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Quote briebrie: Quote magicsteacher: Quote Trisha ann: I DONT BLAME EJ FOR BEING MAD. HE SHOULD KICK NICOLE OUT AND WE ALL KNOW NICOLE WOULD TAKE SIDNEY WITH HER BECAUSE EJ DO'EST KNOW THAT SIDNEY IS HE'S and SAMIE DAUGHTER. I HOPE SAMIE KICK'S NICOLE AS* I don't blame EJ for being angry either. And, if he wanted to show Nicole the door, I could understand that, too. But the part that irritates me is that he doesn't want Sydney around either b/c she is not his blood daughter. What difference does it make? If you love a child, you love a child, it makes no difference who the biological parent(s) are. You don't turn that love off and on, depending on whether or not a certain person is the father or mother. That was a cold and cruel thing for him to do. ITA, but maybe he thinks that he has no legal right to Sydney and without Nicole, he can't have Sydney so maybe he thinks he has to shut her out? I don't know. I haven't seen the show yet where he talks with Lexie and she will probably help him see how stupid he's being with regard to Sydney (or maybe Sami will help with that). I assume he'll change his mind about Sydney once the blood pressure in his brain lowers a little. Maybe he thinks that he has no legal right to Sydney...This has never stopped a Dimera before, if they want something they just take it, legal or not. EJ has all the resources to beat Chad with one hand tied behind his back. A Dimera heir is more important then anything else! Wrong bloodlines NO heir in EJ eyes! |
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Quote DOOL1965: Quote briebrie: Quote magicsteacher: Quote Trisha ann: I DONT BLAME EJ FOR BEING MAD. HE SHOULD KICK NICOLE OUT AND WE ALL KNOW NICOLE WOULD TAKE SIDNEY WITH HER BECAUSE EJ DO'EST KNOW THAT SIDNEY IS HE'S and SAMIE DAUGHTER. I HOPE SAMIE KICK'S NICOLE AS* I don't blame EJ for being angry either. And, if he wanted to show Nicole the door, I could understand that, too. But the part that irritates me is that he doesn't want Sydney around either b/c she is not his blood daughter. What difference does it make? If you love a child, you love a child, it makes no difference who the biological parent(s) are. You don't turn that love off and on, depending on whether or not a certain person is the father or mother. That was a cold and cruel thing for him to do. ITA, but maybe he thinks that he has no legal right to Sydney and without Nicole, he can't have Sydney so maybe he thinks he has to shut her out? I don't know. I haven't seen the show yet where he talks with Lexie and she will probably help him see how stupid he's being with regard to Sydney (or maybe Sami will help with that). I assume he'll change his mind about Sydney once the blood pressure in his brain lowers a little. Maybe he thinks that he has no legal right to Sydney...This has never stopped a Dimera before, if they want something they just take it, legal or not. EJ has all the resources to beat Chad with one hand tied behind his back. A Dimera heir is more important then anything else! Wrong bloodlines NO heir in EJ eyes! I think EJ's behavior toward Sydney is more indicative of his crazed anger toward Nicole rather than his feelings about an heir. I'm looking forward to the scenes between EJ and Chad when everyone starts thinking that Sydney is Mia and Chad's baby. I would love for Chad to be a secret Kiriakis...that would be great. |
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Quote hootaboi: Here's my question, what's with men assaulting woman on Soaps lately? First we have EJ grabbing Nicole by the throat on Days and then we have Johnny grabbing Claudia by the head on GH .. I think some soaps are starting to cross the line.. Let's not forget women assaulting men on the soaps..How about Carley stabbing her husband in the gut or Nicole grabbing Ej's arm at the hospital.. I'm not sure why this didn't get a mention |
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Quote Misstayliana: Quote hootaboi: Here's my question, what's with men assaulting woman on Soaps lately? First we have EJ grabbing Nicole by the throat on Days and then we have Johnny grabbing Claudia by the head on GH .. I think some soaps are starting to cross the line.. Let's not forget women assaulting men on the soaps..How about Carley stabbing her husband in the gut or Nicole grabbing Ej's arm at the hospital.. I'm not sure why this didn't get a mention it didn't get a mention because that's not what the topic is about. anyways...i just finished watching today's cdn episode, and everyone who agrees with me that EJ is being a total jerk about Sydney, is going to HATE HATE HATE this episode. what a stupid stupid man. i'm starting to think he doesn't deserve Sydney's love. she doesn't need a father like that. and i'm seriously going to puke when he finds out it IS his real daughter, and then all of the sudden he'll miraculously love her again! pleh...it was so unbelievably frustrating watching it. he needs to take Sami's advice and get over himself. |
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Quote bmes: Quote Misstayliana: Quote hootaboi: Here's my question, what's with men assaulting woman on Soaps lately? First we have EJ grabbing Nicole by the throat on Days and then we have Johnny grabbing Claudia by the head on GH .. I think some soaps are starting to cross the line.. Let's not forget women assaulting men on the soaps..How about Carley stabbing her husband in the gut or Nicole grabbing Ej's arm at the hospital.. I'm not sure why this didn't get a mention it didn't get a mention because that's not what the topic is about. anyways...i just finished watching today's cdn episode, and everyone who agrees with me that EJ is being a total jerk about Sydney, is going to HATE HATE HATE this episode. what a stupid stupid man. i'm starting to think he doesn't deserve Sydney's love. she doesn't need a father like that. and i'm seriously going to puke when he finds out it IS his real daughter, and then all of the sudden he'll miraculously love her again! pleh...it was so unbelievably frustrating watching it. he needs to take Sami's advice and get over himself. What episode was it that Ej said he didn't love her anymore?.. Must have missed that one..You'd better keep that bucket handy.. |
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I think as an initial reaction, EJ's was right on- get rid of anything that reminds you of the pain of being deceived for over a year about something so important. But it's only been a day. Let's see how he feels in the days/weeks to come and then make a judgment. |
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has anyone entertained the idea that EJ will find out Sydney is Sami's daughter...and then not tell her? He will justify it by reminding himself that Sami hid Grace from him, stay with Nicole, and the two will continue to raise her...until Rafe shows back up and it all comes out. |
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Quote daysforlifer: I think as an initial reaction, EJ's was right on- get rid of anything that reminds you of the pain of being deceived for over a year about something so important. But it's only been a day. Let's see how he feels in the days/weeks to come and then make a judgment. Why should EJ get a wait and see period. EJ has been Sydney’s father from the day she was born, and now he thinks she is not a Dimera so throw her out with the bathwater, love doesn’t work that way, if you love someone it doesn’t matter what happens, its called unconditional love. |
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Quote DOOL1965: Quote daysforlifer: I think as an initial reaction, EJ's was right on- get rid of anything that reminds you of the pain of being deceived for over a year about something so important. But it's only been a day. Let's see how he feels in the days/weeks to come and then make a judgment. Why should EJ get a wait and see period. EJ has been Sydney’s father from the day she was born, and now he thinks she is not a Dimera so throw her out with the bathwater, love doesn’t work that way, if you love someone it doesn’t matter what happens, its called unconditional love. Amen to that!! The Dimeras don't know what unconditional love is, IMO. Look how many times Stefano has threatened to disinherit his kids when they don't do what he thinks they should do? A parent, biological or not, loves their child or children without ANY RESERVATIONS. |
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Quote magicsteacher: Quote DOOL1965: Quote daysforlifer: I think as an initial reaction, EJ's was right on- get rid of anything that reminds you of the pain of being deceived for over a year about something so important. But it's only been a day. Let's see how he feels in the days/weeks to come and then make a judgment. Why should EJ get a wait and see period. EJ has been Sydney’s father from the day she was born, and now he thinks she is not a Dimera so throw her out with the bathwater, love doesn’t work that way, if you love someone it doesn’t matter what happens, its called unconditional love. Amen to that!! The Dimeras don't know what unconditional love is, IMO. Look how many times Stefano has threatened to disinherit his kids when they don't do what he thinks they should do? A parent, biological or not, loves their child or children without ANY RESERVATIONS. Before we get another "Amen" or "ICAM" can either of you tell me when EJ said he didn't love Sydney, as I'd love to hear it. This isn't about if he loves Sydney or not as he has said at least twice this week that I can recall, that he LOVES Sydney. That he loves Sydney is not in question. How he had reacted to the reveal and how he wants to deal with it are. Day 1, EJ's way of coping seems to be to shut himself off the anymore potential pain by trying to take all the pain now and cut himself off from Sydney, as he believes someone will eventually take her from him. This is his initial reaction, when he is drinking heavily. From the spoilers we know that he tells Nicole that he wants Sydney, just not her and he won't let Chad hold Sydney without proof that he is her real father. You may not like or agree with how EJ reacts/copes with the news, but when the character has stated repeatedly that he loves his child, it is incorrect to say that he doesn't love her or doesn't love her unconditionally. What makes any of us able to determine what he feels better than the character himself? |
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EJ is thinking about himself first, like he always does. Unconditional love is under no circumstances do you let your baby go, Nichole yes, but not Sydney, and I heard him twice tell Nicole and Sydney to leave. He better find a better way of coping with things. He should take responsibilities of his actions and not turn too a bottle of booze for his comfort. |
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Quote Misstayliana: Quote bmes: Quote Misstayliana: Quote hootaboi: Here's my question, what's with men assaulting woman on Soaps lately? First we have EJ grabbing Nicole by the throat on Days and then we have Johnny grabbing Claudia by the head on GH .. I think some soaps are starting to cross the line.. Let's not forget women assaulting men on the soaps..How about Carley stabbing her husband in the gut or Nicole grabbing Ej's arm at the hospital.. I'm not sure why this didn't get a mention it didn't get a mention because that's not what the topic is about. anyways...i just finished watching today's cdn episode, and everyone who agrees with me that EJ is being a total jerk about Sydney, is going to HATE HATE HATE this episode. what a stupid stupid man. i'm starting to think he doesn't deserve Sydney's love. she doesn't need a father like that. and i'm seriously going to puke when he finds out it IS his real daughter, and then all of the sudden he'll miraculously love her again! pleh...it was so unbelievably frustrating watching it. he needs to take Sami's advice and get over himself. What episode was it that Ej said he didn't love her anymore?.. Must have missed that one..You'd better keep that bucket handy.. he didn't say he didn't love her. i didn't mean to imply that he said that... but he said something like "she's just a memory now"....oh ok then. just a memory. like she's nothing to him anymore...know what I mean??? BAH!! whatever. lol...i'm looking forward to seeing him feel like a big ol' jerk!! |
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Quote UKDaysFan: Quote magicsteacher: Quote DOOL1965: Quote daysforlifer: I think as an initial reaction, EJ's was right on- get rid of anything that reminds you of the pain of being deceived for over a year about something so important. But it's only been a day. Let's see how he feels in the days/weeks to come and then make a judgment. Why should EJ get a wait and see period. EJ has been Sydney’s father from the day she was born, and now he thinks she is not a Dimera so throw her out with the bathwater, love doesn’t work that way, if you love someone it doesn’t matter what happens, its called unconditional love. Amen to that!! The Dimeras don't know what unconditional love is, IMO. Look how many times Stefano has threatened to disinherit his kids when they don't do what he thinks they should do? A parent, biological or not, loves their child or children without ANY RESERVATIONS. Before we get another "Amen" or "ICAM" can either of you tell me when EJ said he didn't love Sydney, as I'd love to hear it. This isn't about if he loves Sydney or not as he has said at least twice this week that I can recall, that he LOVES Sydney. That he loves Sydney is not in question. How he had reacted to the reveal and how he wants to deal with it are. Day 1, EJ's way of coping seems to be to shut himself off the anymore potential pain by trying to take all the pain now and cut himself off from Sydney, as he believes someone will eventually take her from him. This is his initial reaction, when he is drinking heavily. From the spoilers we know that he tells Nicole that he wants Sydney, just not her and he won't let Chad hold Sydney without proof that he is her real father. You may not like or agree with how EJ reacts/copes with the news, but when the character has stated repeatedly that he loves his child, it is incorrect to say that he doesn't love her or doesn't love her unconditionally. What makes any of us able to determine what he feels better than the character himself? I guess it depends on what is meant by love. IMO, when you love a child, you put them above yourself, your feelings, and your wants. No matter if you are upset with your spouse or significant other, that child comes first. Just saying you love them means little, talk is cheap. It's showing it that counts. No matter how upset you are or how badly you are hurting, you don't reject a child that you claim to love. Sydney is an innocent victim in all of this. If EJ wanted to give Nicole the heave ho, so be it, but not that innocent little girl. He is getting no sympathy from me on that one. It is and always has been about EJ and his feelings. |
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oh well said! Ej is being a total ass. He may not want to be hurt anymore, but I do not believe that is the reason that he is acting that way. I believe that he wants any excuse to be away from Nicole. They are really getting on my nerves with this story line. They need to end it. Sami and Rafe need to still be having issues and the ever present EJ should be concentrating on causing them grief. I loved the fact that EJ was jealous of Rafe and Sami finding each other when he was in the process of marrying Nicole. They need to revisit that story and stop repeating this baby snatching drama. I cannot wait until he realizes that Syd is his daughter for real. He should then be denied the privilege of being able to see her at all! |
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