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Who's fault is it for Steffy becoming a homewrecker? Taylor or Brooke?
Started by VictorAdamNewman at 2009/11/06 11:16AMLatest post: 2009/11/10 09:43AM, Views: 848, Replies: 38
holysmokes06 |
Quote BoldMama: Quote holysmokes06: Quote BoldMama: Steffy, is an adult!! She made the decision to kiss and hug Bill. You can't put this on anyone but her!!! Sure, she's responsible for her own actions, but you have to admit, when it comes to acting like a ho, she had some mighty good teachers! She sure has...but I'm willing to bet you anything, we are thinking about different people. Her actions, her responsibility!! Ha Ha! And I'll bet you're absolutely right! I guess we'll just have to agree that there's no shortage of bad behavior on this show, no matter whose fault it is! Ha Ha! |
VictorAdamNe... |
Quote Touched: Quote VictorAdamNewman: Now obviously, the fault lies mainly with Steffy. She is an adult who knows right from wrong and is able to make the correct decision. Or so we thought.  However, what is the secondary cause of this transformation? Yes, its easy to say Taylor because she's her mother, its up to a mother to raise their children correctly, but still. Taylor never stole men from other women in front of Steffy's eyes. Is Brooke the one to blame here? Is it possible that because she has seen Brooke, and to a lesser extent Donna, get ahead in life by stealing and seducing powerful men, that Steffy has taken a page from their book? The way she was standing so close to Bill and the way she kissed him and then pretended to be surprised, it just looked like Brooke to me. I say Brooke is the bad influence here. When do people finally grow-up an stop blaming a parent figure or for that matter, someone else, for their poor behavior? It's always easy to blame someone else, it's never easy to realize that the person is free to make choices, even if they are the wrong ones! Steffy is solely to blame for what Steffy does! Did you even read the first paragraph of my post? Of course Steffy is the one to blame. But who had more of an influence over her that resulted in this change, Brooke or Taylor? |
Touched |
Quote VictorAdamNewman: Quote Touched: Quote VictorAdamNewman: Now obviously, the fault lies mainly with Steffy. She is an adult who knows right from wrong and is able to make the correct decision. Or so we thought. However, what is the secondary cause of this transformation? Yes, its easy to say Taylor because she's her mother, its up to a mother to raise their children correctly, but still. Taylor never stole men from other women in front of Steffy's eyes. Is Brooke the one to blame here? Is it possible that because she has seen Brooke, and to a lesser extent Donna, get ahead in life by stealing and seducing powerful men, that Steffy has taken a page from their book? The way she was standing so close to Bill and the way she kissed him and then pretended to be surprised, it just looked like Brooke to me. I say Brooke is the bad influence here. When do people finally grow-up an stop blaming a parent figure or for that matter, someone else, for their poor behavior? It's always easy to blame someone else, it's never easy to realize that the person is free to make choices, even if they are the wrong ones! Steffy is solely to blame for what Steffy does! Did you even read the first paragraph of my post? Of course Steffy is the one to blame. But who had more of an influence over her that resulted in this change, Brooke or Taylor? Thank-you! I read the whole post! My post was meant to disagree with your summation that it is Brooke's fault! Steffy is an adult, capable of making adult decisions, whether right or wrong! Handling the consequences of one's actions, without blaming someone else, is also considered adult behavior. Blaming someone else is childish behavior and very speaks of immaturity, when adults do it. |
silo |
I think it's Steffy's fault. I don't like Taylor, but she did ask Steffy to stay out of Owen's marriage. |
Kat232 |
I think it's Steffy's fault, but the influence is Brooke's. Taylor has not been the greatest influence either, but if we are talking about who was the greates influence on Steffy chasing after taken men alone, then Brooke is that influence. |
AnnLizMat |
I too agree that its Steffy's fault...she is an ADULT!!! |
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judy_bo_booty |
Quote AnnLizMat: I too agree that its Steffy's fault...she is an ADULT!!!  Even my daughter who is only 8 knows right from wrong. Steffy chooses to be who she is!!! With all due respect...Taylor did ask that TWIT to back off...but she chose to jump from Owen to Bill in like a blink of an eye!!!  Wow! dont y'all just love it when we all agree on the same point??!!!  Once again!! Will wonders ever cease? |
BetchaDidntKnow |
Quote silo: I think it's Steffy's fault. I don't like Taylor, but she did ask Steffy to stay out of Owen's marriage. Another thing, is that I totally disagree with people who say that Taylor never stole any man from Brooke. Can you say short memory? What did Taylor do the minut she came back from the dead, she kicked Brooke out of the house where Brooke had raised HER kids, while she was gone, without any concern for Brooke's kids. And what has she been doing since she broke up with Ridge, trying to get Ridge back. So, it's ok not to like Brooke, but Taylor's character has changed and she is now just as selfcentered as Brooke was!!! At least Brooke can fight for her men on her own. Taylor needs her kids and Stephanie. It's just pathetic!!! Actually, Ridge asked Brooke to leave the home not Taylor. Again, it was Ridge who was conflicted over which family to be with. Taylor, unfortunately, simply was not prepared for life to have continued, based on her circumstances. She stated that she lived to return to her family. She did and wishy washy Ridge made the entire experience horrible and unfair to both Taylor and Brooke. The blame is squarely on Ridge. Taylor did move on with her life by marrying and starting a family with Nick. No matter how many times she's tried to move on with her life Brooke has inserted herself in some fashion or another. It almost appears that Taylor can't get away from Brooke! I was remembering her relationship with Hector and later with Nick. Brooke simply couldn't stay away from Taylor and was not adverse to throwing her opinions about Taylor's life and future in Taylor's face. I guess turnabout is fair play when Taylor does the same thing to Brooke. |
shademorgis |
Touched-I agree that everyone is responsible for their own behavior. So why then isn't the nut who attacked Brooke blamed instead of Stephanie? Yeah Stephanie might have sent the guy in Brookes direction, which was wrong, and for that she was shot by Storm. But no one is to blame for the actual attack except for the attacker. Stephanie did not tell him to attack Brooke. HE did the deed. |
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judy_bo_booty |
Quote shademorgis: Touched-I agree that everyone is responsible for their own behavior. So why then isn't the nut who attacked Brooke blamed instead of Stephanie? Yeah Stephanie might have sent the guy in Brookes direction, which was wrong, and for that she was shot by Storm. But no one is to blame for the actual attack except for the attacker. Stephanie did not tell him to attack Brooke. HE did the deed. I agree with you. But the Brookies won't. Stephanie had no idea he was sick. She just wanted a man who Brooke had already met to take her mind and interest off of Ridge. It was wrong though, and yes she was shot by psycho Storm. Steffy is a big girl, she will do whatever she wants, and so far she is doing all the wrong things. I wonder who she will go after next. At least it can't be Ridge or Eric. |
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shademorgis |
I hope not! LMAO |
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EVSCNB |
Quote colormebadd: I say Taylor because Brooke isn't Steffy's mother. Between Taylor and Stephanie complaining about how it's the Logan's sister's fault for their men leaving them all the time and never blaming the men and are still willing to always go back to these men, at the beckon call they are the bad examples. For instance look at how Steffy bad mouthed Jackie all the time when she wanted Owen, exactly who did she remind you of? She was dead wrong for that and learned by sitting their watching and listening to her mother and grandmother do this constantly. Brooke's no saint by far but she doesn't exactly waste her time giving Taylor/Stephanie the time of day by bad mouthing them all the time to her children or Ridge. Get real!! If you aren't going to blame Steffy, then you have to blame Brooke. Have you forgotten how many times Taylor had 'died' and Brooke raised Ridge's kids. No honey, it is Brooke. |
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Touched |
Quote shademorgis: Touched-I agree that everyone is responsible for their own behavior. So why then isn't the nut who attacked Brooke blamed instead of Stephanie? Yeah Stephanie might have sent the guy in Brookes direction, which was wrong, and for that she was shot by Storm. But no one is to blame for the actual attack except for the attacker. Stephanie did not tell him to attack Brooke. HE did the deed. There is no doubt that the rapist should take the blame for what he did. However, Stephanie must realize that if she hadn't set things in motion, that situation might not have happened the way it did! Stephanie did tell Andy that Brooke like men and liked to have a good time, and there was no proof in that, since she had only been involved with Nick or Ridge in the previous years! |
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Touched |
If others have to be blamed for Steffy's behavior, then you can't blame Brooke, Taylor or Ridge alone! Eric has shown Steffy that it's ok to be promiscuous. Stephanie has shown Steffy that it's ok to be intrusive and run everybody's business! Katie interfered in another relationship! And the list goes on and on! Who do these people blame for their behavior! |
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julie2 |
Taylor is the one to blame. |
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