Tell your friends
POPULAR SEARCHES
|
|
List of Shows
Featured Blogs
Days of Our Lives - MESSAGE BOARDS
Soaps Boards :: Days of Our Lives Forum :: i don't like the way rafe...
Please register and login to be able to post in this message board.
i don't like the way rafe...
Started by j+sforever at 2009/06/19 10:23AMLatest post: 2009/06/25 07:15AM, Views: 1059, Replies: 33
#1
2009/06/19 10:23AM
i don't like the way rafe...
j+sforever |
is always saying that ej doesn't need to be at grace's funeral. he (ej) believes he was the father and has every right to attend and mourn her. i know he is trying to protect sami but it is a done deal already that ej will be out for vengence and it is too late to protect her now. i just hope the truth comes out by the end of summer. i couldn't bear it if sami doesn't get to have all her kids around her for christmas just like last year. sad. real sad. |
#2
2009/06/19 01:38PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
Cedes_28 |
I don't think Rafe telling EJ not to attend the funeral was to protect Sammi, but rather respect for Grace's death. and common courteousy, it's a funeral for goodness sakes!!! save the arguments and fights for later. that's very tacky to bring one to a funeral. |
#3
2009/06/19 01:54PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
hootaboi |
Quote Cedes_28: I don't think Rafe telling EJ not to attend the funeral was to protect Sammi, but rather respect for Grace's death. and common courteousy, it's a funeral for goodness sakes!!! save the arguments and fights for later. that's very tacky to bring one to a funeral. I agree, It seemed like on Today's episode (6/19/09) all EJ wanted to do was make everyone mad - (I LOVE what Roman said to him today) Awesome Awesome! |
#4
2009/06/21 12:30AM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
Legacy268 |
Quote Cedes_28: I don't think Rafe telling EJ not to attend the funeral was to protect Sammi, but rather respect for Grace's death. and common courteousy, it's a funeral for goodness sakes!!! save the arguments and fights for later. that's very tacky to bring one to a funeral. It wasn't Rafe's call and he was only a father figure because they conspired to keep EJ from knowing his own child. He only found out the day before that was his child, his pain and shock is just a raw as theirs because additionally he will mourn opportunity loss of getting to know her. He was being hurtful to serve Sami at the service but how do you process coming to pay condolences and being told you might as well know that was your kid. Wouldn't you assume someone did that to hurt you. 
|
#5
2009/06/21 04:53AM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
Sunnydaz |
Quote Legacy268: Quote Cedes_28: I don't think Rafe telling EJ not to attend the funeral was to protect Sammi, but rather respect for Grace's death. and common courteousy, it's a funeral for goodness sakes!!! save the arguments and fights for later. that's very tacky to bring one to a funeral. It wasn't Rafe's call and he was only a father figure because they conspired to keep EJ from knowing his own child. He only found out the day before that was his child, his pain and shock is just a raw as theirs because additionally he will mourn opportunity loss of getting to know her. He was being hurtful to serve Sami at the service but how do you process coming to pay condolences and being told you might as well know that was your kid. Wouldn't you assume someone did that to hurt you. No he should have "assumed" that Sami was serious when she told him she doesnt love him and that she wanted to be away from the dangerous Dimeras. After finding out that she kept this secret he should have realized all his schemeing, murderous hires, blackmail, kidnapping ways were not going to make her love him back. So maybe if he had handled this news with that in mind Sami could have slowly looked at him differently. But thats certainly not going to happen now. Personally i'm glad. |
#6
2009/06/21 06:55AM
Re: i don't like the way Rafe...
soapsurfer |
Rafe was Grace's father. That baby was bonded to him and loved him just as much as he loved her. He had every right to want EJ to stay away. He knew EJ was going to make the funeral about himself and that the chance for disrespecting Grace's memory by EJ was more than possible. Despite Sami's culpability she deserved the opportunity to mourn her daughter without EJ slithering up during Communion no less to torment her. |
#7
2009/06/21 09:21AM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
luvinej |
Quote soapsurfer: Rafe was Grace's father. That baby was bonded to him and loved him just as much as he loved her. He had every right to want EJ to stay away. He knew EJ was going to make the funeral about himself and that the chance for disrespecting Grace's memory by EJ was more than possible. Despite Sami's culpability she deserved the opportunity to mourn her daughter without EJ slithering up during Communion no less to torment her. He wouldn't have had the chance if Ej would have been told the truth. She would have known her real father. Ej would have had the time to get to know Grace and he would have been supportive of Sami like Rafe was at the funeral. Sami and Rafe robbed him of getting to know and love his daughter. Rafe should have been a man about it and told Sami to be honest instead of talking her out of it all the all time. He still could have been there for her and Grace without trying to play God with peoples lives. |
#8
2009/06/21 09:52AM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
|
Sunnydaz |
Quote luvinej: Quote soapsurfer: Rafe was Grace's father. That baby was bonded to him and loved him just as much as he loved her. He had every right to want EJ to stay away. He knew EJ was going to make the funeral about himself and that the chance for disrespecting Grace's memory by EJ was more than possible. Despite Sami's culpability she deserved the opportunity to mourn her daughter without EJ slithering up during Communion no less to torment her. He wouldn't have had the chance if Ej would have been told the truth. She would have known her real father. Ej would have had the time to get to know Grace and he would have been supportive of Sami like Rafe was at the funeral. Sami and Rafe robbed him of getting to know and love his daughter. Rafe should have been a man about it and told Sami to be honest instead of talking her out of it all the all time. He still could have been there for her and Grace without trying to play God with peoples lives. For starters Rafe was complying to Sami's request about not telling EJ. So dont blame him. When they were in WP she repeatedly told him she didnt want him to know. Secondly i think EJ should have shown Sami some respect by trusting Johnny with her when she asked for him while he was in the mist of a kidnapping and murder attempt. Sami knows what he's capable of so instead of feeling sorry for himself he should be admitting he's been wrong and blame himself for the secret. |
#9
2009/06/21 11:15AM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
magicsteacher |
Quote soapsurfer: Rafe was Grace's father. That baby was bonded to him and loved him just as much as he loved her. He had every right to want EJ to stay away. He knew EJ was going to make the funeral about himself and that the chance for disrespecting Grace's memory by EJ was more than possible. Despite Sami's culpability she deserved the opportunity to mourn her daughter without EJ slithering up during Communion no less to torment her. ITA great post. When EJ went up to Sami at communion, I wanted to puke. How low can you go? And then, he, who has committed attempted murder twice and kidnapped Stephanie, has the nerve to go to communion himself!! Did he bother to go to confession??? PLEASE. That was horrible. |
#10
2009/06/21 11:21AM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
UKDaysFan |
bores me to death? |
#11
2009/06/21 12:08PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
SafeSex |
Quote soapsurfer: Rafe was Grace's father. That baby was bonded to him and loved him just as much as he loved her. He had every right to want EJ to stay away. He knew EJ was going to make the funeral about himself and that the chance for disrespecting Grace's memory by EJ was more than possible. Despite Sami's culpability she deserved the opportunity to mourn her daughter without EJ slithering up during Communion no less to torment her. Great POST...................RAFE was that baby's father.........EJ was NOTHING.....all he is, is a lying , sneaky, murdering piece of *&^%................
|
#12
2009/06/21 01:20PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
DaysKnowItAll |
Quote soapsurfer: Rafe was Grace's father. That baby was bonded to him and loved him just as much as he loved her. He had every right to want EJ to stay away. He knew EJ was going to make the funeral about himself and that the chance for disrespecting Grace's memory by EJ was more than possible. Despite Sami's culpability she deserved the opportunity to mourn her daughter without EJ slithering up during Communion no less to torment her. Excellent post! Rafe was her father. No doubt. I looked at the older eps when Rafe n Sami were in WP and he tried to get her to tell over n over n over. Rafe just figured she must be right b/c of all the evil things the Dimeras have done. Even in the hospital he told Sami if she thought there was something Ej could do...and she cut him off and said no, the dr. said...etc. And at the funeral he didn't want Grace disrespected and knew Ej would, which he did. Kudos to Rafe for keeping his cool for the sake of Grace. I have a feeling though Ej might have awakened a storm inside Rafe and once the grieving eases for Rafe, Ej might find he bit off more than he could chew! It's coming I'm sure b/c the writers have went all out in trying to make Rafe act mild and then all the hints of him once being an angry man. All I can say is sit back and enjoy the show SAFE fans!! |
#13
2009/06/21 02:05PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
JTsahottie |
Quote hootaboi: Quote Cedes_28: I don't think Rafe telling EJ not to attend the funeral was to protect Sammi, but rather respect for Grace's death. and common courteousy, it's a funeral for goodness sakes!!! save the arguments and fights for later. that's very tacky to bring one to a funeral. I agree, It seemed like on Today's episode (6/19/09) all EJ wanted to do was make everyone mad - (I LOVE what Roman said to him today) Awesome Awesome! Yes it was very tacky indeed. |
#14
2009/06/21 02:08PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
|
JTsahottie |
I don't know why everyone's so mad at Rafe. He was just doing what Sami wanted. Or why anyone's mad at Sami for that fact. She didn't want EJ's kid from the moment she found out she was pregnant and she not only asked RAfe but Lucas to be the kid's father. Just like pro choicers believe .... it would have been her choice or not to keep the baby and now its still her choice whether or not to let someone she doesn't think highly of raise that child or even know about the baby. |
#15
2009/06/21 04:09PM
Re: i don't like the way rafe...
speechless |
Quote UKDaysFan: bores me to death? Sorry was just finishing the open ended question in the thread title. Carry on.  Best post here! LMAO! |
Please register and login to be able to post in this message board.
