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Started by j+sforever at 2009/06/16 11:23AM
Latest post: 2009/06/17 12:05PM, Views: 307, Replies: 15
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#1   2009/06/16 11:23AM
sami and true love does not come easily...
j+sforever
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i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.

she did fall in love with them easily, usually because they didn't love her, yet ej loved her and she couldn't return it because she was scared. sorry i am at the library and have run out of time.

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#2   2009/06/16 11:28AM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
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Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.


You think Sami's lovers were easy relationships? LMAO All her relations are complex. You sure u r watching DOOL. Rafe has been the only different love I have EVER seen with her. I mean all those others including Ej are the same o same o story.

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#3   2009/06/16 11:32AM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
j+sforever
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[quote]Quote SafeLover: [quote]Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.[/quote]

austin never loved sami.
lucas was a mama's boy who never really loved her for he always would break up with and find someone else and say they were his true love.
brandon was nicole's brother who left and they were just a place filler for lucas/austin/sami/carrie storyline.
now safe is a place holder for ej/sami/rafe storyline.

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#4   2009/06/16 11:48AM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
luvinej
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ITA j+s. I was just thinking that earlier. Any supercouple on any soap has major issues to overcome before they come together. If it's too easy it's never going to work.

#5   2009/06/16 11:55AM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
Bellaflor
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If we are talking about Sami and love.....well I think Sami has done some maturing this past year. However, I am REALISTIC, IMO I truly think anyone Samicouple is game right now. I am a SAFE fan, you know that by now. But I can recognize that anything can happen because there is a lot to come to light this summer. Chole and Lucas will partand Sami and Lucas support eachother. They are both vulnerable. Rafe's past, depending on what it contains can affect SAFE, and the baby switch truth can make or break EJami. So any couple is possible...really, but I hope for SAFE!!

#6   2009/06/16 12:01PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
j+sforever
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lumi will not get back together i think he will still want chloe. he is obsessed with her in a way he never was with sami. that is not to say he will forgive easily but he will want her still. there is a new triangle in town known as dan/kate/lucas/chloe.

#7   2009/06/16 12:52PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
Coledog
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Quote SafeLover:
Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.


You think Sami's lovers were easy relationships? LMAO All her relations are complex. You sure u r watching DOOL. Rafe has been the only different love I have EVER seen with her. I mean all those others including Ej are the same o same o story.


I have to respectfully disagree, I have been watching Days forever and though I agree Sami's relationships have always been complicated Rafe fits right in with the rest. Rafe looks good right now because they have yet to show the skelelton's in his close but it is comming. Brandon was a nice guy, and exstremely hot (best looking guy Sami ever had in my opionion). He had all the qualities Rafe has. EJ is the one guy who was no angel himself and (at least use to) accepted Sami for who she was when she was the scheming rooten brat that she was. He feel in love with her despite her flaws. He told her that when in the beginning when he was wanting her to leave Lucas. Lucas wanted her to be this little angel but EJ wanted her for just who she was.

#8   2009/06/16 12:57PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
luvinej
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Quote Coledog:
Quote SafeLover:
Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.




You think Sami's lovers were easy relationships? LMAO All her relations are complex. You sure u r watching DOOL. Rafe has been the only different love I have EVER seen with her. I mean all those others including Ej are the same o same o story.


I have to respectfully disagree, I have been watching Days forever and though I agree Sami's relationships have always been complicated Rafe fits right in with the rest. Rafe looks good right now because they have yet to show the skelelton's in his close but it is comming. Brandon was a nice guy, and exstremely hot (best looking guy Sami ever had in my opionion). He had all the qualities Rafe has. EJ is the one guy who was no angel himself and (at least use to) accepted Sami for who she was when she was the scheming rooten brat that she was. He feel in love with her despite her flaws. He told her that when in the beginning when he was wanting her to leave Lucas. Lucas wanted her to be this little angel but EJ wanted her for just who she was.


Excellent post. ITA with everything you said. Especially the part about Brandon(he was the hottest). From what I can remember Brandon and EJ are the only ones that accepted Sami for the way she is and didn't want to change her. They had chemistry too. I think the one sex scene I can remember with Sami and Brandon was hot maybe even hotter than hers and EJs.

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#9   2009/06/16 01:19PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
magicsteacher
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Quote SafeLover:
Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.


You think Sami's lovers were easy relationships? LMAO All her relations are complex. You sure u r watching DOOL. Rafe has been the only different love I have EVER seen with her. I mean all those others including Ej are the same o same o story.




So true. Let's not forget that some of these lovers came early on in her life-- when she was a teen and a younger person. Sami has grown up a lot since then. It is funny to me how we are asked to leave the EJ r*** in the past, but everything else concerning Sami is fair game, including what SHE has done in the past. Rafe is the first man who has loved her for who she is and doesn't care about her past. No other man has done that. He has shown all through this Grace dying scenario that he will be there for Sami b/c he loves her. It was not all about Grace, it was about his falling in love with Sami. Sami showed yesterday that she is very much in love with Rafe, also. They are, as a couple, just starting to go through problems together, as I would say that the death of Grace is quite a large one. Many married couples become estranged b/c of this. They are sticking together.

#10   2009/06/16 01:28PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
luvinej
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I think it's to early to tell if they will stick together through Grace's death. They haven't been "together" for that long and their relationship isn't that stable yet. As we all know Sami self destructs sometimes. This may not be any different.

#11   2009/06/16 01:37PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
magicsteacher
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Quote luvinej: I think it's to early to tell if they will stick together through Grace's death. They haven't been "together" for that long and their relationship isn't that stable yet. As we all know Sami self destructs sometimes. This may not be any different.




I think that the writers have spent a lot of time turning Sami's character around and have paired her with a good guy to support her. I agree they haven't been together that long, but there are a lot of problems coming up this summer and IMO they will support each other and be there for each other. In order for Sami to go back to EJ, they are either going to have to change Sami's character back to the way it was, or change EJ into a good guy which isn't going to happen-- Daddy Stefano won't let that happen.

#12   2009/06/16 01:48PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
luvinej
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Quote magicsteacher:
Quote luvinej: I think it's to early to tell if they will stick together through Grace's death. They haven't been "together" for that long and their relationship isn't that stable yet. As we all know Sami self destructs sometimes. This may not be any different.




I think that the writers have spent a lot of time turning Sami's character around and have paired her with a good guy to support her. I agree they haven't been together that long, but there are a lot of problems coming up this summer and IMO they will support each other and be there for each other. In order for Sami to go back to EJ, they are either going to have to change Sami's character back to the way it was, or change EJ into a good guy which isn't going to happen-- Daddy Stefano won't let that happen.


You are right on that one. EJ wouldn't be EJ if he was good all the time. They were together before even with Sami knowing some of thebad things hes done. I definitely see a softer side to Sami, but I don't think she's changed all that much. She's a mother and that changes most people. But she is still scheming and lying to the people that love her most. I think they just expect it now. lol

#13   2009/06/16 01:49PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
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[quote]Quote magicsteacher: [quote]Quote luvinej: I think it's to early to tell if they will stick together through Grace's death. They haven't been "together" for that long and their relationship isn't that stable yet. As we all know Sami self destructs sometimes. This may not be any different.[/quote]



I think that the writers have spent a lot of time turning Sami's character around and have paired her with a good guy to support her. I agree they haven't been together that long, but there are a lot of problems coming up this summer and IMO they will support each other and be there for each other. In order for Sami to go back to EJ, they are either going to have to change Sami's character back to the way it was, or change EJ into a good guy which isn't going to happen-- Daddy Stefano won't let that happen.[/quote]


You are absolutely correct. If Sami goes back to EJ after hiding Grace from him to protect her and all of this talk that she is scared of him and what his family is, then the writer's have screwed up big time. EJ is too popular as the bad guy for them to change him. They tried to redeem him before and then he was very boring. The only way Sami is going back to EJ is if he blackmails her, brainwashes her or whatever to get his way. And, right now, his way is

#14   2009/06/16 07:05PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
Coledog
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Quote magicsteacher:
Quote SafeLover:
Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.


You think Sami's lovers were easy relationships? LMAO All her relations are complex. You sure u r watching DOOL. Rafe has been the only different love I have EVER seen with her. I mean all those others including Ej are the same o same o story.




So true. Let's not forget that some of these lovers came early on in her life-- when she was a teen and a younger person. Sami has grown up a lot since then. It is funny to me how we are asked to leave the EJ r*** in the past, but everything else concerning Sami is fair game, including what SHE has done in the past. Rafe is the first man who has loved her for who she is and doesn't care about her past. No other man has done that. He has shown all through this Grace dying scenario that he will be there for Sami b/c he loves her. It was not all about Grace, it was about his falling in love with Sami. Sami showed yesterday that she is very much in love with Rafe, also. They are, as a couple, just starting to go through problems together, as I would say that the death of Grace is quite a large one. Many married couples become estranged b/c of this. They are sticking together.




And Sami was very much in love with Austin and very much in love with Brandon and very much in love with Lucas (which is recent) and now very much in love with Rafe. Of all the men who has she not showed how very much she is in love with...EJ even though she feels it she has never been able to truly show it. That makes EJ different from all the rest.

Rafe was never around when Sami did her evil deeds, easy for him to love her anyway when he didn't witness her doing it. EJ saw the things Sami did to Autin and Carrie and loved her anyway. If they would make Sami do something bad (not telling EJ the truth wasn't bad, she was protecting her child) he will react the same way as Autin did, as Lucas did, etc.

There is a reason the writers brought Safe together so quickly, they need her to love someone else during the baby switch story line. It makes things more interesting. Ejamers aren't the only ones who wear goggles!

#15   2009/06/16 07:40PM
Re: sami and true love does not come easily...
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Quote Coledog:
Quote magicsteacher:
Quote SafeLover:
Quote j+sforever: i find it interesting that sami falls in love with austin, brandon, lucas, now rafe easily. this leads me to believe these are not true loves but just love/caring/obsessions. that is why ej is true love because it is not easy, but rather complex and agonizing. he loves her and that scared her for she has never just had a man love her without mediating circumstance like a baby.


You think Sami's lovers were easy relationships? LMAO All her relations are complex. You sure u r watching DOOL. Rafe has been the only different love I have EVER seen with her. I mean all those others including Ej are the same o same o story.




So true. Let's not forget that some of these lovers came early on in her life-- when she was a teen and a younger person. Sami has grown up a lot since then. It is funny to me how we are asked to leave the EJ r*** in the past, but everything else concerning Sami is fair game, including what SHE has done in the past. Rafe is the first man who has loved her for who she is and doesn't care about her past. No other man has done that. He has shown all through this Grace dying scenario that he will be there for Sami b/c he loves her. It was not all about Grace, it was about his falling in love with Sami. Sami showed yesterday that she is very much in love with Rafe, also. They are, as a couple, just starting to go through problems together, as I would say that the death of Grace is quite a large one. Many married couples become estranged b/c of this. They are sticking together.




And Sami was very much in love with Austin and very much in love with Brandon and very much in love with Lucas (which is recent) and now very much in love with Rafe. Of all the men who has she not showed how very much she is in love with...EJ even though she feels it she has never been able to truly show it. That makes EJ different from all the rest.

Rafe was never around when Sami did her evil deeds, easy for him to love her anyway when he didn't witness her doing it. EJ saw the things Sami did to Autin and Carrie and loved her anyway. If they would make Sami do something bad (not telling EJ the truth wasn't bad, she was protecting her child) he will react the same way as Autin did, as Lucas did, etc.

There is a reason the writers brought Safe together so quickly, they need her to love someone else during the baby switch story line. It makes things more interesting. Ejamers aren't the only ones who wear goggles!


I think all the guys were different in their own way. I think Sami really has had good moments with them all but it's just preference to me for her n Safe. I find SAFE story so romantic and that's what I like about it. A true sense of love. Kinda like Sami said when she told Rafe she had always wanted a relationship like this but something was always hanging over them or something to that effect and I truly believe she is right. This is a lasting love and I really don't think I ever felt that with her and anyone else. Rafe is super sexy with a bad boy streak and I just think Safe love has it's own sense of sexiness about it. Romance is sexy to me. And as for Ej he's one of those you just love to hate. Not to mention he is good looking and sexy when he is bad.(lil shout out for those Ejami fans) It would ruin his whole character to give him and Sami a happy ending or any type of loving relationship.Just being honest.

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