General Hospital - MESSAGE BOARDS

I feel Jax handled the Spencer situation really bad. I think I mentioned before he's very pushy when it comes to babies. He hounded Courtney and Elizabeth to the ends of the earth like he is hounding Carly. The other thing I'm upset with is that he has told Kate before even knowing if Carly is pregnant or not. This was not his call! It also was not Kate's to tell Maxie!

I don't feel Carly and Sonny deserve another child...it will mean another battle between the two of them as Carly demonstrated to Diane today...Peggy

""Trust me I fully understand as I have 2 separate friends who went through fertility shots. Their dh's didn't keep hounding them though regarding this. I'm not a Carly fan, but after all that has happened to her regarding Michael and losing another child (Jax's), he's pushing her way too hard...Peggy ""

Great post. I don't want Jax to have a baby. As far as Jax being so much better because his is not in the mob and hasn't killed people. Jax is one of the most selfish men on the show. Remember that he is supposed to be a corporate raider. Corporate Raiders are more cutthroat than the mob. They raid the businesses of all assets then walk away, leaving the innocent employees and their families with nothing. We are not talking about buying a business to improve but buying a business with the intent of destroying it. I'm sorry but a compassionate person could not do that.

But I don't even care about the business side of things. I don't want Jax to be a father because of who he is personally. Jax shows how selfish he is all the time. Jax is all about what Jax wants. He brow beats Carly to get his way. He disrespects Carly all the time. He ignores her wishes. He ignores her fears. Jax is like a little kid who throws a tantrum to get his way. When Jax went to Rome, not only was that a tantrum, but he never once thought of Morgan. If Jax was ready to be a father, he never would have left because of Morgan.

Carly's doctor told Jax that it was not a good time for Carly to get pg and he told the doctor that she was wrong. Carly has told Jax that she is not ready for a child. Jax went from one bout of nausea to pg in 30 seconds. Despite Carly telling him that she knows her body and she is not pg, he not only tries to pressure her into a pg test but tells Kate that Carly is pg. If I was in Carly's shoes, I would think the way Jax is pushing for a pg test, Jax cares more about having his own baby then Carly's feelings.

This is just my opinion. I just don't see the nice guy that others see when it comes to Jax. I see Jax as the most emotionally abusive man on the show.

:D Great post Angel929, I agree with everything you said

I would gladly place a $20 wager that Carly is in fact knocked up. I would throw another $10 in that it will end up being Sonny's, or maybe they will pull a DOOL and she will have twins one Jax's and one Sonny's either way I think you guys should come to terms with her knocked-up-edness and join me in my fight to keep it from being stupid-Sonny's love child.

Now see I am on the fence of Jax having a child...especially due to his current situation...Let's face it Carly and his relationship is on skaky ground at best...their issues are fairly big ones, in fact Carly LOVES to blow apart her own life and is still sitting on some hefty size information....Why bring a child into that mess??

Carly is one of a very select few women on the show that doesn't need anymore children at this juncture...she can't even take care of her own issues...And Jax, while he wants nothing then to have a child with Carly ( ) doesn't see that perhaps his situation kind of goes along with that old saying....A child isn't going to fix your promblems.

Which leads me to my last issue: Does Jax even care about fixing their issues and trying to have a more healthy relationship (yes I get this is a soap but come on this relationship does NEITHER one of them any favors) where Carly stops running to Sonny everytime things get tough in her life.....I won't even touch the Jason issue because she is NEVER going to stop that bad habit!! Jax, he has a few issues himself he needs to get over as well....I understand his issue with wanting his wife to turn to him when in need but Jax also has to make himself available...and can someone REMIND Jax that while he loves talking about how dangerous it is because of Sason that his OWN FLESH AND BLOOD is probably one of the worst psychopaths out there, like in the ranks with AZ crazy!!