Days of Our Lives - MESSAGE BOARDS

Twice on today's show Nichole questioned herself on what would be best for Sydney. She is in a world all her own because her conclusion was that she will not give up "her little girl." What is really best for Sydney? That answer would be, to be with her biological parents, and this of course would exclude Nichole.

Any comments?

I think young as she is for she won't probably remember Nicole. Because I don't even remember her age even older but Nicole still will remember just like Sami still remember Grace.
What Sydney is to know parents and to be loved and to be clothed and protected. We know that if EJ knew that it is really her daughter then he will make sure that happened for he will treated her just like Johnny.

Nichole has a warpped understanding of "what is best for Sydney". However I would venture to guess (given all of his previous statements) that Stefano would be with Nichole, that what would be best, is for her to remain a DiMeara and far away from Sami.

Just given Ej's comments yesterday to Sami about her and the Grace deal, I do not think Ej would be in a hurry to share another child with her IF he could prevent it. He would rather not share Johnny with her and almost took him away from her and would have, if Stephanie wasnt willing to testify that he was behind her kidnapping.

I am suspecting Stefano to come out of the coma and straighten EJ out and Ej will pretend he doesnt know and patch up with Nichole and get the adoption legalized with Mia and Chad

What is best for Sydney is for her to be with her real mother Sammie.

I agree with you!!! No matter what is best for Sydney, Stefano will want her to remain a Dimera, as she was baptized. He will work something out to make sure that Nicole and EJ stay together and Sydney remains with them.
Right now, I am not sure that anyone of them-- Nicole, Stefano, or EJ, is in the mindset of what is best for Sydney. Nicole thinks she does, but she is not in her right mind at this point and as for EJ and Stefano, as usual, it is all about them and what is best for them and the Dimeras.

Sydney needs to have a normal family in her life, and that’s Sami and the Brady’s. Stefano will throw anyone under the bus if he will benefit from it; look what he did to Tony and Lexie his own kids years ago. I think Rafe will spill the beans before Stefano has a chance to do anything. I also think EJ and Nicole will get back together; he said he loves Nicole and wanted to spend his life with her. We all know people are mad as heck one minute and the next they are making out and in love again.

Sydney deserves to grow up knowing the truth about her parents. Sami is her mom, EJ is her dad. Sydney IS a DiMera. I think Sami and EJ should decide on Sydney's future, since they are her parents. This past week when Sami looked at EJ & said 'I wonder who her parents are?' you could tell the writers have big plans for the eventual reveal.

Also, in an interview she gave to one of the soap mags, Ari Zucker said Nicole wouldn't be getting back together w/EJ. She said Nicole was delusional in her thinking that EJ would take her back. I have no idea how Stefano will fit into this s/l, but regardless of what he wants, I don't think EJ & Nicole will be together.

I have absolutely no clue anymore. Don't get me wrong, I love Sami and think that she deserves to have her kid back, but I think that giving Sydney to her would be a big mistake. Nicole is the only mother that Sydney's known. Changing that now would scar her for life. EJ would still be her father, once the whole truth comes out, but I really don't know.

Sydney is so young right now, that she would feel the affect for a little while. But after awhile she would not recollect it. Just think back till your earliest memories. Do you remember things at 10 months old. Or even a year old. I don`t. But or course I lost some of my memory due to toxemia, giving childbirth. I almost died. And when I regained conciousness they even had to tell me who my family was, and why I was in the hospital. Some memories came back, other are still lost, and after 35 years. I think given time though Nichole would be a memory not remembered, yes she would miss Nichole for a couple of weeks, or maybe a month or so. But once Sami and Sydney realized they were Mommy, and daughter after awhile it would all work out.

I know I`ll propably get static for this one, but when the scenes happened with Ej kicking Sydney out, a thought occured to me. Since in Salem there is never a praternity test that isn`t fooled with. And no one is ever sure who the "daddy is", what if someathing happens that proves that Johnny isn`t Ej`s, I`m just saying, Paternity tests are always fooled with, who knows maybe Allie really isn`t Lucas`, that`s not what I`m wondering. Suppose it really turns around that Johnny isn`t his. Does that mean Ej`s going to do the same thing to Johnny? That child has been around him long enough to really feel the affects of that. I`m just wondering what affect that would have on everything. Would that be something that would turn Ej farther into the darkside? I don`t like Ej, as a goodie. I can tolerate him as a badie. When he plays good, I wonder when the real Ej will stand up, and what`s he up to. This was just a thought that popped in my head when that scene unfolded. And just me wondering how things would come out. Have a nice day everyone. Blin.

She obviously has not made the full change to DiMera if she can't blackmail her spouse