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If you where in love and getting married?

Started by liz-fan at 2008/06/24 07:23PM
Latest post: 2008/06/27 12:56PM, Views: 86, Replies: 5
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#1   2008/06/24 07:23PM
If you where in love and getting married?
liz-fan
liz-fan

What would be a deal breaker for you?

Kids to or not to?

X wives inteference?

A prenump?

What was in the prenump?

What would have you walking away?

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#2   2008/06/24 07:33PM
Re: If you where in love and getting married?
dayzfan
dayzfan

I would have to say that the only way i would walk away is if i found out he sometime cheated on me. i believe that if you are truely in love you would not stray and cheat. that would be the only deal breaker for me!!

#3   2008/06/25 06:27AM
Re: If you where in love and getting married?
val15
val15

I personally believe everyone deserves a second chance. However, sometimes it's just not right and you know it in your gut and nothing will make it right no matter how many second chances you give. My first marriage was a horrific mistake and I knew it deep down but I couldn't bring myself to call it off. I was so nervous at the rehearsal that I made myself a complete wreck. I didn't sleep a wink the night before. It wasn't so much any one particular thing as just the fact that we weren't right for each other and I knew it. So I guess the deal breaker for me was my little small voice was trying to tell me something but I unfortunately just tuned it out.

#4   2008/06/25 04:40PM
Re: If you where in love and getting married?
karaid
karaid

Quote liz-fan: What would be a deal breaker for you?

Kids to or not to?

X wives inteference?

A prenump?

What was in the prenump?

What would have you walking away?





Kids or no Kids. Well really that should be discussed before you get married.


X wives interference. Well thank god I don't have this problem. But I'm sure If I did she would have to be dealt with. really it's not his problem that his EX is CRAZY...LOL


A prenup. No, I think everyone is entitled to protect the assets they entered it the marriage with.


What was in the prenup. Like what??



What would have you walking away? The ONLY thing that would make me walk away from my marriage would be if he cheated on me.

Personally I feel that marriage is forever. And shouldn't be entered lightly. It is a huge commitment.
No one ever say marriage was easy. It will always have it's up and downs. But with out Love, Trust, Respect and Honesty you have nothing.

#5   2008/06/25 06:13PM
Re: If you where in love and getting married?
liz-fan
liz-fan

Quote karaid:
Quote liz-fan: What would be a deal breaker for you?

Kids to or not to?

X wives inteference?

A prenump?

What was in the prenump?
i don't know
What would have you walking away?


Kids or no Kids. Well really that should be discussed before you get married.


X wives interference. Well thank god I don't have this problem. But I'm sure If I did she would have to be dealt with. really it's not his problem that his EX is CRAZY...LOL


A prenup. No, I think everyone is entitled to protect the assets they entered it the marriage with.


What was in the prenup. Like what??



What would have you walking away? The ONLY thing that would make me walk away from my marriage would be if he cheated on me.

Personally I feel that marriage is forever. And shouldn't be entered lightly. It is a huge commitment.
No one ever say marriage was easy. It will always have it's up and downs. But with out Love, Trust, Respect and Honesty you have nothing.



Thank you for the answers but I was really using these questions as examples.

I think marriage is forever too but i do think they are times walking away is the ony answer. Really i was just curious.

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#6   2008/06/27 12:56PM
Re: If you where in love and getting married?
Tesstellthetruthalre
Tesstellthetruthalready

I would walk away if he was cheating, and I would walk away if I felt he was not in love with me anymore, I wouldn't want to stick around if he didn't have the same feelings, ya know? I wouldn't want to hold him back from something else....

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