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Started by GoodbyeGrandma_2 at 2008/08/27 04:03PM
Latest post: 2008/08/28 07:44AM, Views: 1746, Replies: 58
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#21   2008/08/27 07:48PM
Re: Leaving this board
Chrissi (Admin)
Chrissi
moderator

Yes I know Tess was very angry. She usually doesn't post like that but you can't see my point of view? I swear, if someone posted shi__ about you, you would not even question me. Attacking an admin is immediate cause for ban. Obviously. I only brought up the Ejami and Lumi stuff because it all comes down to you against Tune2Days. I was trying to skirt the issue, but I can't! Your team hates her, she hates your team or something. I'm not sure. I can't speak for her. I'm just tired of the whole thing. I don't hate any of you, and I don't get why people can't just enjoy DAYS and post on a website without getting stupid and rude. I mean I get it but can't abide by it. Glad you got the point about screen names. I did get your point but this stuff needed to come out. I don't care if people agree with me or not. I just want to find a way for each of these 'camps' to post in peace. I'm so frustrated you can't even know. I'm also tired and getting ranty. Sorry!

And yeah I hear what you are saying. But you're asking me to ban Tune2days because she is the root of all the crap. I just don't see it as black and white as you. I mean I'm right about this, right? You want me to ban her so that everyone on the board will be happy. I don't think everyone will be happy. This post is case in point. She rubs some of you the wrong way as you do with her. I'm not taking sides on this. It's impossible. I am, however, apparently, bringing back a few of those who I've banned.
Fresh start, anyone?

#22   2008/08/27 07:52PM
Re: Leaving this board
PrettyInPink
PrettyInPink

I never post here but lurk quite often. I am an active poster on many DOOL forums and have been for over a year. I have NEVER seen an admin talk to posters the way that you do Chrissi. I totally understand that you would get upset at times, who wouldnt? But you are suppossed to be a professional. The way you talk to people is absurd. EJami, Lumi, I dont care. How can you preach about respecting others, when you are guilty of the same badgering?

#23   2008/08/27 07:54PM
Re: Leaving this board
hdwatsonbc
hdwatsonbc

Quote speechless: It's very easy to use someone's email address to open an account especially if you were once friends and now are enemies! Just a thought!

But this is getting better than the show...LMAO!


IA. There is more drama here than on the show.

#24   2008/08/27 07:55PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tune2Days
Tune2Days

Its not ejami against Lumi...when they thought I was Tammer when I first came here..they wanted me banned..now they adore her?..or er..say they do now...whatever...
I had ejami friends here...
I left and didnt email anyome because I dont trust anyone...now Im public enemy because they kissed and made nice nice..thats it..in a short short version..
Plus they all insist I got Suzrocks banned...how..I dont even know who she supposedly protected..or whatever...
see the problem is I have a real life..and miss most of this...
But the burr under Tess's blanket of so Im told is that I got Suzrocks banned...which is pretty *ucked up..since I know damn well..I could really care less...
I didnt get anyone banned..because the 3 real roots are still around...
and I have valid reasons for ..disliking that group..wouldnt you say?..I love a good debate..but leave kids..careers..and personal $hit out of the Jr fight...
and Im good...

#25   2008/08/27 08:07PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tammer
Tammer

Quote Tune2Days: Amazing...people who were at war before I ever entered this site..are still here...some wanting to come back..after being banned...
they threaten they return...
Chrissi let me clear one thing up..I never "left" this site as in I got fed up and left...
after all the personal attacks on me..and yes its very personally when they use your child..your career...against you because you dislike some fictional guy...
My email was flooded with threats..silly me for thinking my email here was safe...
then my Pc was hacked...so i got a new one and stayed away from the board while i settled into a new job...
when I returned I stopped emailing anyone from this site..
I see you understand the trust issue...
Well I guess that pi$$ed some people off..they claim I wasnt a good friend...
Self preservation..
But hey it opened my eyes to trust on these boards...
The person attacking me today can not honestly say I ever did anything personally to her...
Not truthfully anyway...
Whats hysterically funny is..I was gunned for on this site from day one..accused of being someone they loathed..who now they say they adore..haha go figger...
Now thats Ironic...
Its no secret there is one small clique here who wants to be top dogs...
they left..and this board was fun..they quickly returned...
so much for that threat...lol
Anyone who doubts or just plain curious..go back..and read..I posted then the same way I do now...
Im outspoken..I say what I mean...mean what I say..and that hasnt and wont change..
I did not personally attack anyone...
and today..funny enough my biggest attacker is the same person who posted everything right along with me..LOL..
Tess can not honestly say Ive ever done anything to her personally...but hey thats ok..
she has her friends.."numbers"
I did NOT have any part in Suzrocks getting banned..but yet some of you insist I did...
If I could get someone banned..OMG you know who you are..and you know why..
I have no reason to want Suz banned...
Trust?..you trust each other?...lol..I still have the emails from back then..tell me seriously...who trusts who?..yall are friends?..really?....
I post in Lumi threads only now...thats not good enough for you?..you want me gone because I disagree with you too strongly?..
Grow up...
And Tammer..you are very welcome for the help you got from me...
Love the pay back...


I have not slammed you in here, please leave me out of this drama. I wasn't even here when these bans happened. I don't post in drama. If you have a beef with me you know my email.

#26   2008/08/27 08:09PM
Re: Leaving this board
Chrissi (Admin)
Chrissi
moderator

PrettyInPink or whomever you really are, step into my shoes for a week on this particular board, and then we'll talk. I badger people? HAHAHA You've no idea. But that's okay.

Tune2days didn't get anyone banned at any point in the entire time... nobody gets someone else banned. They get themselves banned! They do something that is against the guidelines and then we ban. I think that people say that because it's just a way to lash out, like the way Tess did. She was angry and said something stupid. It happens to us all. Hear that, Prettyinpink? ALL.

I really have to go, but I am glad that everyone got to chat. Trust or not to trust, I don't really care. This is just my job. Even if you all go email each other about what a jerk you think I am, you can still post here. ROFL!! I really could care less.

#27   2008/08/27 08:14PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tune2Days
Tune2Days

You took that as a slam Tammer..hmm wonder why?..I wasnt here for many things Im still accused though...
it all goes to trust doesnt it..?..trust...
Just the simple facts....
You of all people know I tell it like it is..or I dont tell...
and all this personal attacking..I dont deserve...
Maybe you need to tell that to your site members...
Period...
You opened that door..not anyone else...

#28   2008/08/27 08:15PM
Re: Leaving this board
Dakota 4762
Dakota 4762

Quote GoodbyeGrandma_2: I am fully aware that changing a name is against policy, however too many people have my email and since I wont be returning there is no need for my ban.
I am not leaving because of the reasons a certain group give, quite the opposite. Once we were a happy group posting together, as friends. Suzrocks, Dakota, Tess, Jamesscottfan, Dolphinfan, Tune2days, Gapeach, Megan and Dool.( Sorry if I missed someone)
Nothing drastic happened yes Tunes left and we never got a reason but I figure it was the constant harassment. It has begun all over again except that now our old group is joining in, why? Dakota it is so not you to do this.
Tess I used to love your posts and the interaction between you and Tunes was always hilarious! I have never seen Tunes post one bad thing to you or about you. Todays post was vulgar and uncalled for. Suzrocks pointing a finger unknowingly and making accusations was uncalled for.
What has happened to you all? I have not noticed Tunes posting any differently then she did back then with the exception that its fewer topics and far less fun! I am disgusted with you grown women pecking like hens!
To post that this board was peaceful? When was that? when there were lack of posts because it certainly was not all peace and harmony with just Tunes not posting, thats an absurd lie. If we all bow down and kiss ejami feet then we get peace temporarily.
For months there was hardly a post on the Lumi thread, is this the aim? To outnumber and overrun all Lumi fan? It appears so. That is your so called peace.
I am not surprised at Speechless and Dayspossessed cheering on Tess and her vulgar post, why not its certainly not pro Lumi. It was however a slap in the face to our admin here.
Cheering it on is deserving of a ban.
Dakota and Suzrocks I used to enjoy posting with you however if you cheer on such lynching practices I didn't know you at all. Now you can all sit back and claim I'm just Tunes, as is typical of your hiding and ducking out on your own actions.
I expect this, but thats ok too because out of everyone here she is still true to her posting and a loyal fan. I am proud to have once called her a friend and posted with her. I hope in near future I find the Lumi site she resides at now.
I wont be posting here again this has become a playground for the unstable and disloyal, certainly not friends!
Chrissi , I'm sorry for breaking policy and I now ban myself
I hope one day you can stop this childish behavior and once again this site will be the fun place it was before the ejami's took it over.
For the few I still call friends I'm sorry for leaving its just too much for this old gal to take. I fully agree with Chrissi be careful of whom you trust because not is all as it seems. Too many names and far too many games.
Tunes stay true to your posts gal!



I beg your pardon. How dare you include my name in this. I had no idea about this and why it was done. I rarely post on this site anymore because of exactly this. I got along fine with everyone on this site. I opened myself up to others in my lounge thread and encouraged others to join.

I really resent that I just logged on for the first time today and I ended up reading this thread because it was at the top. I never read the thread that Tess wrote. I heard about it from a couple of other people and I wasn't happy about it to say the least.

I can't control what other people decide to do or how they decide to act. I have been spending my time on another soap board for this exact reason. You just pulled me into your drama and yet you are using a name on here that I don't even recognize.

For some reason I see a pattern here. Just because I am friends with different people does not mean that I condone their behavior.

I am sorry that you feel you know me because obviously you don't know me at all.

#29   2008/08/27 08:17PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tammer
Tammer

Quote Tune2Days: Its not ejami against Lumi...when they thought I was Tammer when I first came here..they wanted me banned..now they adore her?..or er..say they do now...whatever...
I had ejami friends here...
I left and didnt email anyome because I dont trust anyone...now Im public enemy because they kissed and made nice nice..thats it..in a short short version..
Plus they all insist I got Suzrocks banned...how..I dont even know who she supposedly protected..or whatever...
see the problem is I have a real life..and miss most of this...
But the burr under Tess's blanket of so Im told is that I got Suzrocks banned...which is pretty *ucked up..since I know damn well..I could really care less...
I didnt get anyone banned..because the 3 real roots are still around...
and I have valid reasons for ..disliking that group..wouldnt you say?..I love a good debate..but leave kids..careers..and personal $hit out of the Jr fight...
and Im good...


You are absolutely right, trusts have been broken..for what reasons I'm not sure. I am also not sure why I am being dragged into this crap. AGAIN I have stayed out of posting in ANY drama. If you need to clarify anything with me I would rather do it privately...if you don't care then so be it. I have thanked you several times for me being back here...but quite frankly you scare the helloutta me.

#30   2008/08/27 08:17PM
Re: Leaving this board
speechless
speechless

Quote Chrissi (Admin): Yes I know Tess was very angry. She usually doesn't post like that but you can't see my point of view? I swear, if someone posted shi__ about you, you would not even question me. Attacking an admin is immediate cause for ban. Obviously. I only brought up the Ejami and Lumi stuff because it all comes down to you against Tune2Days. I was trying to skirt the issue, but I can't! Your team hates her, she hates your team or something. I'm not sure. I can't speak for her. I'm just tired of the whole thing. I don't hate any of you, and I don't get why people can't just enjoy DAYS and post on a website without getting stupid and rude. I mean I get it but can't abide by it. Glad you got the point about screen names. I did get your point but this stuff needed to come out. I don't care if people agree with me or not. I just want to find a way for each of these 'camps' to post in peace. I'm so frustrated you can't even know. I'm also tired and getting ranty. Sorry!

And yeah I hear what you are saying. But you're asking me to ban Tune2days because she is the root of all the crap. I just don't see it as black and white as you. I mean I'm right about this, right? You want me to ban her so that everyone on the board will be happy. I don't think everyone will be happy. This post is case in point. She rubs some of you the wrong way as you do with her. I'm not taking sides on this. It's impossible. I am, however, apparently, bringing back a few of those who I've banned.
Fresh start, anyone?


That's just it Chrissi they have! Not today but in the past and yes I did come to you and look it has only gotten worse. It is not always about me SPEECHLESS (funny I know..LOL) Other people have been attacked you have to ask your admins about the complaints they have received.

Tunes and I have not had words..she has stayed away from me and I her...so I can't speak of any recent personal attacks!

But if she is the common denominator with your posters complaints then again you have to ask yourself why? I can't do that for you Chrissi!

#31   2008/08/27 08:19PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tammer
Tammer

Quote Tune2Days: You took that as a slam Tammer..hmm wonder why?..I wasnt here for many things Im still accused though...
it all goes to trust doesnt it..?..trust...
Just the simple facts....
You of all people know I tell it like it is..or I dont tell...
and all this personal attacking..I dont deserve...
Maybe you need to tell that to your site members...
Period...
You opened that door..not anyone else...


How else should I have taken it? Tell me. I have not opened ANY door. What the heck are you talking about..and why here? Why not email me like you used to? If it's trust...well I have that issue as well.

And to correct you, it's not my site. It's Dana's. You know this.

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#32   2008/08/27 08:27PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tune2Days
Tune2Days

You all.."friends' go right ahead..and be those kind of friends...there is no trust here...and that was proven not by words..but more by action...
Im going to go and continue to post Lumi..and loath JR because thats my basic human right...
Tammer..I dont need to "scare you"..Im an honest straight forward person..and anything private and personal remains there...I have integrity..
Im not a bad person..
when Im treated fairly..
I dont attack unless I am attacked..
Im the same person I was when I was here before..I just have more walls up..to those with daggers aimed at backs... and Im truly sorry to those who felt slighted..because I cant trust anymore...
But my child and my career are more important than board friends..sorry...
and maybe I post here now..just because I refuse to be bullied away...
but Im done with the drama rama...

#33   2008/08/27 08:34PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tammer
Tammer

Quote Tune2Days: You all.."friends' go right ahead..and be those kind of friends...there is no trust here...and that was proven not by words..but more by action...
Im going to go and continue to post Lumi..and loath JR because thats my basic human right...
Tammer..I dont need to "scare you"..Im an honest straight forward person..and anything private and personal remains there...I have integrity..
Im not a bad person..
when Im treated fairly..
I dont attack unless I am attacked..
Im the same person I was when I was here before..I just have more walls up..to those with daggers aimed at backs... and Im truly sorry to those who felt slighted..because I cant trust anymore...
But my child and my career are more important than board friends..sorry...
and maybe I post here now..just because I refuse to be bullied away...
but Im done with the drama rama...


If you need to clarify anything with me, or need answers I will be happy to do so. I will be straight forward and honest. I have issues as well...as I see you do. I know what you went through, and all those emails we sent to one another were NEVER breeched. EVER! You listened to me when I needed you and for that I was and still am truly grateful. If I hurt you I am not to big to apologize. I am here if you are interested. If not that's cool too.
P.S. and you do scare the begeebbies out of me.

#34   2008/08/27 08:51PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tammer
Tammer

I'm going to bed, can't we all just think about trying to get along? Trusts have been broken but not beyond repair.
Goodnight all.

#35   2008/08/27 08:51PM
Re: Leaving this board
Tune2Days
Tune2Days

No reason to be scared of me..I rescue turtles..rabbits..kittens..and occasionally small Canadians from roadways...lol...
Ive never been known to hunt any of those species...
Disclaimer: That dude from Quebec doesn't count we all know..they arent Canadian..hahaha

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