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hate your ex club

Started by dcorn at 2008/05/29 01:25PM
Latest post: 2008/06/12 11:14AM, Views: 236, Replies: 25
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#1   2008/05/29 01:25PM
hate your ex club
dcorn
dcorn

i am very mad at my ex husband right now.and if i was not a christain woman i would have killed him by now lol. i know i am not the only one who has a problem with an ex but ,i need some support . i am afraid that my sons are going to get seriously hurt by him. and the lawyers will not listen to me. i guess it does have to happen before they will do anything about it. i have full custody , and he does see them. why change it . the boys hate him with a passion. they have a great father (my husband) . they do not need him . he is not a father . i just need to vent a little i guess. i would like to tell you what he has done but, i would get banned for the nature of the content. so lets try to keep it clean. anyone else would like to see their ex fall off the face of the earth?

#2   2008/05/29 01:30PM
Re: hate your ex club
suzrocks
suzrocks

Ha! What a great thread name!
Why do I hate my ex?
Because, I had 2 houses and 2 cars when I married him and he was empty handed. He had a talent, so I helped him open his own business... but instead of being successful, he blew all my money on drugs. We were only married 7 months but in the state of MS when you are married 6 months your spouse is automatically entitled to half of everything. I had to give him half the value of my houses and one of my cars and had to pay the full debt for the failed business and pay his back taxes!!!! I also paid for us to get married. THANK GOD we didn't have children. He cost me nearly $100,000.00. I made arrangements to pay it in installments in hopes that he would die before the payments were finished, but the b@st@rd is still alive. He called me not to long ago to ask "Do you still hate me? Can we give it another try". I told him, just like I told him then... "My only hope was that you would die before I paid your sorry @$$ off, the fact that you lived sickens me... and the fact that you are still alive sickens me even more... now f-off!!!"
Ahh yes, it does feel nice to vent.
Sorry I have no advice for you, but thanks for letting me vent anyway!

#3   2008/05/29 01:34PM
Re: hate your ex club
dcorn
dcorn

hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate

#4   2008/06/10 01:40PM
Re: hate your ex club
wannazach
wannazach

Quote dcorn: hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate



Hi dcorn!
Sorry it took me a while to get to answer this post but I find it fasinating. I have an ex from H^LL also. Luckily we had no children so there are NO ties to him at all. Back then I would have liked to have tied his sorry butt with a rope to my car bumper and pull him up and down a gravel road a few times. *LOL* You know, a little gravel rash. Naaa, he deserved much worse. Anyway I didn't even know he had a girlfriend till she got pregnant. Geez...I guess you don't pick up on things when you are working 3 jobs to support you both. ANYWAY, *LMAO* The big dummy moved to GA to live with her. Well if he had stayed in NC the law is 50/50 as far as deviding assets and he would have got half of everything. BUT in GA, they really frown on adultery and they hung his butt out to dry. Since he became a resident down in GA I was able to move my divorce case there. Even with no kids I got 1 year alimony, our new just built home and 12 acres of mountain top land AND he had to pay off all bills. The look on his face when the judge told him that was all the justice I needed. That was in 1999 and I bet you his jaw is still on the floor from the shock of it all. Whenever I need a good laugh I just think about that day in court and LOLOLOL.

#5   2008/06/10 01:45PM
Re: hate your ex club
dcorn
dcorn

Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn: hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate



Hi dcorn!
Sorry it took me a while to get to answer this post but I find it fasinating. I have an ex from H^LL also. Luckily we had no children so there are NO ties to him at all. Back then I would have liked to have tied his sorry butt with a rope to my car bumper and pull him up and down a gravel road a few times. *LOL* You know, a little gravel rash. Naaa, he deserved much worse. Anyway I didn't even know he had a girlfriend till she got pregnant. Geez...I guess you don't pick up on things when you are working 3 jobs to support you both. ANYWAY, *LMAO* The big dummy moved to GA to live with her. Well if he had stayed in NC the law is 50/50 as far as deviding assets and he would have got half of everything. BUT in GA, they really frown on adultery and they hung his butt out to dry. Since he became a resident down in GA I was able to move my divorce case there. Even with no kids I got 1 year alimony, our new just built home and 12 acres of mountain top land AND he had to pay off all bills. The look on his face when the judge told him that was all the justice I needed. That was in 1999 and I bet you his jaw is still on the floor from the shock of it all. Whenever I need a good laugh I just think about that day in court and LOLOLOL.
welcome back !!!!!!!! i love your story , did we marry brothers?lol

#6   2008/06/10 01:49PM
Re: hate your ex club
wannazach
wannazach

Quote dcorn:
Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn: hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate



Hi dcorn!
Sorry it took me a while to get to answer this post but I find it fasinating. I have an ex from H^LL also. Luckily we had no children so there are NO ties to him at all. Back then I would have liked to have tied his sorry butt with a rope to my car bumper and pull him up and down a gravel road a few times. *LOL* You know, a little gravel rash. Naaa, he deserved much worse. Anyway I didn't even know he had a girlfriend till she got pregnant. Geez...I guess you don't pick up on things when you are working 3 jobs to support you both. ANYWAY, *LMAO* The big dummy moved to GA to live with her. Well if he had stayed in NC the law is 50/50 as far as deviding assets and he would have got half of everything. BUT in GA, they really frown on adultery and they hung his butt out to dry. Since he became a resident down in GA I was able to move my divorce case there. Even with no kids I got 1 year alimony, our new just built home and 12 acres of mountain top land AND he had to pay off all bills. The look on his face when the judge told him that was all the justice I needed. That was in 1999 and I bet you his jaw is still on the floor from the shock of it all. Whenever I need a good laugh I just think about that day in court and LOLOLOL.
welcome back !!!!!!!! i love your story , did we marry brothers?lol


*LOL* might have!

#7   2008/06/10 07:30PM
Re: hate your ex club
ZachsLady
ZachsLady

I know I will be ignored butwhat the hell?
Don't even get me started on the lying, cheating spousal abuser sperm donor during my three pregnancies which caused the loss of my first pregnancy at the age of 18!

Great thread, sad, full of BAD Memories, but a place to find comfort and support!

#8   2008/06/10 07:36PM
Re: hate your ex club
wannazach
wannazach

Quote ZachsLady: I know I will be ignored butwhat the hell?
Don't even get me started on the lying, cheating spousal abuser sperm donor during my three pregnancies which caused the loss of my first pregnancy at the age of 18!

Great thread, sad, full of BAD Memories, but a place to find comfort and support!


I can relate to that. A shame all the sh^t women have to put up with. I hope the bad memories will go away or at least get better.

#9   2008/06/11 04:29AM
Re: hate your ex club
dcorn
dcorn

Quote ZachsLady: I know I will be ignored butwhat the hell?
Don't even get me started on the lying, cheating spousal abuser sperm donor during my three pregnancies which caused the loss of my first pregnancy at the age of 18!

Great thread, sad, full of BAD Memories, but a place to find comfort and support!
i am sorry that it brought bad memories, i started this thread foe people to vent and have support of other people who are going (or have gone) through the same thing. if you ever need comfort just talk to me, seems we are in the same boat.

#10   2008/06/11 04:31AM
Re: hate your ex club
dcorn
dcorn

Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn:
Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn: hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate



Hi dcorn!
Sorry it took me a while to get to answer this post but I find it fasinating. I have an ex from H^LL also. Luckily we had no children so there are NO ties to him at all. Back then I would have liked to have tied his sorry butt with a rope to my car bumper and pull him up and down a gravel road a few times. *LOL* You know, a little gravel rash. Naaa, he deserved much worse. Anyway I didn't even know he had a girlfriend till she got pregnant. Geez...I guess you don't pick up on things when you are working 3 jobs to support you both. ANYWAY, *LMAO* The big dummy moved to GA to live with her. Well if he had stayed in NC the law is 50/50 as far as deviding assets and he would have got half of everything. BUT in GA, they really frown on adultery and they hung his butt out to dry. Since he became a resident down in GA I was able to move my divorce case there. Even with no kids I got 1 year alimony, our new just built home and 12 acres of mountain top land AND he had to pay off all bills. The look on his face when the judge told him that was all the justice I needed. That was in 1999 and I bet you his jaw is still on the floor from the shock of it all. Whenever I need a good laugh I just think about that day in court and LOLOLOL.
welcome back !!!!!!!! i love your story , did we marry brothers?lol


*LOL* might have!
hows are you doing, have you talked to rudy2, she was very upset about the banning. anyway, great to have u back! have fun posting.

#11   2008/06/11 07:25AM
Re: hate your ex club
ZachsLady
ZachsLady

Quote dcorn:
Quote ZachsLady: I know I will be ignored butwhat the hell?
Don't even get me started on the lying, cheating spousal abuser sperm donor during my three pregnancies which caused the loss of my first pregnancy at the age of 18!

Great thread, sad, full of BAD Memories, but a place to find comfort and support!
i am sorry that it brought bad memories, i started this thread foe people to vent and have support of other people who are going (or have gone) through the same thing. if you ever need comfort just talk to me, seems we are in the same boat.


Don't be sorry after all if there were 'good' memories they wouldn't be 'ex;s'
It is a good thread to vent, and support, like the movie First Wives Club.

#12   2008/06/11 07:27AM
Re: hate your ex club
wannazach
wannazach

Quote dcorn:
Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn:
Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn: hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate



Hi dcorn!
Sorry it took me a while to get to answer this post but I find it fasinating. I have an ex from H^LL also. Luckily we had no children so there are NO ties to him at all. Back then I would have liked to have tied his sorry butt with a rope to my car bumper and pull him up and down a gravel road a few times. *LOL* You know, a little gravel rash. Naaa, he deserved much worse. Anyway I didn't even know he had a girlfriend till she got pregnant. Geez...I guess you don't pick up on things when you are working 3 jobs to support you both. ANYWAY, *LMAO* The big dummy moved to GA to live with her. Well if he had stayed in NC the law is 50/50 as far as deviding assets and he would have got half of everything. BUT in GA, they really frown on adultery and they hung his butt out to dry. Since he became a resident down in GA I was able to move my divorce case there. Even with no kids I got 1 year alimony, our new just built home and 12 acres of mountain top land AND he had to pay off all bills. The look on his face when the judge told him that was all the justice I needed. That was in 1999 and I bet you his jaw is still on the floor from the shock of it all. Whenever I need a good laugh I just think about that day in court and LOLOLOL.
welcome back !!!!!!!! i love your story , did we marry brothers?lol


*LOL* might have!
hows are you doing, have you talked to rudy2, she was very upset about the banning. anyway, great to have u back! have fun posting.


Hi dcorn, yes I talked to Rudy first thing and gave her big hugs. She is such a great person, I adore her. Hope you are haveing a great day.

#13   2008/06/11 07:44AM
Re: hate your ex club
rudy2
rudy2

Quote ZachsLady: I know I will be ignored butwhat the hell?
Don't even get me started on the lying, cheating spousal abuser sperm donor during my three pregnancies which caused the loss of my first pregnancy at the age of 18!

Great thread, sad, full of BAD Memories, but a place to find comfort and support!




hey zachslady, i dont have a hate my ex story. but i was just wonderin why on earth you thought you would be ignored around here? the folks around here dont ignore people, they are very good at listenin!!

#14   2008/06/11 07:46AM
Re: hate your ex club
dcorn
dcorn

i am having a great day! going to pick up my niece later, i do not know how long she will be here.

#15   2008/06/11 07:46AM
Re: hate your ex club
rudy2
rudy2

Quote wannazach:
Quote dcorn: hey suz, will you please tell my ex the same thing for me i will give you his number.lol it does feel good to vent . sorry you had a tough marriage. keep looking you will find your soulmate



Hi dcorn!
Sorry it took me a while to get to answer this post but I find it fasinating. I have an ex from H^LL also. Luckily we had no children so there are NO ties to him at all. Back then I would have liked to have tied his sorry butt with a rope to my car bumper and pull him up and down a gravel road a few times. *LOL* You know, a little gravel rash. Naaa, he deserved much worse. Anyway I didn't even know he had a girlfriend till she got pregnant. Geez...I guess you don't pick up on things when you are working 3 jobs to support you both. ANYWAY, *LMAO* The big dummy moved to GA to live with her. Well if he had stayed in NC the law is 50/50 as far as deviding assets and he would have got half of everything. BUT in GA, they really frown on adultery and they hung his butt out to dry. Since he became a resident down in GA I was able to move my divorce case there. Even with no kids I got 1 year alimony, our new just built home and 12 acres of mountain top land AND he had to pay off all bills. The look on his face when the judge told him that was all the justice I needed. That was in 1999 and I bet you his jaw is still on the floor from the shock of it all. Whenever I need a good laugh I just think about that day in court and LOLOLOL.


hey wanna, i really like the "big dummy" part!! great name!!! and wow, wanna, you really scored big on this situation!!! did you say you are remarried now?

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