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I think there is only lusts between Gus and Natalia,not love.Lust don't make a relationship!I think Gus loves Harley,but lusts for Natalia.Lust is nothing! |
Wildrose![]() |
I agree, Gus doesn't love Natalia, but that lust stuff can clearly do a lot of damage when you act on it. I want Gus and Harley back on track, but I'm not getting the feeling that is what the show has planned. I don't feel a strong connection between Gus and Natalia or Harley and Dylan, but I don't think that matters at all to the writers. They'll tell what they want to tell. |
Delonjo![]() |
A man can love multiple women at once. He loves them both for different reasons. He loves the fighting spirit and security of Harley. He loves Nat because she remembers him from a different time in his life, before the drama with his dead "father." I don't think that as soon as a man cheats, he doesn't love his spouse any longer with anymore as much fervency. |
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I know that Natalia thought Gus would leave Harley for her,wrong.However I don't know if Harley will forgive Gus,and if Dylan finds out what happened he will use this to his advantage. |
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People will cheat, especially men!1 here here i have to agree with Delonjo on this,I still think that Gus loves Nat,deep down,only time will tell.I just don't see Harley forgiving Gus.Why would she?She never forgives anyone,thats just Harley. |
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Quote SndrElkins: People will cheat, especially men!1 here here i have to agree with Delonjo on this,I still think that Gus loves Nat,deep down,only time will tell.I just don't see Harley forgiving Gus.Why would she?She never forgives anyone,thats just Harley. IMO,I don't see love between Gus and Natalia.Lust and love are two different things. |
Delonjo![]() |
Quote SndrElkins: People will cheat, especially men!1 here here i have to agree with Delonjo on this,I still think that Gus loves Nat,deep down,only time will tell.I just don't see Harley forgiving Gus.Why would she?She never forgives anyone,thats just Harley. I blame fantastic fairytales and music for this. They always teach us love songs that say dumb lyrics like: "I'm gonna love you forever....and ever and ever...Amen!" LOL. Get serious! Or they put forth some outrageous stories about gorgeous princes on white chargers coming to the rescue of the helpless damsel. Equally unrealistic! It's not often--if at all--that a spouse will say to him/herself: "Today, I'm going to cheat on my spouse and hurt him/her." We're all selfish sometimes and one (bad) thing leads to another (bad) thing. I'm not excusing it. I hope no one hears that in what I say. Marriage isn't supposed to be an "until you cheat" institution; it's supposed to last "'til death do you part." Knowing Harley, she will request a McDivorce. But she'll still be unhappy with that too. Pride doesn't make you happy. |
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Quote Delonjo: Quote SndrElkins: People will cheat, especially men!1 here here i have to agree with Delonjo on this,I still think that Gus loves Nat,deep down,only time will tell.I just don't see Harley forgiving Gus.Why would she?She never forgives anyone,thats just Harley. I blame fantastic fairytales and music for this. They always teach us love songs that say dumb lyrics like: "I'm gonna love you forever....and ever and ever...Amen!" LOL. Get serious! Or they put forth some outrageous stories about gorgeous princes on white chargers coming to the rescue of the helpless damsel. Equally unrealistic! It's not often--if at all--that a spouse will say to him/herself: "Today, I'm going to cheat on my spouse and hurt him/her." We're all selfish sometimes and one (bad) thing leads to another (bad) thing. I'm not excusing it. I hope no one hears that in what I say. Marriage isn't supposed to be an "until you cheat" institution; it's supposed to last "'til death do you part." Knowing Harley, she will request a McDivorce. But she'll still be unhappy with that too. Pride doesn't make you happy. Thats Harley,she will not just let this go.She already said the trust was gone,No trust no marriage.So again i agree. |
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I agree no trust no marriage. |
merrymary![]() |
Quote COWBOYS: I agree no trust no marriage. cowboys, trust can be rebuilt in any relationship. It just takes a little work, but it can be done. In a marraige, in a friendship, with a co-worker, etc. Life takes work! |
SndrElkins![]() |
Once a cheat always a cheat.how can one over come that? |
Delonjo![]() |
Quote merrymary: Quote COWBOYS: I agree no trust no marriage. cowboys, trust can be rebuilt in any relationship. It just takes a little work, but it can be done. In a marraige, in a friendship, with a co-worker, etc. Life takes work! It takes a LOTTA work! In our poptart society of Big Macs and microwaved Thanksgivings, hard work is a dirty, dirty term. McDivorcing Gus will make her feel vindication but she'll still be unhappy. If you really want to be married, you'll fight for it. If not, you'll marry the same man three times...oops! |
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Quote merrymary: Quote COWBOYS: I agree no trust no marriage. cowboys, trust can be rebuilt in any relationship. It just takes a little work, but it can be done. In a marraige, in a friendship, with a co-worker, etc. Life takes work! MerryMary I enjoy ur posts they come with great knowledge. |
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Quote Delonjo: Quote merrymary: Quote COWBOYS: I agree no trust no marriage. cowboys, trust can be rebuilt in any relationship. It just takes a little work, but it can be done. In a marraige, in a friendship, with a co-worker, etc. Life takes work! It takes a LOTTA work! In our poptart society of Big Macs and microwaved Thanksgivings, hard work is a dirty, dirty term. McDivorcing Gus will make her feel vindication but she'll still be unhappy. If you really want to be married, you'll fight for it. If not, you'll marry the same man three times...oops! |
Delonjo![]() |
What's terrifically galling is that Harley knows exactly why Gus did this. Dylan told her the truth about that night in the hotel. (I was shocked that he did that myself!) As I said previously, I would have walked away too if I found my wife in a hotel bedroom with her ex. |
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