Jeffrey is a nice guy, although flawed like all soap characters.

#23   2007/08/17 06:36PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
Barrie
image

Quote Pam1962: Barrie, yes, we are adults, but I am like some of the Reva fans and Olivia fans, I take Jeffrey insults personally, especially if something is not true about what he did. He didn't put anything in her drink. I haven't missed a minute of Jeffrey so I know exactly what he has done and not done. Basically, Jeffrey is a nice guy, although flawed like all soap characters.


Very true - they're all flawed - it soapland. Enough said.

#24   2007/08/17 07:44PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
merrymary
image

I think if Olivia is willing to accept his "apology", then we ought to move on too. Last word from me on this subject. Forgive and try to forget,apparently Olivia has forgiven him and moved on......

#25   2007/08/17 07:57PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
wynn
image

The ep where they went in to the details of the allegged rape portrayed Olivia as a wide-eyed innocent looking for excitement, she crashed a party, disobeyed her parent and got in over her head. Jeffrey wasn't much more "experienced" than Olivia. He didn't realize it was rape because Olivia did not speak up or fight or anything that would give a clue to her partner that it wasn't what she wanted. It wasn't vicious. I've often wondered what turned Olivia into such an emotional cripple. It could not have been that gentle 'RAPE". It may have been that Jeffrey was sent packing right afterward and she didn't get a chance to vent her steam. But, that seems pretty lame also. What did turn Olivia into such a witch? As for Jeffrey, he didn't have a good life either but he developed some principles...(not like Josh, however...lol). He tries hard to understand & support the people close to him, even when they do wrong things. Why do you think he became a lawyer? ...think about it.
He can be SF's greatest male character if the writer's give him a chance....(much better, more loving, compassionate, fun and fairly un-judgemental than Josh ever was).

#26   2007/08/17 08:02PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
merrymary
image

Well said, wynn. I think Olivia has so much guilt in her over the death of her mother. Do you remember that from the storyline? She defied her mother, and went out, when she was told not to, and fooled around with Jeffrey and got pregnant. She has made her life a living hell, trying to put the blame on Jeffrey all these years. She is her worst enemy!! Guilt, has ruined many a person.

Modified 1 times(s), last time at: 2007/08/17 08:33PM
#27   2007/08/17 08:28PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
wynn
image

Quote merrymary: Well said, wynn. I think Olivia has so much guilt in her over the death of her mother. Do you remember that from the storyline? She defied her mother, and went out, when she was told not to, and fooled around with Jeffrey and got pregnant. She has made her life a living hell, rrying to put the blame on Jeffrey all these years. She is her worst enemy!! Gult, has ruined many a person.




So sad. Do you think she will EVER learn and turn her life around? I know that everyone is enjoying the vicious one-up-manship of Olivia/Reva right now but one surely can't live their whole life living in such hatred. The battleground will soon be bloody if that is the case. I want to see a good old fashioned love story. Between Jeffrey & Reva....a love to the death kind of love story.

#28   2007/08/17 08:37PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
merrymary
image

iIthink we will always have this hatred going on between O and R. It has been going on for years with these two characters. Since I read the CC has signed a new 3 year contract, that means we will have this war going on for quite awhile longer. There has always been a one-up going on with these two, since the Reva and Richard days. I do love the war that these two are fighting now. A one on one battle between two diva's is fun to watch.

#29   2007/08/17 08:53PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
wynn
image

Quote merrymary: iIthink we will always have this hatred going on between O and R. It has been going on for years with these two characters. Since I read the CC has signed a new 3 year contract, that means we will have this war going on for quite awhile longer. There has always been a one-up going on with these two, since the Reva and Richard days. I do love the war that these two are fighting now. A one on one battle between two diva's is fun to watch.




I've said it before and I'll say it again... in the end, will the collateral damage be worth the war that is being waged. Look at history...most wars leave big, gaping distruction behind.

#30   2007/08/17 09:07PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
merrymary
image

Quote wynn:
Quote merrymary: iIthink we will always have this hatred going on between O and R. It has been going on for years with these two characters. Since I read the CC has signed a new 3 year contract, that means we will have this war going on for quite awhile longer. There has always been a one-up going on with these two, since the Reva and Richard days. I do love the war that these two are fighting now. A one on one battle between two diva's is fun to watch.




I've said it before and I'll say it again... in the end, will the collateral damage be worth the war that is being waged. Look at history...most wars leave big, gaping distruction behind.


This is a soap, wynn, not reality! Let's just enjoy the moments in a good soap story. This is a character war, not
much more than that!! Take it for what it's worth.... a soap war!!! No more, no less.....

#31   2007/08/17 09:13PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
LuluJones
image

It wouldn`t be exciting if there was no drama. Keep the fighting going on and on. I`m loving the whole s/l. I want more.Mrs Mary did you drink alot of tea today your up late. Thanks for the mail.

#32   2007/08/19 10:11AM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
phyllist
image

Quote wynn: The ep where they went in to the details of the allegged rape portrayed Olivia as a wide-eyed innocent looking for excitement, she crashed a party, disobeyed her parent and got in over her head. Jeffrey wasn't much more "experienced" than Olivia. He didn't realize it was rape because Olivia did not speak up or fight or anything that would give a clue to her partner that it wasn't what she wanted. It wasn't vicious. I've often wondered what turned Olivia into such an emotional cripple. It could not have been that gentle 'RAPE". It may have been that Jeffrey was sent packing right afterward and she didn't get a chance to vent her steam. But, that seems pretty lame also. What did turn Olivia into such a witch? As for Jeffrey, he didn't have a good life either but he developed some principles...(not like Josh, however...lol). He tries hard to understand & support the people close to him, even when they do wrong things. Why do you think he became a lawyer? ...think about it.
He can be SF's greatest male character if the writer's give him a chance....(much better, more loving, compassionate, fun and fairly un-judgemental than Josh ever was).


Olivia has never stopped to realize that Jeffrey never knew she was pregnant all those years ago.
Never let it be said that I condone any form of rape - date or otherwise - but if you don't realize something is a rape, how can you repent?
Also, Jeffrey was held hostage of sorts for many years. He had no free will. Even if he had wanted to contact O, he couldn't have.
Why is everyone blaming Jeffrey?
I love O's character, and I think she is a broken bird, but go easy on Jeffrey. He was used in his life also.

#33   2007/08/19 10:20AM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
merrymary
image

Righ on! How could he have known he was a father. Olivia, has to take equal blame in this so-called rape. Jeffrey, had a difficult life, too. He has turned it around and is now the good guy. I love Jeffrey, and the warmth and kindness, he is showing to his new found daughter, Ava. He is caught in the middle of a battle that has been going on for years. Olivia, doesn't love him ,she is in competetion with Reva. Always has been ,and getting the attention of Jeffey, will not stop this character war. Once she snags him, she will thrown him to the trash pile. Heartless woman.

#34   2007/08/19 10:41AM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
Karrie
image

Jeffrey definitely took advantage of Young Olivia...but I'm not sure if that would be considered rape. She went to the party when she was underaged but tried to play off that she was of age. Jeffrey couldn't have known that she was underaged. They both got drunk & things happened. Olivia didn't resist his advances & he didn't violently attack her. I think the attraction Olivia is having towards Jeffrey right now is about a desire to make sense of their one night stand. Jeffrey isn't on the same page as Olivia. He isn't willing to reopen that chapter in his life. As far as he is concerned that chapter will remain closed forever.

Modified 1 times(s), last time at: 2007/08/19 10:42AM
#35   2007/08/19 02:43PM
Re: jeffery is a jerk!!
Pam1962
image

Olivia was young (16) but so was Jeffrey (18) and an 18 year old boy is about the same age mentally as a 16 year old girl. They both made a mistake that night. Good lord, people should be able to live down mistakes made when they are teenagers. I agree, Karrie, Jeffrey did not know Olivia lied about her age. She also had a flask she was drinking from when she arrived at the party. Jeffrey and Olivia need to move on from that night.

« 1 2 3 4 » »| page:

Please register and login to be able to post in this message board.

« Go back to topic list