Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

That leads to another question for all of the Harley bashers that could possibly blame Harley for the affair....has Gus completely forgot all the sacrifices and all the Harley has done for him????!!!! She went and dedicated herself to finding him once she had reason to believe he was alive(so her and Mallet do not EVEN compare to Gus and Natalia) and helping him break his addiction to the pills and also covering for him so he could keep his job....come on!!!! He should have respected her that last night at Alans knowing dang well she didnt want to be there. I dont think she should have left with Dylan but also when Natalia poked her big nose into their business he should have stood up for his wife. One more thing....since when do we go to our ex's to have dinner or have our ex's take us out to dinner??!! That is the crazy part!! My ex comes to pick HIS KID up not the rest of the family! ha

I am a Harley fan, but I don't think you realize what you have done by taunting the Harley bashers.

Good luck!!!

You have points I agree with. Harley isn't my favorite but I won't try to pin this all on her. Nothing and nobody could have made Gus cheat on her and no matter what he was wrong.

Gus has made a lot of sacrafices for her too, camping outside of a prison for a good 6 months should count for something.

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I don't remember pinning the responsibility on Harley. I've been evenhanded with my criticism. I think Harley needs to get over herself.

Harley and Gus both have blame here. Neither one needs to spend the time they are spending with their ex's, their just looking for problems.

I am a fan of Harley, as flawed as she is (maybe that's why I like her, she seems the most real with her emotions), but anyway I can not completely defend her in this whole situation except for one point. She never sought out Dylan's romantic actions. She pushed him away when he planted those kisses on her and the first time he did it she made her feelings clear and I think she was right not to tell Gus because of his anger issues and she thought Dylan understood.

On the whole, all four of these so-called adults have acted more childish than Daisy and Rafe. Should Harley have gone away, maybe, separate herself from the situation for a while and get her head straight, but she shouldn't have gone away with Dylan, that is a mistake.

Gus however, should have shown the same restraint with Natalia that Harley showed with Dylan.