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i actually feel sorry for ej....

Started by foreversamifan at 2009/10/10 02:03PM
Latest post: 2009/10/15 04:02PM, Views: 890, Replies: 27
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#1   2009/10/10 02:03PM
i actually feel sorry for ej....
foreversamifan
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I do not want Sami and Ej back together. But, I find myself feeling sad for him. He has lost two kids(even though his actual daughter is still alive), Nicole played this nasty game with him and his own father helps Nicole hide the truth from him. He really has nobody he can trust.

#2   2009/10/10 02:19PM
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Sunnydaz
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I dont. And if i started to as soon as he pounds on his chest, yells and screams at who ever he's talking to which is usually Nicole or Sami, i stop. What goes around comes around.

#3   2009/10/10 03:26PM
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DayzDreamin
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I cant say that I feel sorry for Ej, but I have pity on the fool because he cannot see how his own behavior is at the root of his problems. That is what Lexie was trying to gingerly tell him. But with the type of person he is, the attitude he has and the life he lives it is no wonder he has people around him that arent trust worthy. it is the old saying that no one can take advantage of you unless you let them. Nichole (and Sami) are not to blame for being able to outsmart Ej, Ej let them get the best of him. But even to why they would need to do these things it goes to the root of who he is. Ej needs a wake up call IF he wants things to be different. Or he can just get meaner darker and more twisted.

#4   2009/10/10 03:31PM
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hootaboi
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I really don't. I used to but after the way he reacted to Nicole and how he grabbed her by the neck, all my sympathy for him is gone!!! I almost feel more sorry for Nicole now!

#5   2009/10/10 05:22PM
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magicsteacher
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Quote DayzDreamin: I cant say that I feel sorry for Ej, but I have pity on the fool because he cannot see how his own behavior is at the root of his problems. That is what Lexie was trying to gingerly tell him. But with the type of person he is, the attitude he has and the life he lives it is no wonder he has people around him that arent trust worthy. it is the old saying that no one can take advantage of you unless you let them. Nichole (and Sami) are not to blame for being able to outsmart Ej, Ej let them get the best of him. But even to why they would need to do these things it goes to the root of who he is. Ej needs a wake up call IF he wants things to be different. Or he can just get meaner darker and more twisted.




Excellent post, dayz!! Lexie was spot on when she told EJ that he is intimidating so women feel they have to lie to him. He looked shocked when she told him that, but it is the truth. At this point, I doubt if EJ will want things to be different. IMO, he will continue to go to the darker side and try to get revenge on everyone who he feels has tried to deceive him, even tho, he won't see that it is really his fault.
Do I feel sorry for EJ-- nope, not a bit. Karma is flying all around him.

#6   2009/10/10 06:06PM
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DOOL1965
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I don’t! He has been deceitful, manipulating, scheming and using people from the first days he arrived in Salem, so now it is pay back time for Mr. Elvis DiMera!

#7   2009/10/11 07:01AM
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catherineb
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Oh Plz give me a break. I don't feel sorry for Ej no way even if u pay me a million dollars i will never ever feel any remorse for EJ, Sami or Nicole nothing. They all deserve what's happening to them because they have all done bad stuff to people. I only feel sorry for is baby sydney she is the victim here not EJ, Sami or Nicole.

#8   2009/10/12 08:23AM
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LadyDi50
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Well I guess I'm a bit of a softy. I feel bad that EJ lost a daughter, but in his mind two daughters. In spite of everything, he does love his children; now he only has one child, his son. I feel bad that he can't see that he is as much to blame for the circumstances he finds himself in as his siter tried to point out to him. But right now EJ is so blinded by not only grief, but feeling like a fool that he can't see past his bitterness.

Snydey is the innocent one involved here, and unfortunately Nicole is going to continue to use that little girl to try and get what she wants; at all costs. I feel sorry for all involved to a degree:

Nicole has dug such a hole that she loses if she tells the truth and we all know that Nicole is just that selfish to not tell the truth... even though a part of her does feel remorse for her actions...

I feel sorry for Sami because she is being decieved by someone that she has put her differences aside with, and has forgiven her for everything and will be just as devasted to find out that Nicole played her... Sami will be driven by bitterness once again I've afraid... espcially if she and Rafe don't get back together

EJ well I feel bad for him because he truly fell in love and now knows what its like to get hurt... maybe he the future he won't be so quick to try and destroy other peoples lives...

They are all getting a portion of what they deserve.... but Snydey, well, she is young enough right now to bounce back...

Maybe we will find out that Snydey really is Mia's baby and Sami's baby did in fact die...Do Baker duped us all...and Chad is someone connected to the DiMera and Snydey will truly be a DiMera after all...

#9   2009/10/12 08:55AM
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magicsteacher
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I agree with your post in that I do think EJ truly fell in love with Nicole, and now he is so bitter that he can't see that he does still love her. I think he will forgive her, at least for now.
I especially like the idea in your last paragraph. This would make me really happy!!

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#10   2009/10/12 09:22AM
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LUMIFOREVERA...
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feel sorry for Ej... NEVER!

#11   2009/10/12 02:42PM
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bigtimesoapfan
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Three words: It's Karma baby!! and I couldn't be happeir!! Bring on the pain!! He's been delivering it since he showed up! It's about time someone finally turned the tables and makes his life pure emotional hell for awhile!! I say Good Job Nicole!! Keep it coming!!

#12   2009/10/12 03:08PM
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Sunnydaz
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Quote LadyDi50: Well I guess I'm a bit of a softy. I feel bad that EJ lost a daughter, but in his mind two daughters. In spite of everything, he does love his children; now he only has one child, his son. I feel bad that he can't see that he is as much to blame for the circumstances he finds himself in as his siter tried to point out to him. But right now EJ is so blinded by not only grief, but feeling like a fool that he can't see past his bitterness.

Snydey is the innocent one involved here, and unfortunately Nicole is going to continue to use that little girl to try and get what she wants; at all costs. I feel sorry for all involved to a degree:

Nicole has dug such a hole that she loses if she tells the truth and we all know that Nicole is just that selfish to not tell the truth... even though a part of her does feel remorse for her actions...

I feel sorry for Sami because she is being decieved by someone that she has put her differences aside with, and has forgiven her for everything and will be just as devasted to find out that Nicole played her... Sami will be driven by bitterness once again I've afraid... espcially if she and Rafe don't get back together

EJ well I feel bad for him because he truly fell in love and now knows what its like to get hurt... maybe he the future he won't be so quick to try and destroy other peoples lives...

They are all getting a portion of what they deserve.... but Snydey, well, she is young enough right now to bounce back...

Maybe we will find out that Snydey really is Mia's baby and Sami's baby did in fact die...Do Baker duped us all...and Chad is someone connected to the DiMera and Snydey will truly be a DiMera after all...


This is a really nice post. I like it. You know i cant stand EJ and dont care that he's hurting but you do make a very good point all the way thru. Thank you for sharing your opinion.

#13   2009/10/12 04:04PM
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UKDaysFan
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A bunch of Safe & Lumi fans don't feel sorry for EJ.....quelle surprise!

II feel sorry for both EJ & Sami, as they're in the dark about what's happened to their daughter.

#14   2009/10/12 04:52PM
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alane70
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Quote UKDaysFan: A bunch of Safe & Lumi fans don't feel sorry for EJ.....quelle surprise!

II feel sorry for both EJ & Sami, as they're in the dark about what's happened to their daughter.


I think I like Lufe fans. Since there is a lot of overlap anyway.

#15   2009/10/12 04:58PM
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Sunnydaz
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Quote alane70:
Quote UKDaysFan: A bunch of Safe & Lumi fans don't feel sorry for EJ.....quelle surprise!

II feel sorry for both EJ & Sami, as they're in the dark about what's happened to their daughter.


I think I like Lufe fans. Since there is a lot of overlap anyway.


Hi alane70....i love your avi....its a hot young Galen Gering, right? I'm curious and trying to figure out if you are for ejami or safe....it seems obvious with your avi but i thought i saw your cheering on ejami.

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