Days of Our Lives - MESSAGE BOARDS

When i think about this was the child she was planning to Rafe to raise and let him adopt her if Nicole hadn't switched babies EJ would of never of know he had a daughter.

Why should EJ show her any compassion when the truth comes out?

She never cared about his feelings she still treats as someone who not even a human being telling him to get over losing Grace the other week you i hate saying this but i am so happy Sami lost all this time with Sydney because she is going a broken woman when she finds out Nicole made a fool out her.

Sorry. But, because of the circumstances Sami was given; I do not think she did anything wrong..unless you go all the way back to the night she forgave EJ for raping her and then turned around a slept with him. That was a poor choice, but she was pretty much tricked into it.

After that, Sami became a DiMera Victim. She was doing everything she could to prevent her child from becoming a DiMera victim too. Everytime she convinced herself that perhaps she was wrong, EJ did something to scare her away.

I think Rafe went a little too far in wanting to "illegally adopt" Sami's child, but he really did love Grace and thought of himself as her father. He could not have loved her more if she had been his. His only motive was also to protect Grace, and Sami from becoming DiMera Victims again.

Nicole STOLD Sami's child right out of the delivery room. In fact, she deliberately set out to steal everything she THOUGHT Sami had. Then she taunted her and rubbed her nose in it. Nicole is so wrong!

Of course Sami deserves to be a mother to Sydney.

i don't think it matters whether she DESERVES to be a mother to sydney...she's sydney's mother plain and simple.

however, i do think that sami was totally out to lunch when she decided to not tell EJ, AND i think she was totally out to lunch when she was going to let Rafe adopt Grace. isn't that illegal??...when the real father wasn't even told..doesn't he have to willingly gave up his parental rights?? idk how the law works, but whatever...the whole senario is a pile of poop!!!

but regardless...sami IS the mother. they can't just say...well YOU did the same thing, so you don't deserve to have your daughter who was taken from you without your knowledge.

What? Huh?
Of course she deserves to be a mother to her child.
She never kept the fact she was having EJ's baby from him because she thought he was a horrible father.
She kept it from him because she didn't want another child raised as a Dimera...with good reason!
I cannot fault her for wanting to protect her child from that family. Was it fair to EJ? Probably not.
As a mother I think my maternal instincts would take over and try to protect my child at all costs.
Sami knows what life is like with a Dimera influence, they aren't exactly saints. Don't forget all the nightmares she has lived though with them...her entire life.

I can't believe that there are still people out there who don't think Sami should be a mother to Sydney. She hasn't done anything wrong! SHE is the victim in all this, not Nicole or even EJ for that matter!

Sami had to tell EJ that Grace was his after she died. Grace was gone, and Sami was devasted and grief-stricken beyond description.

Then, EJ showed up ready to be all sweet and loving and comforting...How could she accept comfort and support from him with him not knowing that it was his child that lay in that casket? That just would not have been right.

On the other hand, you have Nicole letting him go through all the grief and torment that he is going through, knowing full well that EJ's daughter is not dead.

Sami has come clean, told the truth, faced EJ's wrath, and accepted responsiblily for her actions.

Nicole is still running around lieing, covering, telling more lies, getting people killed, paying out the nose, intimidating and manipulating to protect her secret.

I am sooo tired of everyone saying poor Sami...Does everyone forget what Sami did with Belle. She was going to sell her because, after she changed the paternity, she knew that she was Johns. But guess that was ok because she was protecting her Dad. What about keeping Will from Lucas, and Austin thinking will was his....oh yeah, Sami wanted Austin so that must make it all OK too!! Ej is just a evil as his father. He and Nicole make the perfect pair...cuz all she cares about is $