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The "Sami and Lucas" thread. (Free from character bashing!)
Started by Chrissi at 2007/08/08 11:49AMLatest post: 2009/11/06 03:23PM, Views: 149039, Replies: 3777
LUMIFOREVERA... |
Greatbear!! Welcome Back!! I am so glad you are feeling better. Yes, the show has been very slow this week, so not much to talk about. I am a little behind, I think I am on Tuesdays episode, so I plan to get caught up this weekend. |
blindiedling |
Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: Greatbear!! Welcome Back!! I am so glad you are feeling better. Yes, the show has been very slow this week, so not much to talk about. I am a little behind, I think I am on Tuesdays episode, so I plan to get caught up this weekend. LUMI is Family! Oh, Stefano wants to get Kate preggers? LOL!!! Talk about an evil spawn..LOL ****spoiler within**** I want to second that, welcome back Greatbear, and hope you are feeling better. I couldn`t even imaging that demon spawn. But spoilers say that Kate is very sick. As much as she fools around, maybe she caught something. I don`t like her. In my opinion, it would serve her right. Maybe if she hadn`t run so much interference in Sami and Lucas` lives, our couple would be together today. Oh well when they do watch out for broken beds.  You know the old saying victory is sweet. Have a nice weekend. blin.  "Lumi is family."
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LUMIFOREVERA... |
Happy Monday LUMI fans! |
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blindiedling |
Hi everyone, I`m going to try to answer your question. Please take this with a grain of salt. Because I`m not throwing off on all fathers, through divorce, just my kids. The truth is I would have seen him dead before I would have even considered giving joint custody to my kids father. And some thought he was a good parent. The truth is he layed out in bars, just as much as he could, paid as little support as he could, till I smarten up and took him back for more support. I wouldn`t have though if he would have just left me alone and let me live my life. He wanted to split my two boys up, and take the oldest, and give him to his mother. He put me through as much living he** as he could think of. He went to bed with anyone. He never started threatening custody of my children until he heard through the shop gossip line about me meeting the husband I have now. He really didn`t threaten till he found out we were getting married. Then he started up. I had the unfortunate circumstances of having to work at the same place. Not only that, he also became a supervisor there. Not mine. But it still was a pain to cope with. I can agree with Lucas wanting to get Allie out of that mad house though. But what is wrong with unlimited visistation for children. That`s what mine had. All he had to do was ask. Mine only asked one time,and then he rented horror movies, and scared the daylights, out of the youngest, the kids hated it. But my opinion is Sami is probably going to try to use Allie to get to Lucas. A lot of parents try to use kids to get to each other, especially if they think they can stop the other one from moving on with their lives without them. And that`s what I think Sami may be up to. I don`t know that. But you don`t see Chloe to anxious to become a step-mom. From what I have seen she doesn`t even like the idea. And she probably isn`t that anxious to put up with Sami. Because no matter what. When you have children sooner or later your paths cross, no matter how you try to avoid them. Mine does, and I don`t even work there anymore. He just stops in places when he sees my car, or thinks I`ll be there. The minute he shows up I leave.Have a nice day everyone. Blin. |
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LUMIFOREVERA... |
Hey Blin, Your situation is just horrible and I am so sorry you had to go through that. Sending you hugs |
MelDays |
I think she is throwing a fit because he went to the courts instead of just working it out with her. She would have let him see is daughter at anytime. But, he went after FULL custody. |
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blindiedling |
Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: Hey Blin, Your situation is just horrible and I am so sorry you had to go through that. Sending you hugs  Not that we can ever compare Soaps to real life because the soap world is a world we could never live in..LOL, but I think Sami's situation is a lot different than your real life situation, which I am not qualified to comment on because I have never been in a situation like yours Blin. My whole beef, well, maybe not whole beef, but most of my frustration from Sami is that she wanted Lucas in Ali's life when he was in jail but now that he can be a father to her, she throws a fit? Is it because of Chloe..I think it is, and Chloe doesn't even want to be step-mommy..LOL.. My parents divorced when I was young and custody was never really an issue. My mother did not throw a fit when I was at my dad's and visa versa. I think Sami is acting childish. What did she expect to happen? Did she think Lucas was going to be ok with doing everything on Sami's scheudle? Lucas is a grown man who wants to get on with his life, with his daughter in it, and Sami should be thankful to have such an attentive man as her ex-spouse/child's father. Typing this, I mean no disrespect to anyone who has ever had child custody situations. I am only commenting on Days of Our Lives. I hope that is clear. Lumi is Family! I don`t fell disrespected. I just wanted to point out that sometimes it is not in the best interest for children to be with father. Mine only wanted to cause trouble when I wanted to try and move on with my life. He really wanted to control my life the way he did when we were married. But he didn`t want to grow up and be a husband and a father. We all know this is a soap. But they try to base character relationships on somewhat real lives. Many times parents use children in real life, and on soaps, to obtain what they want. My kids dad thought I would wait on him to go to what ever he wanted to do, and I would sit around and wait on him for whenever he decided to grow up, then come back to his good little church girl. Well guess what, he`s the one that left, and commited adultrey, thus giving me the right to move on with my life. Is he the love of my life. Absolutely, but I`m not going to eat garbage and take it the rest of my life. Nor was I going to try to use the children to obtain getting back together. But this is a soap and I wouldn`t put it past Sami to. I went through alot, that`s why I don`t like to argue or debate now. I want my life to be peaceful now. And it is the kids are all raised. All that is here now is my husband of over 18 years, and our dog Ringo. His kids, and my kids, and all our grandchildren come to visit. yes sometimes the grandchildren spend the night. But that`s enjoyable to.Noone is ever going to manipulate me or make me do anything I don`t want to do again. Sorry if I sound a little like Sami. Actually my life has been a lot like Sami`s. And I don`t mean to sound selfish. But when my divorce happened, I didn`t want it. And my children was all I had in my life. It took more than a month after he left for me to trust him with just a weekend visitation. Once they blow the trust, it`s blown. The state line was to close to where we lived, I was afraid he would jump state with my babies. So I did a lot to protect my kids. Stuff that Sami has never even thought of. And would have done more if I had to. No one was going to pull my boys from me, I was willing to share, but not ever give up custody, or give even joint custody. The simple truth is he had them every other weekend, and all he had to do was ask for them. And I would have let them go, as long as I got them back. Like I said in all that time he asked for them once. Then when they got old enough to have a car, and drive, my husband and me seen to it that they had a car, nothing fancy. The kids went around him when they wanted to. And that wasn`t often. A lot of that was because they went to school, and both of them worked part-time at Wendy`s till they graduatted high school, between that and friends, they didn`t have a whole lot of time they wanted to spend with them. Custody, is no easy issue in real life or a soap. But we`re all still family, sista. Have a nice day. Blin. 
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LUMIFOREVERA... |
Quote blindiedling: Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: Hey Blin, Your situation is just horrible and I am so sorry you had to go through that. Sending you hugs Not that we can ever compare Soaps to real life because the soap world is a world we could never live in..LOL, but I think Sami's situation is a lot different than your real life situation, which I am not qualified to comment on because I have never been in a situation like yours Blin. My whole beef, well, maybe not whole beef, but most of my frustration from Sami is that she wanted Lucas in Ali's life when he was in jail but now that he can be a father to her, she throws a fit? Is it because of Chloe..I think it is, and Chloe doesn't even want to be step-mommy..LOL.. My parents divorced when I was young and custody was never really an issue. My mother did not throw a fit when I was at my dad's and visa versa. I think Sami is acting childish. What did she expect to happen? Did she think Lucas was going to be ok with doing everything on Sami's scheudle? Lucas is a grown man who wants to get on with his life, with his daughter in it, and Sami should be thankful to have such an attentive man as her ex-spouse/child's father. Typing this, I mean no disrespect to anyone who has ever had child custody situations. I am only commenting on Days of Our Lives. I hope that is clear. Lumi is Family! I don`t fell disrespected. I just wanted to point out that sometimes it is not in the best interest for children to be with father. Mine only wanted to cause trouble when I wanted to try and move on with my life. He really wanted to control my life the way he did when we were married. But he didn`t want to grow up and be a husband and a father. We all know this is a soap. But they try to base character relationships on somewhat real lives. Many times parents use children in real life, and on soaps, to obtain what they want. My kids dad thought I would wait on him to go to what ever he wanted to do, and I would sit around and wait on him for whenever he decided to grow up, then come back to his good little church girl. Well guess what, he`s the one that left, and commited adultrey, thus giving me the right to move on with my life. Is he the love of my life. Absolutely, but I`m not going to eat garbage and take it the rest of my life. Nor was I going to try to use the children to obtain getting back together. But this is a soap and I wouldn`t put it past Sami to. I went through alot, that`s why I don`t like to argue or debate now. I want my life to be peaceful now. And it is the kids are all raised. All that is here now is my husband of over 18 years, and our dog Ringo. His kids, and my kids, and all our grandchildren come to visit. yes sometimes the grandchildren spend the night. But that`s enjoyable to.Noone is ever going to manipulate me or make me do anything I don`t want to do again. Sorry if I sound a little like Sami. Actually my life has been a lot like Sami`s. And I don`t mean to sound selfish. But when my divorce happened, I didn`t want it. And my children was all I had in my life. It took more than a month after he left for me to trust him with just a weekend visitation. Once they blow the trust, it`s blown. The state line was to close to where we lived, I was afraid he would jump state with my babies. So I did a lot to protect my kids. Stuff that Sami has never even thought of. And would have done more if I had to. No one was going to pull my boys from me, I was willing to share, but not ever give up custody, or give even joint custody. The simple truth is he had them every other weekend, and all he had to do was ask for them. And I would have let them go, as long as I got them back. Like I said in all that time he asked for them once. Then when they got old enough to have a car, and drive, my husband and me seen to it that they had a car, nothing fancy. The kids went around him when they wanted to. And that wasn`t often. A lot of that was because they went to school, and both of them worked part-time at Wendy`s till they graduatted high school, between that and friends, they didn`t have a whole lot of time they wanted to spend with them. Custody, is no easy issue in real life or a soap. But we`re all still family, sista. Have a nice day. Blin. You know it! LUMI is Family! |
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LUMIFOREVERA... |
Quote MelDays: I think she is throwing a fit because he went to the courts instead of just working it out with her. She would have let him see is daughter at anytime. But, he went after FULL custody. I don’t know what the writers are thinking If they are going to have them fighting – I can’t understand how they can give even joint custody to a man who just got out of jail and shot someone !!! I know this is SOAP world but, GIVE ME A BREAK ! As a mom I can not even picture someone (even the father) taking my children from me. I admit Lucas is a great guy. Sami wants and should get back together with him. But, what judge would give him joint custody! On another topic. I really don’t want Lucas with Chloe and I REALLY don’t want Sami with EJ. I agree he is good looking and I want him to stay on the show. If Sami is going to ne with EJ – she needs to get bad again. Maybe be under some sort of Dimera drug or mind control. I just don’t get her falling for him after everything he did to her. And I really don’t like Lucas always getting so mad at her – when she is being GOOD! The point EJ made about her being a different person around Lucas and trying to prove herself all the time is somewhat true. I love Sami and Lucas. I have watched them since the beginning. But, he needs to stop yelling at her. Sami should be used to that by now, with Ej and all..LOL.. I wish Lucas would have been more adult about Ali's custody issue but with Stefano back, I can see why he did not waste time getting his daughter's custody established. Sami acts so different from day to day, maybe Lucas thought that he could not trust Sami to do the right thing and that is why he went to the courts instead. Joint custody is reasonable but him going after full custody is just silly. |
Tune2Days |
After all the suppo9sed panic..taking Sami and the babies to a "safe house" from Stefano..now its ok to live with him..?.. |
Greatbear100 |
Good day everyone. Lucas probably went for full custody so he would get joint custody. I don't think Lucas would really want to take Allie away from Sami but he has the right to share custody with her. Sami always said she wanted Allie to spend time with Lucas so why she is all bent out of shape makes no sense to me. I think I recall her offering joint custody at one point. So I guess it is that as long as she was arrangeing it it was alright but since the court ordered it that makes it wrong in her mind. |
JTsahottie |
Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: Happy Monday LUMI fans! So, I read the update this morning and I think Sami is losing her mind. Someone asked me if I had children based on my opinion of Sami...I don't have any but I don't think one needs to be a mother to judge or understand Samis actions. What do you mommies out there think? I know it must be hard not to see your children (child) everyday, but it is not like Sami is handing over her daughter to some evil person. Lucas is a great guy and a wonderful father and Sami has been saying since she and Lucas split and even before that, that Ali needs to know her father and have a realtionship with him, but I guess that only works if Sami is pulling the strings to make that happen. Sami and Lucas don't function well unless they are together and I really liked the matureness of Sami and Lucas when they were in love and married. I don't think Lucas's character is ruined but Sami's is well on her way. I guess that is what happens to one who is involved with a Dimera. LUMI is Family! (and it time for them to grow up and be reunited!!) Well I do have children and I think Sami is nuts. She is out of line and she's really starting to worry me, mentally. First off If my husband and I seperated I would NEVER keep his children from him BECAUSE he is a GOOD father. Now if he was a bad person and evil than that would be a different story. But Sami is acting unreasonable and she knows it. She caused this mess by starting a relationship with a person who destroyed her family and STILL has control over her and that's something she needs to correct. Maybe the writers will RIGHT the WRONG and give us back LUMI...because LUMI is Family! |
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Tune2Days |
Sami has just drifted back to old ways... she wants Lucas.. |
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LUMIFOREVERA... |
Quote Tune2Days: Sami has just drifted back to old ways... she wants Lucas.. She is jealous about Cloe and hurt..so she tries to hurt him back.. The only weapon she has is his baby... Sad... and she needs to wake up.. Anyone claiming lucas has no right is just trying to slam him to make JR look better..and it doesnt work... JR will never let Johnny go..nor Sami..and he will use more force... He wont go for Joint custody and have Sami be free..ever.. Bottom line Sami wants Lucas..she is just not doing it right... ~Lumi is family*~ Dimera is doomed Good morning all! Tunes, I love the tag line I just finished up Wednesday's episode last night. No LUMI yet but I am anticipating seeing them on screen when ever I can catch up..LOL..hope y'all have a great day! |
glowhip |
Good morning Lumis, after reading the updates, my biggest question is WHY isn't Sami using all the resources she has in her corner to fight to get her and Johnny out of that house of horror with Stephano and his evil spawn instead of fighting Lucas who has been nothing but devoted to his daughter. She has Marlena, Roman, Mickey, and even John who said he would not allow JR to take Johnny away, but yet the writers have us believe that she is just okey dokey with being forced to live there with the man that she knows created all the chaos in the hospital and tried to take her mother out, this is just so unbelievable and really bad writing on their part. |
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