General Hospital - MESSAGE BOARDS

I mean sam beeen dependent on men her whole Life and sam Lost herself and Identity way before Jason was in sam Life because sam pretend to be someone so she could clean out rich old men bank account and thats how sam Lost herself and Identity and also model herself to be the kind of women those rich men wanted her to be. sam Lost herself and her Identity because of sam not Jason.

when sam told Lucky all those crap about Losing herself and Identity because of Jason it was bunch of Lies and crap and sam knows it. because sam knows the only reason she lost herself and Identity is because she was willing to pretend to be someone else to clean rich old man's bank account and model herself to be a person those rich old men's wanted. if sam never do all those things and work hard for her money by herlf legally then sam wouldn't Lost herself.and those are the real reason why sam made her Life all about Jason and it because of all those things and because sam have abandoment issue's so she made her life about someone else .

You have two of these threads..I replied in the other one.

Double post AGAIN..what is going on with this board?

Ok triple post. WTH??

sorry when I post this thread when my computer was acting up so I double click the thing so my thread would post and I Just come back to read the comement's and I realize the comement are different.

I hesitated coming in here as I really don't want to bash Sam...I'm over it so these are just observations.

IA with what has been said and would like to add that I believe Sam did love Jason which was out of character for her...to love someone other than her brother and herself. This was new for her and it became consuming. In the end, she reverted back to what she knows...take care of number 1...at all cost.

Truth be told Jason seems to have that effect on women...all consuming. As Robin said, he has a way of making you feel you are the most important person in the world. Without a strong sense of self, it can be devastating when you loose it. While I'm probably harder on Jason than most, that's not his fault.

I'am a Sam fan, what happen to Sam was she put all her egg's in one basket, instead of remenbering you can't alway's count on the man your with to make you happy, I like her but I liked her at best went she could do for herself, and in life you should alway's lookout for yourself because no one is going do it for you, Guza's tend's write woman helpless,

I think Sam was independent when she was with Jason especially before Everyday Heros she was trying to find a job and Jason kept offering to help but she wanted to do it all on her own. She had to be a con women what else was she suppose to do when that was all you were taught and she had to find a way to support herself and danny so why not fall back on the one thing she already knows how to do. I also think that yes Jason and Liz were to blame for the way Sam was acting after Jason and Liz did what they did. Jason new she was the type to sef-distruct after being hurt so badly especially after that first break up. I am just hoping that Guza is starting to write Sam the way she was when she was with Jason up until she found out about Jason keeping that secret for her.

Also, when you have been in a relationship that had so much impact on your life. And had someone with you that helped you through the worst things in your life and visa versa how do you expect them to act when they don't have them any longer. You depended on one and another through the toughest times of their lives of course she grew dependent on him what women wouldn't.

I don't think Jasam fans feel that Jason is to blame that she didn't have a life. I just think they are upset over the way tptb ended Jasam.

Just as Liasonite have been resentful over they way they di Liason the first time and have treated Liason this time. I for one can't stand it so I totally undrstand how they feel. However I don't think threads that bash or attack Sam is the answer to end the animosities.

I for one have never blamed Jason for Sam not having a life outside of him. Where is this coming from?
Sam loved Jason so completely that she was consumed by it. Her world was Jason. She allowed herself to be dependant totaly in that love. When it came crashing down around her she went spiraling out of control.
To my knowledge,Jason never had a problem with Sam having other interests or working. He let it be known to her that she didn't have to work if she chose not to.