Days of Our Lives - MESSAGE BOARDS

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Now, before people start going all nutty...OBVIOUSLY he has a right to be totally po'ed...i understand he's angry and hurting ALOT....i would be too...but the way he's acting towards Sydney is soooooo mean..imo anyways...he assumes sydney is not his...even thinking that, how can someone just automatically shut off his feelings for someone like that? so, he can only love someone if they are his flesh and blood? he's loved sydney with every fiber of his being for MONTHS...and then poof...nothing? doesn't want to look at her, doesn't want to touch her....what a cold heartless bastard!!!! oh i forgot he gave her a kiss on the head "for the last time" he says....now everyone is going to say 'he's trying to distance himself' I call BULL!!!! family is family, blood or not!!! and nicole is right....he is the only dad sydney has ever known. sydney IS innocent in all of this and shouldn't be punished and snubbed off by him just because he thinks it's not his REAL daughter!!! if he was any kind of father...a GOOD and LOVING father...he should have taken sydney and told just NICOLE to get out, and tell her that he doesn't want someone like her around his children. i just find it cruel and evil the way he just shut off his feeling for a little baby that he has supposedly loved for months. that's a dangerous quality for a person to have.

Yes, I agree with you. I can see EJ giving Nicole the "don't let the door hit you in the a** on the way out" speech, but not Sydney. She was an innocent victim in all this and the child that EJ professed to love so much. Just b/c she is not biologically his, should not change his feelings for her on a dime like that.
I thought it was interesting yesterday that Sami and Maggie were talking about Sami's grief over Grace's death and Maggie made the comment that she grieved so over losing her adopted daughter. Sami replied to her that it doesn't matter if it is a biological child or not, a child is a child. Quite an appropriate comment considering what has happened with EJ and Nicole.

Oh, yeah...Ej should not be rejecting the baby. This might be a reaction to being tricked by Nicole, but it's all Nicole's fault, not the child. This is setting the scene up for some irony, when Ej finally realizes that Sydney is his, and then maybe no matter what he does, he's having problems seeing her.

Was I the only one who noticed that EJ was drinking heavily? Almost as much as NBicole snacks, lol!

I think it's fair to say that they were trying to indicate that EJ was not acting rationally. He's just had a major shock and his initial reaction is to shutdown.

He made it clear that he loves Sydney, but he also indicated he was afraid of what will happen when Sydney's real parents come for her. I take from today that he's scared of losing her and he wants to close himself off from any more pain. Let's face it, he's just had the Sami lies and Grace's death to deal with and now he's got the Nicole lies and Sydney's parentage to deal with. I just thought he was clsoing himself off to protect himself from any more pain.

I think what is going to happen is that after he throws Nicole out, he'll take her back for Sydney's sake, but he emotionally withdraw from Nicole (that was a apoiler some time ago). Then when the rest of the reveal is about to come out, Nicole will run......but that's only my guess.

Now if he does reject Sydney for good, I'll be very disappointed in him and blame those writers for ruining my EJ................well actually I do that on almost a monthly basis, lol!

If he really truly loves Sydney, he would still be her daddy. Most parents would do anything for their child, no matter what the cost or pain is it’s called unconditional love!

If Nicole is smart enough she'll take this as her green light and run!! Im wondering how long after he kicks them out Stafano spills the beans! I can't believe he is pleased that sydney is no longer in the mansion! If anyone can make him see the light it's Staefano! I actually don't want this out yet! I know it's mean but I think it should come out when she is 8 or 9. Just like Sammi when she found out her daddy wasn't really her daddy!! I think that would be a good hand of fate s/l. Chelsea was 16 when they found out she was alive. so whats 8 more years if it means EJ stays away from Sami? Works for me!!

I would almost bet that Sami is the one who puts EJ and Nicole back together with little Sydney in tow; not realizing of course that it is HER daughter that she just talked EJ into adopting. LOL

Yes and he is turning abusive!

to answer your original question...

YES, but what makes this different then any other day?