General Hospital - MESSAGE BOARDS

I absotively think the limo sex needed to come out, finally!!!!!

I don't think it was a one time thing...Sonny & Carly have sex whenever they feel they have no one else. Kate deserves to know that and make an informed decision if she should pursue the matrimony....

I see this having a harsher affect on Carly because she went home and had sex with Jax later that same night! Add to that the tremendous grief that she gave Jax over a kiss that he had that same night w/ Kate...I mean get real. I do doubt that Jax will use this opportunity to get rid of the dead weight, though. He'd have to grow a set in order to do that.

Whether Sonny & Kate were technically together or not doesn't matter to me. I just think Kate should know because she is marrying the guy. She deserves to know that he had sex with his ex between his proposals to Kate.

It's good for her to know, that way she has a choice, to walk or forgive him,

For the msot part I'm glad that this came out.

I hope that SKate can get past it. Not that I think it's ok for Sonny to cheat pre or post marriage, But I have always been a BIG Sonny fan and I hope he NEVER goes back to Carly. If Kate can forgive him, then he won't.

Since I usually can't stand Carly (mostly because of the way she treats Jason as her own personal property and because she always blames everyone one else for her own actions) and I've never really liked Jax, I wouldn't care if this blew CarJax into tiny unfixable pieces. In fact it could blow Jax (AND Jerry for that matter) all the way back to Australia and I wouldn't care one little bit.

I may be in the minority, however, what Sonny and Carly did was in a time of emense grief. I know I have done things that I would have not have done if I would have been in a rational state of mind. Robin and Patrick had sex which came out of Robin's grief over Georgie, which is really no different than what Carly and Sonny did. It's not like Sonny and Carly set out to do that, and it is not the same as them having an affair. Should they have been honest with their perspective mates? Absolutely!

Sonny and Carly have done alot of intentionally hurtful things, this was not one of them. I think it would have been nice to see this play out where Sonny and Carly confessed what happened, and Kate and Jax would have been able to keep it in prospective. It was sex meaningless sex. The problem now is that Carly and Sonny did not reveal this when they should have. To me this is the lie, the bigger issue. Perhaps if they would have not kept this secret for such a long time, Jax and Kate may have been able to understand it better.

So, this is what I would like to see happen, and yes, I know it will be vastly unpopular. But I would like for at least Jax to realize what truely motivated Carly's behavior, and not let this betrayal ruin what is good or what could be good about their marriage. Sometimes people who get through really big things especially in a marriage, end having a stonger relationship. As for Kate, I think she should put off the wedding to Sonny and take some more time to develop their relationship. She really needs to evaluate wheather or not she wants to be with a man who lies to her about alot of things.

Finally, I would just like to say that I thought it was so wrong for Diane to try and force Max to out the secret to Kate, and it was strange that Kate heard it from an emplyee, a virtual non-character. This may just be me also, but, I would not want my employees knowing these thing and or discussing them amoung eachother which is what Max and Diane did, and I think hearing this from an employee, is well really crossing the line.

I haven't been watching GH lately but have a case of insomnia and decided to peek in ....I was intrigued by this thread.

I totally agree with Gen in that this is a pattern for Sonny and Carly so they don't get a "redo" (whatever Carly called it) in my book.

Kate and Jax had a right to know but this is where I disagree with some. The right to know is from their significant others. It is not anyone else's truth to tell. To be upset with someone else for not divulging the info is misplaced anger in my opinion.

My view on this matter has changed over the years. Initially I would say you have a duty to tell but what I've come to realize is that, in most cases, people already know...deep down inside. They may not have details but they know and are just not ready to face it. It is not my job to force reality on them. Should they ask...I'd tell them...otherwise I'd keep my mouth shut unless there were dire circumstances.

If they're honest, both Jax and Kate know their spouse (or spouse to be) and are aware of the dysfuntional relationship between them and should not be surprised. Let's face it...it's who Sonny is and Kate knows...she just hopes he will change. Even Carly is present enough to know it's a pattern for the two of them and Jax has had a ringside seat to this behavior. So deep down, this really shouldn't be a surprise for either and in fact should be an expectation.

Well I'll return to my self imposed banishment.