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This is really bothering me.......gonna vent
Started by kktt at 2009/06/17 02:06PMLatest post: 2009/06/19 09:13AM, Views: 661, Replies: 20
huntah |
Quote Luvdbi: There is no logic in grief. She was hurting, she had wanted to tell him for a long time, so she did. Partly cause she wants him to hurt to, cause frankly a part of her is mad at him for being with Nicole, with now still having a child with Nicole when her daughter is dead. If she didn't at least want him away from Nicole she wouldn't have shown up at his wedding to tell him about Grace. There were other times she could have done so. Also she feels guilty. She didn't have proper medical care in WPP, she left her daughter with the nuns, she hid the truth of her from everyone and it NEVER sat well with her. She's hurting and wants forgiveness and validation from the only other person who really should have a say - her daughters father. Honestly all this aside, it moves the s/l along toward EJami. Had he found out any other way but by her it would have been even worse for EJami. He will eventually realize that she was right to try to protect Grace, when the truth about Nicole and Stefano comes out. He won't discover Nicole from Nicole, he'll find out some out way and he'll realize she was never going to tell him or Sami. She was gonna to just let Sami live with the grief of loosing a child. She wasn't ever going to give him time to grieve for his child honestly. She played him for a fool and all just to win what she wanted. He will find out that Stefano backed her, showing in the end he is just another chess piece to Stefano. He will realize that Stefano allowed him to grieve for a child that wasn't his while his actual child was buried months ago. And he will look at Sami and realize she could have just gone on and NEVER told him. Yes she waiting too long, she didn't really give him a chance to say goodbye, but she had valid reason for hiding their daughter, and in the end she told him cause she should, not cause someone found out and exposed/blackmailed her. Not cause it was medically necessary for her to. Not to win him back, but simply cause she should. Yet again, you sum up everything I think! Fabulous post! |
Daysfan47sd |
Quote kktt: If Sami was really so scared and concerned about EJ and Stefano then why in the world would she admit Grace was his after she died. She knows the things his family has done putting hits on people and such so why would she tell him something that would make him so angry and possibly give him reason to kill her. She told him because she wanted his attention. She has been loosing it and she knows in her heart he loves her and would never do anything to harm her. He is so unbelievably angry right now and will take Johnny and try and cause her as much hurt as possible but I feel she believes anger from EJ is better than nothing from EJ. She has said time and time again EJ is a good father. She didn't tell him because she was jealous of Nicole plain and simple. She went to the wedding to intentionally tell him and hope she would get a reaction out of him. Why tell him now? It makes no sense whatsoever. They are not done. If she wanted to be done with him she would have buried her secret with her daughter. I watched the show years ago and just started back when the baby switch had just taken place. I feel I am somewhat of an outsider looking in and it just doesn't appear to me that she is done with him. I think she was so hurt, as you can recall she said Grace, "she was our little girl." This indicated to me that Sami was happy that Grace was their daughter deep down. I do not think she meant anything malicious about it. She wanted to tell him, and did try several times. She genuinely wanted to protect Grace from the DiMera family. If EJ loved Sami as much as he claimed, he would have been with Sami. He did try to go to witness protection with her. He just has not left Stefano and Sami rightfully has hatred for Stefano. |
days78 |
Ya'll making way too much outta this simple reasoning fro the writers choice..overwhelming guilt, grief, and she was in shock. In Sammies more rational mind she's never been very good at thinking thru the consequences of her actions, why on earth would she under these circumstances. |
zzyzx |
Quote kktt: If Sami was really so scared and concerned about EJ and Stefano then why in the world would she admit Grace was his after she died. She knows the things his family has done putting hits on people and such so why would she tell him something that would make him so angry and possibly give him reason to kill her. She told him because she wanted his attention. She has been loosing it and she knows in her heart he loves her and would never do anything to harm her. He is so unbelievably angry right now and will take Johnny and try and cause her as much hurt as possible but I feel she believes anger from EJ is better than nothing from EJ. She has said time and time again EJ is a good father. She didn't tell him because she was jealous of Nicole plain and simple. She went to the wedding to intentionally tell him and hope she would get a reaction out of him. Why tell him now? It makes no sense whatsoever. They are not done. If she wanted to be done with him she would have buried her secret with her daughter. I watched the show years ago and just started back when the baby switch had just taken place. I feel I am somewhat of an outsider looking in and it just doesn't appear to me that she is done with him. WORD! Nothing else makes sense. |
bghwme |
I think Sami has learned that living a lie is no way to live. Besides, it would have been so wrong and phony of her to accept condolences and comfort and kind words from EJ when she thought that Grace was his daughter and he did not even know it. He should know that he had a daughter who died, which means he should know about Nicole losing the baby. He never had a chance to grieve that loss. |
CJ21 |
Isn't it the way of people, to not be happy with anything? For months we have all been begging the writer's to get the baby switch out in the open. If you'll recall we have all been disgusted with Nicole's deception and EJ's niavity. So what's the problem? Who cares why Sami told EJ? I am just glad she did...... it's a means to an end. These are the steps we must take for the whole truth to eventually come out. So be glad, for whatever reason, Sami fessed up to EJ about "their" little girl. This may not have been the way we would have written it, but is it ever???? I am ,however, fearful that with the Stephinole duo that our only hope to expose the whole truth now is Brady or Mia. |
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