Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

You just seem all for Nat going after Gus. But totally against Marina going after Cyrus. I don't see how Alex is a victim if she is telling her "hubby" he can go have an affair. "as long as it is not Marina" If Harley ever told Gus that then I would agree with you.

Everyone is wrong in this situation. Dylan, Natalia, Gus, Harley, even Daisy is wrong for instigating these problems. Rafe is the only person in the vicinity who will come out smelling like a rose...and quite rich too.

A whole lot of people led to this affair with Nat. You are so right. Gus, and Nat had the sex,but this is only part of the equation. Harley, needs to sit down and listen to Gus, and sort out everything that has happened this past year. If she is smart, she will realize Daisy started this mess by bringing Natalia into the picture. Sex lasts for 15 min, but, an entire lifetime is at stake for her and Gus and her family.

I can't remember the last time Harley actually sat and listened to anyone except Frank. Even he rarely gets a word in edgewise.

Getting back to the question, Gus can't tell Nat to stay away because deep down inside he still has feelings for her. They never had closure in the past and now he has a son. Will Harley and Gus survive??? We won't know if there is a chance until she gets back to town. I hope she is enjoying her summer vacation..

That leads to another question for all of the Harley bashers that could possibly blame Harley for the affair....has Gus completely forgot all the sacrifices and all the Harley has done for him????!!!! She went and dedicated herself to finding him once she had reason to believe he was alive(so her and Mallet do not EVEN compare to Gus and Natalia) and helping him break his addiction to the pills and also covering for him so he could keep his job....come on!!!! He should have respected her that last night at Alans knowing dang well she didnt want to be there. I dont think she should have left with Dylan but also when Natalia poked her big nose into their business he should have stood up for his wife. One more thing....since when do we go to our ex's to have dinner or have our ex's take us out to dinner??!! That is the crazy part!! My ex comes to pick HIS KID up not the rest of the family! ha

You're right; he shouldn't have done that. But I don't think that this affair should erase all that they have shared. The ball is completely in Harley's court now. And she's with Dylan, so we know where her court is. Where she sits is exactly where she stands.

8) some things happen that you can never undo. You can't move on from that. He slept with Natalia, his babies mama, his new stalker, the hottie, his first love.... the list goes on and on, this wasn't some two-bit hooker.

I say divorce. And if I were Gus I'd move on anyway. you're right, she as good as made her decision when she left with Dylan.

I'd understand both sides of the equation: either McDivorce and have a McMarriage with the next paramour or stick with the marriage "til death do you part."

I'm not trying to erase the past. I'm advocating understand the issues that caused said past. I don't have faith in Harley that she will express intelligence and patience in this situation because she never has in the past. She's been all emotional. The "cheat on me, I dump you" paradigm. That goes against that final vow of "til death do you part." I know that that line is an inconvenience to the McDivorce-minded, but they are there for a reason. If someone doesn't like them, they can always be changed to "til adultery do you part."

Divorce and remarriage rates will go further through the roof!

You know it's in the good book that after adultry a marriage can be rightfully dissolved.

It's not that he slept with someone, its who he slept with.