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Started by bmes at 2009/10/06 09:59AM
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#31   2009/10/07 02:33PM
Re: does anyone think EJ is being kind of an...
luvinej
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Are you people serious? Why don't you put the blame where it belongs which is on the writers. James doesn't write the scenes he just acts them out. You guys sit there and bash EJ/James in every post. It's ridiculous. Bad post me or whatever. I could care less I won't respond anyway.

#32   2009/10/07 02:36PM
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Ejamilover
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Quote bigtimesoapfan: I couldn't disagree more! Sammi is nothing like EJ. Yes some of the crimes in name are the same but the reasoning behind it is much different! Sammi's crimes(for the most part(were because of her misguided notion on love) when Sammi raped Austin(not that I was okay with it, in her head he was going to love her. Where as when EJ raped Sammi it was about stem cells, he wasn't thinking this is gonna make her snapp outta it and love me so much! He was thinking I want what I want when O want it! Also @ least Austin has no recolection of what happened where as Sammi had to choose between savng Lucas' life and letting slime touch her(with a gun pointed to her head, like she really had a choice). They are not alike! Sammi has a heart! and EJ has none!


EJ does have a heart he is better man that abuser Lucas Roberts who has nothing make Sami's life hell over the years that is why i laugh people say Ejami is sick because that i think of Lumi if that is not a abusive relationship i don't what is but Lucas is a saint and EJ always scum. Sami is a rapist herself that is why she forgave EJ actually what she did was worse at least EJ gave her a choice that night she drugged Austin and he never got that opition of saying no. But may that doesn't matter because she is a woman and so it perfectly alright what she did. EJ showed many times last year he had good points even Sami said he was great husband to Lucas and how he changed he loves Samatha and he will always will and she know it.

#33   2009/10/07 02:48PM
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bigtimesoapfan
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Quote Ejamilover:
Quote bigtimesoapfan: I couldn't disagree more! Sammi is nothing like EJ. Yes some of the crimes in name are the same but the reasoning behind it is much different! Sammi's crimes(for the most part(were because of her misguided notion on love) when Sammi raped Austin(not that I was okay with it, in her head he was going to love her. Where as when EJ raped Sammi it was about stem cells, he wasn't thinking this is gonna make her snapp outta it and love me so much! He was thinking I want what I want when O want it! Also @ least Austin has no recolection of what happened where as Sammi had to choose between savng Lucas' life and letting slime touch her(with a gun pointed to her head, like she really had a choice). They are not alike! Sammi has a heart! and EJ has none!


EJ does have a heart he is better man that abuser Lucas Roberts who has nothing make Sami's life hell over the years that is why i laugh people say Ejami is sick because that i think of Lumi if that is not a abusive relationship i don't what is but Lucas is a saint and EJ always scum. Sami is a rapist herself that is why she forgave EJ actually what she did was worse at least EJ gave her a choice that night she drugged Austin and he never got that opition of saying no. But may that doesn't matter because she is a woman and so it perfectly alright what she did. EJ showed many times last year he had good points even Sami said he was great husband to Lucas and how he changed he loves Samatha and he will always will and she know it.


Im sorry if I offend but I just spit out my cofee and am now LMFAO!!! If a man is holding a gun to your head how much choice do you have? Thats a new one! I cn't even say anything else cause thats just .......LMAO!!! Thanks I needed that!! chuckle chuckle!!

#34   2009/10/07 03:13PM
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alane70
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Quote Sunnyflower:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote bigtimesoapfan: So our shows should be about cheap hookups? The days of true love conquers all are done? Personally I find it all kinda sick that @ this point half the town has slept together!! I call that CHEAP!! and degrading! Just like EJ's charecter! Him throwing out syd was the last straw for me!
And actually to answer your ? When I was a teen I unfortunaltley did look to my shows to teach me!(thats why my kids don't watch!!)




And as a high school teacher, I can tell you that young people are so influenced by soaps and other shows that they watch. They are not yet mature enough in many ways to distinguish what is real and what is not and look up to these soap stars. Many who watch are as young as 11 or 12 years old and have little parental supervision when watching.
They do not need to watch abusive behavior like EJ is displaying or a man kicking his baby out of the house. They need positive role models.
As far as sweet romance and devoted love between people in love being boring-- not for me. I find it refreshing and wonderful.


Well, as a human being, I think that is ridiculous. Children aren't stupid and it is up to the parents and other adults in their lives to teach them right and wrong, not a soap opera. For heaven's sakes.


If anyone, of any age, watches a soap for any reason other than entertainment, I am shocked. There is rarely anything redeeming about a soap. Even if you hate EJ & love Rafe, Rafe may or may not have killed his fiance, he is one of many men Sami slept w/out of wedlock (there are parents who discourage this). . . the only people who are worthy of true respect are never on the show - Alice & maybe Caroline (although Caroline cheated on her husband!). If the morals, or lack thereof, of the show or the characters bothers you, I can't imagine why you watch. That must be frustrating. They do show Little House on the Prairie & Andy Griffith reruns I believe.

#35   2009/10/07 03:19PM
Re: does anyone think EJ is being kind of an...
alane70
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I don't even think the soap actors themselves promote their shows or their characters as role models. They would probably say that young children/teens don't need to be watching, just like there are certain movies they don't need to see. It's not the actors fault -on a soap or in a movie - if kids who're too young to be watching manage to watch . . . that's the parents fault.

#36   2009/10/07 03:20PM
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bigtimesoapfan
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As an adult yes I know that but when I used to watch when I stayed home sick from school/after school/summer vacation etc. from the age of 10+ My mom worked late and got home after 6 most nights(by the time I was 12 I had taught myself to cook so she could relax wneh she got home) So I watched alot of tv by myself. There is a difference between watching with your mom(she tells you to leave the room or cover your eyes @ certain times but when u watch alone it's different!
Once again thats why my kids don't watch!!

#37   2009/10/07 03:38PM
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bmes
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i don't mean to start anything here, but i think we're all getting a little off topic. i even went off topic. maybe we should try to drop the current argument, and try to get back on topic here, before they close this post.

anyways. in today's cdn episode, Lexi is reaming him out for distancing himself from Sydney. EJ tried to give his reasoning behind why, but i still don't get!! seriously, i know he's hurting big time, but he needs to snap out of it.

#38   2009/10/07 03:45PM
Re: does anyone think EJ is being kind of an...
Ejamilover
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Quote bigtimesoapfan:
Quote Ejamilover:
Quote bigtimesoapfan: I couldn't disagree more! Sammi is nothing like EJ. Yes some of the crimes in name are the same but the reasoning behind it is much different! Sammi's crimes(for the most part(were because of her misguided notion on love) when Sammi raped Austin(not that I was okay with it, in her head he was going to love her. Where as when EJ raped Sammi it was about stem cells, he wasn't thinking this is gonna make her snapp outta it and love me so much! He was thinking I want what I want when O want it! Also @ least Austin has no recolection of what happened where as Sammi had to choose between savng Lucas' life and letting slime touch her(with a gun pointed to her head, like she really had a choice). They are not alike! Sammi has a heart! and EJ has none!


EJ does have a heart he is better man that abuser Lucas Roberts who has nothing make Sami's life hell over the years that is why i laugh people say Ejami is sick because that i think of Lumi if that is not a abusive relationship i don't what is but Lucas is a saint and EJ always scum. Sami is a rapist herself that is why she forgave EJ actually what she did was worse at least EJ gave her a choice that night she drugged Austin and he never got that opition of saying no. But may that doesn't matter because she is a woman and so it perfectly alright what she did. EJ showed many times last year he had good points even Sami said he was great husband to Lucas and how he changed he loves Samatha and he will always will and she know it.


Im sorry if I offend but I just spit out my cofee and am now LMFAO!!! If a man is holding a gun to your head how much choice do you have? Thats a new one! I cn't even say anything else cause thats just .......LMAO!!! Thanks I needed that!! chuckle chuckle!!


Did you watch the scenes?

I saw no gun EJ asked Sami for sex for Lucas life to be spared. She could said no and got out the car he didn't want to have sex that night with anyone he wanted to get out of town the whole police was after him. He gave her a choice and that what the Ejami haters can't accept and its such old news the writers fixed this last year by having Sami forgive EJ and taking him to bed and giving them another baby.

#39   2009/10/07 03:46PM
Re: does anyone think EJ is being kind of an...
alane70
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Quote bmes: i don't mean to start anything here, but i think we're all getting a little off topic. i even went off topic. maybe we should try to drop the current argument, and try to get back on topic here, before they close this post.

anyways. in today's cdn episode, Lexi is reaming him out for distancing himself from Sydney. EJ tried to give his reasoning behind why, but i still don't get!! seriously, i know he's hurting big time, but he needs to snap out of it.


Yes I don't get his attitude about Sydney. I guess he is sick of losing babies he thought were his, or never knew were his, you know. The writers are probably writing it this way so he'll feel bad whenever it all comes out that she's his baby with Sami.

#40   2009/10/07 03:54PM
Re: does anyone think EJ is being kind of an...
bmes
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Quote alane70:
Quote bmes: i don't mean to start anything here, but i think we're all getting a little off topic. i even went off topic. maybe we should try to drop the current argument, and try to get back on topic here, before they close this post.

anyways. in today's cdn episode, Lexi is reaming him out for distancing himself from Sydney. EJ tried to give his reasoning behind why, but i still don't get!! seriously, i know he's hurting big time, but he needs to snap out of it.


Yes I don't get his attitude about Sydney. I guess he is sick of losing babies he thought were his, or never knew were his, you know. The writers are probably writing it this way so he'll feel bad whenever it all comes out that she's his baby with Sami.


i hear ya. it would be extremely disheartening. he's going to feel like a big dumb jerk when he finds out everything. he even said that he would look at her eyes and see himself...i kept thinking "stick to your instincts dummy!!!" lol...

#41   2009/10/07 03:55PM
Re: does anyone think EJ is being kind of an...
magicsteacher
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Quote luvinej: Are you people serious? Why don't you put the blame where it belongs which is on the writers. James doesn't write the scenes he just acts them out. You guys sit there and bash EJ/James in every post. It's ridiculous. Bad post me or whatever. I could care less I won't respond anyway.





Gosh, when a lot of people were bashing Galen, we said the same thing-- he doesn't write his lines or the scenes, he just acts them out the way he is told to, but that didn't seem to wash with the EJ fans.

Please leave past arguments in the past, where they belong!
Chrissi

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#42   2009/10/07 03:59PM
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batmom
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Quote luvinej: Are you people serious? Why don't you put the blame where it belongs which is on the writers. James doesn't write the scenes he just acts them out. You guys sit there and bash EJ/James in every post. It's ridiculous. Bad post me or whatever. I could care less I won't respond anyway.



ITA!!!! Bravo! Bravo!! Bad post me too. I see the Hater-aid is still the top drink.

What the heck is wrong with you people? Seriously? If you don't like the post, ignore it. Why go back and forth? Nobody wins. Follow the guidelines, please!

Chrissi

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#43   2009/10/07 04:04PM
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DOOL1965
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This is an EJ thread, why do some have to been in Sami, Lucas, and Rafe when it’s not about them. I don’t understand!

#44   2009/10/07 04:07PM
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magicsteacher
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I agree, DOOL, so back to the topic at hand-- EJ.
I will never understand his attitude toward Sydney. He has been with her for 10 months, helping to raise her and supposedly loving her. Why he would want to just kick her out of his house, I don't get. Nicole, OK, but not that sweet baby.

#45   2009/10/07 04:10PM
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alane70
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magicsteacher, most people who don't like EJ dislike him b/c of the actions of his character, not b/c they think James is a bad actor. James is a great actor & he portrays EJ very convincingly. I don't think that is the case with Rafe/Galen. I don't think the writing for Rafe is the reason some have not taken to him.

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