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I think Natalia found out the truth!
Started by COWBOYS at 2007/08/07 07:25AMLatest post: 2007/08/13 10:09PM, Views: 1429, Replies: 46
Re: I think Natalia found out the truth!
Fabulicious ... |
Quote COWBOYS: I think there is only lusts between Gus and Natalia,not love.Lust don't make a relationship!I think Gus loves Harley,but lusts for Natalia.Lust is nothing!  It's a hell of a thing when you are committed to someone else. It's a mindfield destined to blow your life apart when you touch and saturate yourself in it. it is the promise prophecied when people cannot keep their libidos in check |
gagirl |
Quote sher2309: Harley may have put herself in a bad situation. But it was wrong for Gus to go run and sleep with someone else. That is not what you do in a marriage. I think he should have demanded to know what was going on at the hotel room. To me I think it was just an excuse to run and bed Natalia. I do not like her anyway she said she does not go after married men, But that is what she has been doing the whole time she has been in town. I don't think it is fair to say all men cheat. But there has to be trust and you have to work on your marriage always. Thank you for saying that!!!! I was waiting to see if someone would say that not all men cheat. I really don't believe that. I have been married to the same man for 28 years and he has never cheated. I know that some men do or a lot of men do, but not ALL men. I do agree that Gus used this as an excuse to jump Natalia. The majority of the men I know would have busted into that room and finished killing Dylan right there. Then he would have asked questions. But no, not Gus, he walks away and runs to Natalia. He wanted to get back with her. Harley is hard to live with and he thinks it will be greener on the other side of the old fence. |
sher2309 |
I have been married 11 years and If my hubby saw anything like me in bed with someone else. Me and that person would be in very bad shape. It would be the same the other way around. I would not go and jump in bed with someone else. But that is soap land for ya. |
courtneykorbel |
I think that Gus does still love Natalia beyond lust, but I think he loves Harley too... |
gutsyangel |
IT isn't lust so much as memories. When you leave a love of your life without closure, the memories of how it was always outways the thought of it must still be love today. Natalie made a mistake by living her life while Gus was gone by thinking of Gus coming back and being a father to Raf. If she had tried to love someone else, what happened now would not of happened. Gus loves Harley but he too didn't have closure and "had sex" not "made love" to Natalie. I hope Gus and Harley get back together. It is very hard to gain trust back, but Harley was wrong to leave with Dillon. This will only make things worse. |
jenjen9501 |
i think they just needed their ending, cause of the way he left her, they never really broke up. |
merrymary |
Quote jenjen9501: i think they just needed their ending, cause of the way he left her, they never really broke up. So having sex was the closure for them? One can walk away without sleeping together? No, Gus just wanted one more time with Natalia, that's a fact! There is no way to defend his actions. He cheated on Harley, and that was wrong! |
sonia022 |
Did Gus really think that he could have sex with Nat and no one would ever find out? If he thought that, then he's a fool! |
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merrymary |
Quote sonia022: Did Gus really think that he could have sex with Nat and no one would ever find out? If he thought that, then he's a fool! Isn't that what most cheaters think, I won't get caught! I'll just do my thing and no will be the wiser. Just doesn't work that way. Most men are too dumb to realize this. I am not saying ALL men cheat, but the ones that do, always think they CAN get away with it!! 
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Lone Palm |
Quote merrymary: Quote sonia022: Did Gus really think that he could have sex with Nat and no one would ever find out? If he thought that, then he's a fool! Isn't that what most cheaters think, I won't get caught! I'll just do my thing and no will be the wiser. Just doesn't work that way. Most men are too dumb to realize this. I am not saying ALL men cheat, but the ones that do, always think they CAN get away with it!! I do not think that Gus intended to sleep with Natalia, but I do think he was so hurt and angry that he got caught up in the moment and the feeling...of being loved unconditionally by Natalia...and he needed to feel that so he kissed her...and WOW  what a kiss! And things took off from there.It was abundantly clear to me that Gus had no intention of trying to hide his infidelity from Harley. In fact, he told Natalia as he walked out of the door that he had to go find Harley and tell her everything. It is pretty amazing to me that even though Gus believes that Harley has 'offered it up" to Dylan, thereby cheating on him a second time, he appears to have already forgiven her for that, and is only concerned about finding Harley and telling her, himself, what he did and why he did it...and apologizing for it. Now...who wants to bet that Harley will once again be the "Queen of Hypocrisy" regarding forgiveness.... Halrey would do well to remember that it was barely a year ago that Gus found out about her affair with Mallet...and that she had lied to him about if for months...and that she did try to get away with it, and still has not told him about everything she did with her ex... And for the record, it ain't just men that cheat...Harley has cheated on at least two of her husbands...maybe there... Did I already mention hypocrisy???? 
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Delonjo |
Gus indeed intended to lay down Nat. He felt his loins get hot when he saw his wife in a hotel room with a t-shirt on in her ex's bed. However, I don't think that he intended to hurt Harley. Cheaters don't think at all. That's what makes them (us?) reactionary. |
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merrymary |
I don't think Harley wil toss Gus into the trash can this time. I can only hope she remembers her little cheat night with Mallet. Harley, can't let another man go, she is running out of men in Sf. Let's give Harley the benefit of a doubt, and say she can forgive Gus, and love him and trust him again. |
SndrElkins |
LOL it does not really matter now if Gus did not intend on sleeping with Nat,he did and nothing can change that!! We all know Harley and this will not go over very well at all with her.I still say its over .Harley will leave or she will tell Gus to get out. |
LuluJones |
I have a question.Hasn`t Harley cheated in the past? I`m not sure thats why I`m asking.I kind of remember hearing something about her and Mallet?Didn`t she think Gus was dead? So if thats tha case once a cheat always a cheat?If she did it because she thought Gus was dead,how long was he supposed to have been dead and does that make it right?Please give you opinun. |
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merrymary |
Quote LuluJones: I have a question.Hasn`t Harley cheated in the past? I`m not sure thats why I`m asking.I kind of remember hearing something about her and Mallet?Didn`t she think Gus was dead? So if thats tha case once a cheat always a cheat?If she did it because she thought Gus was dead,how long was he supposed to have been dead and does that make it right?Please give you opinun. When Harley thought Gus was dead, she turned to Mallet. These two have a past together. Mallet was a good friend to her throughout the searching for Gus. Whenshe realized Gus, could be gone, Mallet was ther to comforther. I don't think Harsley was cheating on Gus, she and Mallet just let that night happen. When Guswas found alive , she had a lot of remorse about her and Mallet. She did not set out out have an affair with Mallet, she was grieving and he was comforting her. Many people turn to sex when in a grieving state. They find it comforting and it just happens. Stuff happens in life. It always does not need to be deliberate, it again, just happens. I feel this is how the writers wanted us to know about her and Mallet. Gus, forgave her, and moved on with their marriage. Harley will remember this and forgive Gus. Natalia was half to blame too. She knew he was married, but she just didn't care, she wanted Gus. ( and who wouldn't) 
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