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CLOSED: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!

Started by Bellaflor at 2009/06/19 06:44PM
Latest post: 2009/06/19 09:18PM, Views: 467, Replies: 16
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#1   2009/06/19 06:44PM
ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
Bellaflor
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Hello. I have been posting on this board for about 1 month now. I have mentioned in the SAFE thread how grateful I was that we (all the posters) could debate and not be disrespectful or take things personal, like I have seen on other boards. This is the first board I decided to join and I like the groups and individuals who post here.

Our SAFE thread was closed today. We don't know why, but I have an idea why. I just want to say that we are all civilized and can debate respectfully. I ask that no one mention specific poster's in your messages or bash on other fan-bases comments. This is not a race or competition to see who gets more posts or higher viewers, etc. We each like our own couples for whatever reason and we respectfully post in their defense.

I loved how we debated “which man we would want and why.” I wait for certain posters to say certain comments because they are funny and get a good response from others. What fun would it be to always agree??

I just ask that we leave what has been said that was offensive in the past and move on. EJAMI's bring your blue cosmos over and lets all have drinks!!! SAFE & LUMI's lets bring the appetizers.... It is Friday after all!!!! TGIF!!!

#2   2009/06/19 07:31PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
Bryceson
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Okay I brought the cosmos and EJ, Brady and Phill, hope it is alright they are all shirtless LOL!

#3   2009/06/19 08:18PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
DaysKnowItAll
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Quote Bellaflor: Hello. I have been posting on this board for about 1 month now. I have mentioned in the SAFE thread how grateful I was that we (all the posters) could debate and not be disrespectful or take things personal, like I have seen on other boards. This is the first board I decided to join and I like the groups and individuals who post here.

Our SAFE thread was closed today. We don't know why, but I have an idea why. I just want to say that we are all civilized and can debate respectfully. I ask that no one mention specific poster's in your messages or bash on other fan-bases comments. This is not a race or competition to see who gets more posts or higher viewers, etc. We each like our own couples for whatever reason and we respectfully post in their defense.

I loved how we debated “which man we would want and why.” I wait for certain posters to say certain comments because they are funny and get a good response from others. What fun would it be to always agree??

I just ask that we leave what has been said that was offensive in the past and move on. EJAMI's bring your blue cosmos over and lets all have drinks!!! SAFE & LUMI's lets bring the appetizers.... It is Friday after all!!!! TGIF!!!


I saw our thread closed and the Admin said they were looking into a bad post and the thread would be up soon. So have they changed their minds and not opening at all? I didn't know if you had heard something different or not?

And I'm all for good, funny, respectable debates. Even a little bashing in good humor can be funny and I think most feel this way so whatever closed the thread must have been down right bad. But I think we all (for the most part) are very respectful to each other. I got friends from all fanbases and enjoy every debate. Hopefully it continues.

#4   2009/06/19 08:25PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
Bellaflor
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Quote Bryceson: Okay I brought the cosmos and EJ, Brady and Phill, hope it is alright they are all shirtless LOL!


It wouldn't be a party without them......shirtless of course!!!! LOL!! I brought Rafe, since he had been with me all day....shirtless!! Thanks for the good humor!!

BTW I don't know if SAFE thread is permanently closed, but I just wanted to clear the air a bit!!

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#5   2009/06/19 08:29PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
speechless
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After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!

#6   2009/06/19 08:33PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
Bellaflor
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Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!

#7   2009/06/19 08:36PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
speechless
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Quote Bellaflor:
Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!


I appreciate you opening the thread Bellaflor! I truly do hope the people who are the offenders take what you are saying to heart!

#8   2009/06/19 08:43PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
DaysKnowItAll
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Quote Bellaflor:
Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!


Speechless, i don't really think your helping with what Bellaflor was doing here, and I do believe some comments should not have been made but I also think it's disrespectful for you stir the fire here. Leave it to the Admins to do their jobs please.

#9   2009/06/19 08:50PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
speechless
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Quote DaysKnowItAll:
Quote Bellaflor:
Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!


Speechless, i don't really think your helping with what Bellaflor was doing here, and I do believe some comments should not have been made but I also think it's disrespectful for you stir the fire here. Leave it to the Admins to do their jobs please.


I do let the admis do their jobs that's why the thread was obviously closed. Those who have asked the question why it was closed maybe need to hear not only what Bellaflor posted (she did mention the EJAMI fan bashing as well) but the "other" side as well. Sorry the behavior in the thread warranted the mods to check into it obviously and I am glad they did! KUDOS to our moderators. You calling me out is what is not helping! Bellaflor is clearly trying to inform the others what she may think has gotten the thread closed as was I. I can freely post on the board and I did not break any guidelines so please take your own advice and let the admins and moderators do their job!

#10   2009/06/19 08:52PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
DaysKnowItAll
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Quote speechless:
Quote DaysKnowItAll:
Quote Bellaflor:
Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!


Speechless, i don't really think your helping with what Bellaflor was doing here, and I do believe some comments should not have been made but I also think it's disrespectful for you stir the fire here. Leave it to the Admins to do their jobs please.


I do let the admis do their jobs that's why the thread was obviously closed. Those who have asked the question why it was closed maybe need to hear not only what Bellaflor posted (she did mention the EJAMI fan bashing as well) but the "other" side as well. Sorry the behavior in the thread warranted the mods to check into it obviously and I am glad they did! KUDOS to our moderators. You calling me out is what is not helping! Bellaflor is clearly trying to inform the others what she may think has gotten the thread closed as was I. I can freely post on the board and I did not break any guidelines so please take your own advice and let the admins and moderators do their job!


The "real" world comment is what I'm speaking of. You know it was just fueling for more haters on here. Just saying no need that's all.

#11   2009/06/19 09:01PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
speechless
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Quote DaysKnowItAll:
Quote speechless:
Quote DaysKnowItAll:
Quote Bellaflor:
Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!


Speechless, i don't really think your helping with what Bellaflor was doing here, and I do believe some comments should not have been made but I also think it's disrespectful for you stir the fire here. Leave it to the Admins to do their jobs please.


I do let the admis do their jobs that's why the thread was obviously closed. Those who have asked the question why it was closed maybe need to hear not only what Bellaflor posted (she did mention the EJAMI fan bashing as well) but the "other" side as well. Sorry the behavior in the thread warranted the mods to check into it obviously and I am glad they did! KUDOS to our moderators. You calling me out is what is not helping! Bellaflor is clearly trying to inform the others what she may think has gotten the thread closed as was I. I can freely post on the board and I did not break any guidelines so please take your own advice and let the admins and moderators do their job!


The "real" world comment is what I'm speaking of. You know it was just fueling for more haters on here. Just saying no need that's all.


No actually I did not think it was fueling anything! It's my opinion! PERIOD! I am an EJAMI and I like our thread which we affectionately call la la land so everything outside is the "real" world. I am not ready to come out and share my cosmos yet! I have not seen anything from any other person other than Bellaflor that warrants it! Sad that she is the one apologizing and trying to make peace when the culprits or offenders are silent... I stated I TRULY hope the people she has tried to educate get the message. Once I can see that they have then hey I will join in and sing kum bye ya!

Again if the "real" world comment bothered you...bad post me and let the mods do their job! GO ADMIN/MODS

#12   2009/06/19 09:05PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
Bellaflor
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Well my original post was not soley geared to our SAFE thread, in general, again I ask we do not point out what other fanbases are commenting in our threads and/or point out specific posters. WE can all recognize it is a small number of indiviuals from all the fanbases that have made unappropriate comments. Like the Admins stated, not all bad posts are followed up on. So just because you have not been called out on it doesn't mean it is within the guidelines. if you have not read the guidelines, please do so.

I for one can recognize I was not clear on spoilers and how to post them, oh and links! I had to reread those guidlines! LOL!

#13   2009/06/19 09:07PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
DaysKnowItAll
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Quote Bellaflor:
Quote speechless: After the thread was closed I went in to see what the hub bub was about. There was clearly EJAMI fan bashing. There was also actor bashing as well which is against guidelines. James's blinking is a real life condition that he can't control but what was the quote "he blinks like a girl"! You say bashing as long as there is humor? But what one may consider funny another one won't? Sorry I'm taking my blue cosmo back to la la land. If this is how the "real" world behaves I want no part of it.

I'm glad the admins have decided to dig more deeply into the posting in that thread! Great Job Moderators and Admins!


I can't respond for others or control what they post. I speak for myself and posted hoping to just let WHOEVER made those posts know that it is not acceptable.I respect your opinion and thanks for your post. I appreciate your time!


Hopefully we can all get along and just ignore those who can't. You did a good thing here Bell sorry for the mess! Hopefully our site will be back soon

#14   2009/06/19 09:11PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
Bellaflor
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I hope we can get our site back too. You can't say I didn't try!!! Have a good weekend everyone! Happy Father's Day to any Father's out there! I am heading North to see my Dad.

#15   2009/06/19 09:12PM
Re: ATTENTION all Fanbases!!
speechless
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Quote Bellaflor: Well my original post was not soley geared to our SAFE thread, in general, again I ask we do not point out what other fanbases are commenting in our threads and/or point out specific posters. WE can all recognize it is a small number of indiviuals from all the fanbases that have made unappropriate comments. Like the Admins stated, not all bad posts are followed up on. So just because you have not been called out on it doesn't mean it is within the guidelines. if you have not read the guidelines, please do so.

I for one can recognize I was not clear on spoilers and how to post them, oh and links! I had to reread those guidelines! LOL!


Thanks again for your attempt and I am truly sorry this turned out this way! I still hope for a positive outcome. You have posted here for a month? Well I have posted here gosh 2 years now I think. Sunny,Jenn,Bry and I as well as some others (treester..special shout out..I love ya posts) have been here for years. We are on different sides but RESPECT each other immensely. I hope you stick around here and become a vet! Good luck!

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