Guiding Light - MESSAGE BOARDS

At least I would get to know what was happening at that moment. I might not like what I hear, but, I just wouldn't walk away without letting them know I was there and saw them together. Gus, should have trusted Harley, and knew she would not cheat on her. At least that is what I get from their marriage. Harley, is the loser in this case. She needs to go to him now and explain what happened, don't leave him guessing.

I understand you, Mary.

But even BE's superb--and I do mean superb--acting cannot make me feel any kind of sympathy for that woman. I'm absolutely certain that, if the shoe were on the other foot--Harley walked in on Gus and Nat in a hotel room bed--Harley would have burst into the room like the Kool-Aid Man that she is and demanded details. But that's what a woman would do. Men, typically, would do what Gus did (not talk), especially if he was leaning toward cheating in the first place.

"Oh ye-AAAHHHH?"

I do feel a little bad for her. Although she Gus wasn't warm in his "grave" before she slept with the one man that her "dead" husband was wery about her being around. Talk about a slap in the face.

But regardless of what she does/ has done that still doesn't make what Gus did right.

It's not right, as much as it was deserved.

It's not right to cheat. I'm not going to play myself by joyfully announcing the joys of being a louse.

But, as Alan pointed out to Rafe last Friday, "The Coopers do whatever they want, then they blame it on us." I never said it better.

Being a b---h is never a good way to keep your spouse in your bed.

And that's why there's divorce. But you don't go bed hoppin before you get one.

I'd be happy with a quickie divorce. But that's not as dramatic. I want Harley to reassess and check herself.

She needs to ask herself a question: If she's so perfect, righteous and upstanding, why would her husband stray so quickly?

Also, to be fair, Gus needs to ask himself this: Why does my wife need to be reconnected to a past ex? What am I doing wrong?

Dylan was never, ever Harley's long-lost first love. (That was Mallet #1.) I remember when I first started watching that Dylan and Harley rarely had anything to do with one another. Where has all of this longing come from where Harley is concerned?

But Gus/Nat was an explosion, even from her first day. It was obvious that the "well," as Mary put it, was bubbling out of control and that they'd get some sexy-time at any moment.

I knew he was going to have her. But this whole Harley leaning on Dylan thing does not surprise me at all. Doesn't Harley lean alot? Isn't that how she got Jude, from all that damn leaning she does? She's actually the biggest LEANER on the show.

Right. When Reva wants something- move out the way cause she's coming to get it. Minus the father and brother in her younger days, there really weren't others that she turned to besides Josh. There are some, but we're talking over a 20 year span, so there were few.

But Harley, as soon as she sniffs trouble in the air she's hunting down a supporter like a freakin blood hound.

She doesn't even really like Dylan. But now they're buddy buddy.

Is Frank the problem?

He created that monster! Harley is the perfect blend of Nadine and Buzz.