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Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad

Started by Sweet Life at 2009/10/16 10:46AM
Latest post: 2009/10/22 02:13PM, Views: 3576, Replies: 46
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#21   2009/10/22 09:50AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote magicsteacher: I think with Chad, it is more about his ego and revenge on Mia for hiding it from her and being with Will now instead of him. Reminds me of someone else on the show.
I didn't care for his attitude with his dad yesterday when they were talking. His dad acted like he wasn't a 16 or 17 year old, but like someone who was over 21, asking Chad if he had decided what he was going to do yet and then giving him the card of a good lawyer to talk to. Come on, what parent of a teenager does that? The mom and dad both being attorneys, should have gotten an appointment with a lawyer and gone with Chad to talk to him/ her, not just shoved a card at him and said good luck. Seems to me he rules the roost in that home and pretty much does what he wants.


Excellent excellent points magic. ITA with you. This whole thing isn't sitting right with me.

What parent of a minor says here is a good card for a lawyer? LOL!

#22   2009/10/22 10:17AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


Wrong...and I'm living proof. My son's father abandoned us KNOWING I was carrying his child. 5yrs later he shows back up and wins FULL visitation AND I have to provide 100% transportation back the the state where the father lives.

Chad did not know Mia was pregnant, nor did she make any attempt to tell him. Mia never made any attempt to tell him or she would have known he was in Military School.

I'm not on anyones side...but my feelings completely changed when Chad gave up looking for his daughter when Mia agreed to get back together with him. THAT says it all right there.

#23   2009/10/22 10:22AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Used2bminer:
Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


Wrong...and I'm living proof. My son's father abandoned us KNOWING I was carrying his child. 5yrs later he shows back up and wins FULL visitation AND I have to provide 100% transportation back the the state where the father lives.

Chad did not know Mia was pregnant, nor did she make any attempt to tell him. Mia never made any attempt to tell him or she would have known he was in Military School.

I'm not on anyones side...but my feelings completely changed when Chad gave up looking for his daughter when Mia agreed to get back together with him. THAT says it all right there.


Sorry - I did not mean to say that is how it is. I meant that is how it should be. Women ought to be able to take charge of their own life and not be subject to the whims of flighty, vindictive and irresponsible males. My bad.

And I am sorry about what has happened to you. I hope things are working out OK for you and your child.

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#24   2009/10/22 10:25AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
Used2bminer
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Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote Used2bminer:
Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


Wrong...and I'm living proof. My son's father abandoned us KNOWING I was carrying his child. 5yrs later he shows back up and wins FULL visitation AND I have to provide 100% transportation back the the state where the father lives.

Chad did not know Mia was pregnant, nor did she make any attempt to tell him. Mia never made any attempt to tell him or she would have known he was in Military School.

I'm not on anyones side...but my feelings completely changed when Chad gave up looking for his daughter when Mia agreed to get back together with him. THAT says it all right there.


Sorry - I did not mean to say that is how it is. I meant that is how it should be. Women ought to be able to take charge of their own life and not be subject to the whims of flight, vindictive and irresponsible males. My bad.


Then I completely agree with you!

And if Chad knew she was pregnant, it would be a different story. But the fact remains Mia did not make any attempt to tell him he was going to have a child.

#25   2009/10/22 10:35AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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I do see your point used2bminer. I really do. But then she is just a kid and she thought he abandoned her. And ITA with you that him saying he would leave it alone if she was with him says it all.

I do not like watching men be controlling and vindictive while playing it up that they just want their child. It makes all men look badly and sadly it happens a lot in real life.

#26   2009/10/22 10:59AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Sunnyflower: I do see your point used2bminer. I really do. But then she is just a kid and she thought he abandoned her. And ITA with you that him saying he would leave it alone if she was with him says it all.

I do not like watching men be controlling and vindictive while playing it up that they just want their child. It makes all men look badly and sadly it happens a lot in real life.


I see your point also, that's why I'm not really on anybody's side. Although I do agree Chad is being an a$$.

#27   2009/10/22 11:03AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


Are you kidding me? They were in high school and they are kids. He had no idea he got her pregnant nor does he owe her anything at that point. She should have tried to contact him to let him know she was carrying his child. We have no idea what happened in their relationship or how it ended. When you are 16 you don't keep in touch with someone you dated just in case 2 years from now you bump into the girl and she says oh by the way I had your baby. GMAB

#28   2009/10/22 11:09AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote kktt:
Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


Are you kidding me? They were in high school and they are kids. He had no idea he got her pregnant nor does he owe her anything at that point. She should have tried to contact him to let him know she was carrying his child. We have no idea what happened in their relationship or how it ended. When you are 16 you don't keep in touch with someone you dated just in case 2 years from now you bump into the girl and she says oh by the way I had your baby. GMAB


I say too bad for him. He doesn't owe her anything nor she him.

#29   2009/10/22 11:10AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Used2bminer:
Quote Sunnyflower: I do see your point used2bminer. I really do. But then she is just a kid and she thought he abandoned her. And ITA with you that him saying he would leave it alone if she was with him says it all.

I do not like watching men be controlling and vindictive while playing it up that they just want their child. It makes all men look badly and sadly it happens a lot in real life.


I see your point also, that's why I'm not really on anybody's side. Although I do agree Chad is being an a$$.


That is really my issue with it all. I don't think he is being genuine. So it bothers me.

#30   2009/10/22 11:16AM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Just to clarify I don't necessarily think Chad is the best for Sydney I am just saying he definately has options being the father. When I think of someone being abandoned I think of someone who was dependent on someone else. If they were 20 and living together and she came home one day and he was gone I could competely agree with you saying she was abandoned. I don't see how two teenagers that broke up you could use the term he abandoned her. He didn't know she was pregnant so he was simply a teenager who broke up with his girlfriend.

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#31   2009/10/22 01:48PM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote ghlover2009: chad is hott and all but its not his kid. he should of not ran off anyways what a jerk


I disagree Chad is not a jerk for he is part of Nicole web of lies just like EJ were and Sami. He was lied too from the beginning he never knew that Mia got pregnant and Mia have the baby and gave it to Nicole only the adoption wasn't legal and Nicole switch the babies. Therefore Chad doesn't know his baby was Grace and is dead for he thinks that his baby is Sydney because he was led to believe that.
And he should have some said because if he is older enough to get a girl pregnant then he is older enough to discuss with Mia what is going to happened to the baby.
And Nicole knows that the only way to stopped him is to tell the truth but she won't because she won't risk in losing Sydney.

#32   2009/10/22 01:51PM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Used2bminer:
Quote bghwme: this would be ironic:

What if Chad sides up with EJ and tries to get custody of Sydney for EJ.

And, Mia sides ups with Sami, and tries to get custody of Sydney for Nicole.

Of course, Nicole who has no means of support will not win in a custody battle like that; so that is why Sami gives Nicole the money to leave the country.


The way I see it...there isn't a battle to be had. The child belongs to Mia and Chad period. There was no adoption and Chad was left in the dark.


Actually Sydney belongs to EJ and Sami for Grace was Chad and Mia child.

#33   2009/10/22 01:53PM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote hootaboi:
Quote daysfan1023: Chad was sent to military school. I'm guessing because he was a bad boy. If he really cared for Mia why didn't he ever call? EJ is giving up because he knew Nicole didn't do the adoption right and knew one day someone would want to kid. I see why EJ is being that way. I can't wait for this to all be over. I hope EJ and Sami bond over this, even if it's just as friends, I love watching them two together.


You just answered your own question, he didn't call her b/c he was at Military School, and how was he supposed to know she would be pregnant! He isn't a mind reader!


Well that is also a two way street for Mia never called him and told him that she was pregnant

#34   2009/10/22 01:59PM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
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Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


I disagree because Grace is still his and he didn't know. I mean Mia could had went to Chad parents because she didn't know.

#35   2009/10/22 02:01PM
Re: Spoiler/rumor Sami & Chad
dumbfairiesgirl
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Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote Used2bminer:
Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote kktt: I agree he should have called but he is a child and that doesn't mean he gave up rights to his kids just because he didn't call his ex girlfriend. What he should have done doesn't change the facts.


I completely disagree. She had no idea where he was and how to contact him. She thought she was abandoned. And she had to make a decision - there is a time line on this - and she couldn't just sit around *hoping* he turned back up AND that he would want a child. Given his behaviour, she had every reason to think he wanted nothing to do with her, let alone a child.

You abandon a woman, you lose your rights.


Wrong...and I'm living proof. My son's father abandoned us KNOWING I was carrying his child. 5yrs later he shows back up and wins FULL visitation AND I have to provide 100% transportation back the the state where the father lives.

Chad did not know Mia was pregnant, nor did she make any attempt to tell him. Mia never made any attempt to tell him or she would have known he was in Military School.

I'm not on anyones side...but my feelings completely changed when Chad gave up looking for his daughter when Mia agreed to get back together with him. THAT says it all right there.


Sorry - I did not mean to say that is how it is. I meant that is how it should be. Women ought to be able to take charge of their own life and not be subject to the whims of flighty, vindictive and irresponsible males. My bad.

And I am sorry about what has happened to you. I hope things are working out OK for you and your child.


I disagree when it comes to a child it should be what it is best for the child and children needs both mother and father and Mia never tried to make that happened for she gave Sydney to Nicole but knowing that Sydney is not her baby.

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