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Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?

Started by Ejamilover at 2009/09/19 01:35PM
Latest post: 2009/09/23 12:25AM, Views: 1462, Replies: 60
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#21   2009/09/20 03:09PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
racingfan
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Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please

#22   2009/09/20 03:11PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
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Couldn't of said it better myself witch

Quote bghwme: Sami had to tell EJ that Grace was his after she died. Grace was gone, and Sami was devasted and grief-stricken beyond description.

Then, EJ showed up ready to be all sweet and loving and comforting...How could she accept comfort and support from him with him not knowing that it was his child that lay in that casket? That just would not have been right.

On the other hand, you have Nicole letting him go through all the grief and torment that he is going through, knowing full well that EJ's daughter is not dead.

Sami has come clean, told the truth, faced EJ's wrath, and accepted responsiblily for her actions.

Nicole is still running around lieing, covering, telling more lies, getting people killed, paying out the nose, intimidating and manipulating to protect her secret.

#23   2009/09/20 03:14PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
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Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.

#24   2009/09/20 03:19PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
hootaboi
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Such a loaded question! Even thought Sami has done some awful things in the past, I think when it comes to her kids that she has shown she is a good mother (for the most part) (I'm looking at you Will)

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#25   2009/09/20 03:39PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
racingfan
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Sami has been caught for everything she has done and has had to suffer consenquences for the things she has had to face the people she has hurt nobody else on the show ever gets busted for the things they do I hope sami opens a can on nichole. Sami also has not let people get killed for her schemes or manipulated 16 year old kids I really feel bad for what mia is going to go through when she finds out that grace was her baby at that her daughter is really dead I think that instead of sneaking mia into the hospital room she should have told her it was her daughter dying

#26   2009/09/20 03:44PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
hootaboi
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Quote racingfan: Sami has been caught for everything she has done and has had to suffer consenquences for the things she has had to face the people she has hurt nobody else on the show ever gets busted for the things they do I hope sami opens a can on nichole. Sami also has not let people get killed for her schemes or manipulated 16 year old kids I really feel bad for what mia is going to go through when she finds out that grace was her baby at that her daughter is really dead I think that instead of sneaking mia into the hospital room she should have told her it was her daughter dying


Yea but Nicole is too much a of a wimp for that!

#27   2009/09/20 05:59PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
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Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.

#28   2009/09/20 06:10PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
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Quote magicsteacher:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.


Here, here ITA!!
It's not like she knew she was conceiving a child when she had sex with EJ...and wanting to protect your child from being brought up in a, murderous family like that is no crap!

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#29   2009/09/20 06:25PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
KelboElbo
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This whole topic ticks me off! OF COURSE Sami should be a mom to her daughter! EJ FRIGGIN RAPED HER! I know that was a while ago, but come on! If we're gonna throw stones...

#30   2009/09/20 11:36PM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
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Quote Tammer:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.


Here, here ITA!!
It's not like she knew she was conceiving a child when she had sex with EJ...and wanting to protect your child from being brought up in a, murderous family like that is no crap!


Seriously? One of the first things I ever learned in junior high health class was that it only takes one time to make a baby. No offense but that is a very naive statement. I understand being a fan of a certain character. I've said before that Sami was my all time favorite character on the show for over a decade. Actually I've still got a mad crush on Allison Sweeney lol. But please don't allow your intelligence to fly out the window over your love for a fictional character.

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#31   2009/09/21 12:05AM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
Danielle
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Quote tugboat77:
Quote Tammer:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.


Here, here ITA!!
It's not like she knew she was conceiving a child when she had sex with EJ...and wanting to protect your child from being brought up in a, murderous family like that is no crap!


Seriously? One of the first things I ever learned in junior high health class was that it only takes one time to make a baby. No offense but that is a very naive statement. I understand being a fan of a certain character. I've said before that Sami was my all time favorite character on the show for over a decade. Actually I've still got a mad crush on Allison Sweeney lol. But please don't allow your intelligence to fly out the window over your love for a fictional character.

tugboat, I think we have all had those sexual episodes that we wish we could forget. I have a son by a man that I knew for ten years and i am now wishing I never told him about his son cuz all he does is try to use him against me (much like Johnny and Sami). No she probably didn't think about that while she was on her back but neither did I. My son is better off not knowing his dad btw that is his dads choice notmine. I am just saying sometimes you don't think about that when it comes to sex. When it comes to Will and Austin, Sai was a teenager. Can't wait til you have a teenager and see just how devious they can be. It still does not make it right for a man in his late twenties early thirties to blackmail a women into bed with him. Sami has a right to her child. She chose not to abort this child which gices her all the rights in the world, she wanted this child. I think in this day and age, with abortion being legal, if a women wants to raise a child on her own, so be it. If I had to do it over again I would not have told my son's father about him. The only mistake Sami made was coming back to Salem

#32   2009/09/21 12:50AM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
tugboat77
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Quote Danielle:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote Tammer:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.


Here, here ITA!!
It's not like she knew she was conceiving a child when she had sex with EJ...and wanting to protect your child from being brought up in a, murderous family like that is no crap!


Seriously? One of the first things I ever learned in junior high health class was that it only takes one time to make a baby. No offense but that is a very naive statement. I understand being a fan of a certain character. I've said before that Sami was my all time favorite character on the show for over a decade. Actually I've still got a mad crush on Allison Sweeney lol. But please don't allow your intelligence to fly out the window over your love for a fictional character.

tugboat, I think we have all had those sexual episodes that we wish we could forget. I have a son by a man that I knew for ten years and i am now wishing I never told him about his son cuz all he does is try to use him against me (much like Johnny and Sami). No she probably didn't think about that while she was on her back but neither did I. My son is better off not knowing his dad btw that is his dads choice notmine. I am just saying sometimes you don't think about that when it comes to sex. When it comes to Will and Austin, Sai was a teenager. Can't wait til you have a teenager and see just how devious they can be. It still does not make it right for a man in his late twenties early thirties to blackmail a women into bed with him. Sami has a right to her child. She chose not to abort this child which gices her all the rights in the world, she wanted this child. I think in this day and age, with abortion being legal, if a women wants to raise a child on her own, so be it. If I had to do it over again I would not have told my son's father about him. The only mistake Sami made was coming back to Salem


I understand where you are coming from. This is the great thing about this place. We can look at things from all different perspectives. The important thing is that we all love Days of Our Lives and keep watching it. A couple other soaps may have higher ratings but there's no doubt that Days has the most loyal and passionate fans.

#33   2009/09/21 05:00AM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
magicsteacher
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Quote tugboat77:
Quote Tammer:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.


Here, here ITA!!
It's not like she knew she was conceiving a child when she had sex with EJ...and wanting to protect your child from being brought up in a, murderous family like that is no crap!


Seriously? One of the first things I ever learned in junior high health class was that it only takes one time to make a baby. No offense but that is a very naive statement. I understand being a fan of a certain character. I've said before that Sami was my all time favorite character on the show for over a decade. Actually I've still got a mad crush on Allison Sweeney lol. But please don't allow your intelligence to fly out the window over your love for a fictional character.





I am still going back to the idea that protection during sex goes both ways. It is not the sole responsbility of the woman. Apparently, EJ used no protection, didn't care whether or not he made a baby either. If he had taken responsiblity, Sydney would not have been conceived.

#34   2009/09/21 05:51AM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
Babs_1955
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Quote Tammer: What? Huh?
Of course she deserves to be a mother to her child.
She never kept the fact she was having EJ's baby from him because she thought he was a horrible father.
She kept it from him because she didn't want another child raised as a Dimera...with good reason!
I cannot fault her for wanting to protect her child from that family. Was it fair to EJ? Probably not.
As a mother I think my maternal instincts would take over and try to protect my child at all costs.
Sami knows what life is like with a Dimera influence, they aren't exactly saints. Don't forget all the nightmares she has lived though with them...her entire life.



EXACTLY! the only thing I can add to this is try and put yourself in Sami's situation. How would you feel if this happened to you? Tammer is right here, Sami was protecting her child from an influence..no amount of discussing this point will change my mind, she did the right thing and more than deserves to be a mother to Sydney

#35   2009/09/21 06:06AM
Re: Does Sami deserve to be a mother to Sydney?
Tammer
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Quote tugboat77:
Quote Tammer:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote tugboat77:
Quote racingfan: Sami has made bad choices yes and she never said ej was a bad father the reason she chose to keep grace away from ej was because of stefeno and jealousy didn't have anything to do with her deciding not to tell ej the day that stefeno and ej had phillip shot and should sami be concerned that her children should be raised to put hits out on people yes she's not concerned so much with thier safety it is who stefeno raises them to be. Kidnapping and shooting people or having people shot or locking the compition for a woman in a freezer truck or saving someones life in exchange for sex and ej says sami is worse then him or his father please


I've said it once and I'll say it again...EJ being a Dimera and Stefano's son didn't seem to bother Sami when she was on her back concieving Sydney did it? No. This bullcrap about protecting Grace from the Dimeras by not telling EJ about her is just that, a bunch of crap.




OK--- she had a booty call. She found out that Lucas was not coming back to her, so she turned to EJ for sex. We have all heard of one night stands. This doesn't mean that she didn't know what kind of man he was-- she did. And as soon as Lucas saw them, she jumped out of bed and she and EJ never "got together" again. I can't imagine any woman not wanting to protect her child from murders, kidnappers, and thieves.


Here, here ITA!!
It's not like she knew she was conceiving a child when she had sex with EJ...and wanting to protect your child from being brought up in a, murderous family like that is no crap!


Seriously? One of the first things I ever learned in junior high health class was that it only takes one time to make a baby. No offense but that is a very naive statement. I understand being a fan of a certain character. I've said before that Sami was my all time favorite character on the show for over a decade. Actually I've still got a mad crush on Allison Sweeney lol. But please don't allow your intelligence to fly out the window over your love for a fictional character.


HAHAHA you amuse me!
Not once did I say it couldn't happen, what I said was she didn't plan on it happening.
Furthermore where did I say Sami was my favourite character? Surely you jest!

Just a quick piece of advice, leave the personal comments to posters out of your posts, things stay friendlier that way.

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