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If you were Gus......

Started by QueenReva at 2007/08/07 09:53AM
Latest post: 2007/08/10 03:50PM, Views: 824, Replies: 41
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#11   2007/08/09 10:38AM
Re: If you were Gus......
Revasfan
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Quote merrymary:
Quote sher2309: Harley!! If it was me he would wake up with one less body part. Then we would see who he could go boink then!!


OUCH!!! Why cut off your nose to spite your face. Move on, and forget about it!!!!




You really think they could just move on after that.

Natalia the hawk will be circling for sure. With Dylan in toe for sure!

#12   2007/08/09 10:39AM
Re: If you were Gus......
Barrie
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Quote Revasfan: If I were her I'd be really p-ssed too. But she should have contacted him not left with the guy her husband thinks she was gettin her groove on with without a peep.


If that were my husband, I would have definitly confronted him with that mess. I dont understand why she left - that was childish. What a way to solve a problem. I would have left after the confrontation though.

#13   2007/08/09 10:41AM
Re: If you were Gus......
merrymary
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Quote Revasfan:
Quote merrymary:
Quote sher2309: Harley!! If it was me he would wake up with one less body part. Then we would see who he could go boink then!!


OUCH!!! Why cut off your nose to spite your face. Move on, and forget about it!!!!



Yes, I think they could move on and get over this one night stand of Gus'. He is full of remorse now. Delonjo, stated that men do not think of the consquences,just the feel good moment. I agree, that he still loves Harley, and she just might relize she would be throwing away a good man. It is all up to Harley, I hope she doesn't blow it this time.
You really think they could just move on after that.

Natalia the hawk will be circling for sure. With Dylan in toe for sure!

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#14   2007/08/09 10:42AM
Re: If you were Gus......
Revasfan
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If she left to clear her head because she wasn't sure of what to do, I wouldn't blame her, I wouldn't have done that, but I would understand.

But she left with Dylan. Is she stupid or something? Doesn't she understand that's what started this mess? Very DUMB

#15   2007/08/09 10:45AM
Re: If you were Gus......
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Quote Revasfan: If she left to clear her head because she wasn't sure of what to do, I wouldn't blame her, I wouldn't have done that, but I would understand.

But she left with Dylan. Is she stupid or something? Doesn't she understand that's what started this mess? Very DUMB


She is doing the same thing he did. Running to the person who he would be jealous of.

#16   2007/08/09 10:46AM
Re: If you were Gus......
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I never try to rationalize Harley. She's all about herself and her emotions and her kids and her possessions, including her husband, who she sees as her personal possession.

#17   2007/08/09 10:47AM
Re: If you were Gus......
SndrElkins
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Quote Delonjo: I never try to rationalize Harley. She's all about herself and her emotions and her kids and her possessions, including her husband, who she sees as her personal possession.


Yes thats Harley,all for her and no one else

#18   2007/08/09 10:47AM
Re: If you were Gus......
merrymary
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Quote Delonjo: I never try to rationalize Harley. She's all about herself and her emotions and her kids and her possessions, including her husband, who she sees as her personal possession.


I'll second that emotion!!!!

#19   2007/08/09 10:48AM
Re: If you were Gus......
Revasfan
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Quote merrymary:
Quote Revasfan:
Quote merrymary:
Quote sher2309: Harley!! If it was me he would wake up with one less body part. Then we would see who he could go boink then!!


OUCH!!! Why cut off your nose to spite your face. Move on, and forget about it!!!!



Yes, I think they could move on and get over this one night stand of Gus'. He is full of remorse now. Delonjo, stated that men do not think of the consquences,just the feel good moment. I agree, that he still loves Harley, and she just might relize she would be throwing away a good man. It is all up to Harley, I hope she doesn't blow it this time.
You really think they could just move on after that.

Natalia the hawk will be circling for sure. With Dylan in toe for sure!




I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude but I don't buy that, men don't think stuff. That's a cop out and that applies to people that have no respect for themselves, other people, their reputation....

Plain and simple, he's done something that I think Harley will never be able to get over, I wouldn't. A good man? There's other fish in the sea, she's with one right now!

Dylan said it best, how many Gus' have there been?

Divorce!!!!

#20   2007/08/09 10:58AM
Re: If you were Gus......
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Marriage is not "until adultery do you part" for a reason. It's to be expected! Someone in a marriage union, not necessarily the male, will stray eventually. It's human nature. Monogamy forever is not human nature. It's human nature to desire what's on the other side of the fence. Constantly admiring your own rugs and drapes is not.

I don't say that men don't think simply as a cop out; I say it because I come to the table believing that all people will screw you over if given the means and opportunity. Maybe there is an exquisite strain of DNA out there where all men are honest purveyors of truth and women are easy to please. I just never have come across that personally. I'm not dismissing that the Loch Ness monster actually exists, but if it is, I'd like to have a piece medium rare with onion rings.

If men and women would stop objectifying their mates and stop claiming for themselves their spouses sex organs, the world would be a happier place and Lorena Bobbitt references would not be so necessary.

OUCH! Where's my cup?

#21   2007/08/09 11:00AM
Re: If you were Gus......
Revasfan
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Quote Delonjo: Marriage is not "until adultery do you part" for a reason. It's to be expected! Someone in a marriage union, not necessarily the male, will stray eventually. It's human nature. Monogamy forever is not human nature. It's human nature to desire what's on the other side of the fence. Constantly admiring your own rugs and drapes is not.

I don't say that men don't think simply as a cop out; I say it because I come to the table believing that all people will screw you over if given the means and opportunity. Maybe there is an exquisite strain of DNA out there where all men are honest purveyors of truth and women are easy to please. I just never have come across that personally. I'm not dismissing that the Loch Ness monster actually exists, but if it is, I'd like to have a piece medium rare with onion rings.

If men and women would stop objectifying their mates and stop claiming for themselves their spouses sex organs, the world would be a happier place and Lorena Bobbitt references would not be so necessary.

OUCH! Where's my cup?




Maybe you should move. You've got a very very dark outlook on life. Settle if you wish, cheat if you choose to believe that it's acceptable. I don't I expect the best, I give the best, and that's why I always get- THE BEST!

Sorry you can't say the same

#22   2007/08/09 11:07AM
Re: If you were Gus......
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[quote]Quote Delonjo: Marriage is not "until adultery do you part" for a reason. It's to be expected! Someone in a marriage union, not necessarily the male, will stray eventually. It's human nature. Monogamy forever is not human nature. It's human nature to desire what's on the other side of the fence. Constantly admiring your own rugs and drapes is not.

Whoa, I wouldn't want my husband to think like you. We're 31 years and still going. It's not "expected" here. As for Harley, she has grown up a lot since her other husbands and she's learned a lot too. Gus forgave her for her romp with her ex. I think family if more important to her now than when she was with Phillip and Alan-Michael. If the writers do it right, Harley should give him another chance. It will take time to forgive but it will never be forgotten. Gus kept throwing it up in Harley's face for a while when they would fight.

#23   2007/08/09 11:07AM
Re: If you were Gus......
merrymary
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Quote Revasfan:
Quote Delonjo: Marriage is not "until adultery do you part" for a reason. It's to be expected! Someone in a marriage union, not necessarily the male, will stray eventually. It's human nature. Monogamy forever is not human nature. It's human nature to desire what's on the other side of the fence. Constantly admiring your own rugs and drapes is not.

I don't say that men don't think simply as a cop out; I say it because I come to the table believing that all people will screw you over if given the means and opportunity. Maybe there is an exquisite strain of DNA out there where all men are honest purveyors of truth and women are easy to please. I just never have come across that personally. I'm not dismissing that the Loch Ness monster actually exists, but if it is, I'd like to have a piece medium rare with onion rings.

If men and women would stop objectifying their mates and stop claiming for themselves their spouses sex organs, the world would be a happier place and Lorena Bobbitt references would not be so necessary.

OUCH! Where's my cup?




Maybe you should move. You've got a very very dark outlook on life. Settle if you wish, cheat if you choose to believe that it's acceptable. I don't I expect the best, I give the best, and that's why I always get- THE BEST!

Sorry you can't say the same




I have been around a litle longer than both of you. I have seen many marriages broken up over adultry. They ran to a lawyer instead of trying to work through the problem. I have seen people have their husbands up on a throne, never realizing that they are human. Things happen in our lifetimes, things that we thought we couldn't ever handle. But we do get through the hard times in a marriage, Today's couples have throw away marriages. Marriage is tough, two different personalies trying to jive, but forgetting each person is their own self. Adultry can be forgiven, just plenty of hard work and figuring out what made the person stray. Women and men cheat, but, why is the question? Hrley and Gus had many problems in their marriage, Gus, took the easy way out, and regrets it. The guilt is too much for him.

#24   2007/08/09 11:13AM
Re: If you were Gus......
SndrElkins
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Quote merrymary:
Quote Revasfan:
Quote Delonjo: Marriage is not "until adultery do you part" for a reason. It's to be expected! Someone in a marriage union, not necessarily the male, will stray eventually. It's human nature. Monogamy forever is not human nature. It's human nature to desire what's on the other side of the fence. Constantly admiring your own rugs and drapes is not.

I don't say that men don't think simply as a cop out; I say it because I come to the table believing that all people will screw you over if given the means and opportunity. Maybe there is an exquisite strain of DNA out there where all men are honest purveyors of truth and women are easy to please. I just never have come across that personally. I'm not dismissing that the Loch Ness monster actually exists, but if it is, I'd like to have a piece medium rare with onion rings.

If men and women would stop objectifying their mates and stop claiming for themselves their spouses sex organs, the world would be a happier place and Lorena Bobbitt references would not be so necessary.

OUCH! Where's my cup?




Maybe you should move. You've got a very very dark outlook on life. Settle if you wish, cheat if you choose to believe that it's acceptable. I don't I expect the best, I give the best, and that's why I always get- THE BEST!

Sorry you can't say the same




I have been around a litle longer than both of you. I have seen many marriages broken up over adultry. They ran to a lawyer instead of trying to work through the problem. I have seen people have their husbands up on a throne, never realizing that they are human. Things happen in our lifetimes, things that we thought we couldn't ever handle. But we do get through the hard times in a marriage, Today's couples have throw away marriages. Marriage is tough, two different personalies trying to jive, but forgetting each person is their own self. Adultry can be forgiven, just plenty of hard work and figuring out what made the person stray. Women and men cheat, but, why is the question? Hrley and Gus had many problems in their marriage, Gus, took the easy way out, and regrets it. The guilt is too much for him.


Mary i agree with you,but in real life somethings just are to hard to forget,when one cheats not everyone can deal with it and look at there marriage the same way it once was.

#25   2007/08/09 11:15AM
Re: If you were Gus......
Revasfan
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It truely doesn't matter how long you've been here. Some people are the way they are. I was raised around strong family's, strong men and women that have different sets of beliefs and standards for themselves, and their relationships with their loved ones. Sure some adultry can be forgiven. But all of them can't, it's a matter of what you think is important, what you will and what you wont accept.

It's as plain as that.

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