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TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B "UPDATE" BOARD....AND EVERYONE ELSE

Started by trinilisa at 2008/04/19 02:55AM
Latest post: 2008/05/17 08:25AM, Views: 1706, Replies: 90
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#41   2008/04/23 10:02AM
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Luvdasoaps
Luvdasoaps

lalalalalalalalalala

give it a rest.

Trinilisa,
sorry that someone like this is making it all about her. I hope all is well with you. I pray for strength to you. May God be with you.

#42   2008/04/23 10:47AM
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Greema2four
Greema2four

Quote riaria:
Quote Greema2four:
Quote riaria:
Quote Greema2four: Hey Cemc

Now that you have shared all the gory details of your son's passing with us - how about sharing all the good moments. The special times you shared with him - tell us the details of his LIFE.


CEMC don't share any deatails of your son's life with her, she seems like she doesn't even care how can one person feel sympathy for a woman who lost their husband (not a child) but have no sympathy for a woman that lost her flesh and blood her baby. Don't let these people get to you, remember pick your fights wisely, I think this site is a joke and it is so funny how these people get riled up so easily over a SOAP OPERA I guess that is what happens when people do not get educated properly PWT is what my grandmother use to say and she was right. My prayers are with you.


You know, you guys are SICK, SICK, SICK. You wouldn't recognize a helping hand if it slapped you in the face. You don't want RESPECT - you want attention. Poor sad creatures that you are. Well, I tried to reach out, against my better judgement, but I at least tried. Now, what I have to say is this..... Nothing more....go to , you know where = meet up with all your dear departed ones.


A baby's death is not gory it is TRAGIC - go back to highschool and take you SATS again you need big help with your vocabulary. I don't think CEMC was asking for any of this and let us just hope you don't have to go through something as tragic as losing a child. I would not wish that on my worst enemy.


Riaria

Is English not your first language?

You don't seem to comprehend well - grammar stinks, sentence structure is very weak, punctuation is non-existant - need I continue?

A few days ago, I posted an old saying. "Never engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed person." So, with that thought in mind, dearie, I don't see the point of engaging you any further. You can't keep up.

#43   2008/04/23 10:52AM
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juliet
juliet

riaria

i know how cemec feels i lost 2 babies myself but i moved on with my life & living it to the fullest that is what both of my babies would want.

i'm sure more then one posters has lost people close to them but we don't bring it up everyday like a broken record

so don't tell me i don't know how it feels to lose a child cause i do

#44   2008/04/23 01:03PM
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Brendamouse
Brendamouse

Trin, I am truly sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry for the other posters that have experienced tragedy in his or her life recently.

#45   2008/04/23 03:05PM
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judy_bo_booty
judy_bo_booty

riara is cemc.

#46   2008/04/23 11:36PM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Well, I had my last visit with Mike today before I leave for Toronto. I went with my friends, who came from Toronto, and his friend who live in RI came afterwards. I was determined not to turn it into a sad thing. So we brought some Taquila, and we sprinkled some salt where his hands would have been. And I had my Taquila and I poured the rest where his mouth would have been. And I sucked the lemon, and squeezed the lemon where his mouth would have been. And we told stories and stuff about Mike. And we stayed there from like 05:30 (almost 05:45) to about a quarter to seven. And then we went to this restaurant where he and his friend used to go drinking. And there was a special on, where if you ordered two dinners, you got a bottle of wine! So since there were four of us, we got a bottle of red and a bottle of white! And we talked about Mike again, and I told some dirty lymricks that Mike had told me. So it was really nice. Then I met up with a friend for drinks, and had a really nice time!
I will not have the net for three weeks, and I shall miss you all. But I will get in touch as soon as I am able to. I love you all, and thank you so much for being there for me, and giving of your time and energy, just to be there for me. Love you, and we'll talk in about three weeks; I shall miss you. I love you always.
That said, I am very upset that I have to leave; in fact, I was just talking to a friend and it all came out. I am sad and angry and everything inbetween. I really hate this. I am glad, however, that I had a good time visiting my husband yesterday.

#47   2008/04/23 11:42PM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote cemc: I am so sorry for your loss, I lost my 8 month old son to HYPO PLASTIC LEFT HEART SYNDROME IN 2005 - IT DOES NOT GET ANY HARDER THEN LOSING YOUR CHILD, I hope and pray that you have a strong family that will help support you throught your loss of your husband. I too have lost my temper because of residual feelings that I had built up inside becuase of my son's passing. Just be good to yourself that is what is important.


Thanks; I will try. I am also sorry for your loss.

#48   2008/04/23 11:45PM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote Greema2four: Hi there Trini...

I was very sorry to hear about your sudden loss. I know it is difficult to comprehend the "fairness" of life sometimes, but rest assured good things will come your way. Keep the faith, anyway you can, and let yourself love. The ladies on the BnB board are phenomenal - their concern and love for you is genuine so, please let them help you. I am not so phenomenal but I am willing to lend an ear anytime you need one.

Take care,
Greema (Dianne)


You are also incredible and I thank you.

#49   2008/04/23 11:50PM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote sickofbrooke: this is only more proof that cemc=riaria.

"thanks for your understanding/support"??? for what? u were the one that spewed that madness that REQUIRED trini to clip u n the first place.


trini, i was moved by your post which is why i came to your thread. i'm so sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best. you had absolutely nothing to apologize for.
for future references, i would recommend ignoring all commments from cemc=riaria. they contain alot of personal attacks against other posters. ignore them and you won't have to worry about explaining your actions. best wishes to you.


Thanks; will be leaving tomorrow; will message you once I get the net in three weeks.

#50   2008/04/24 12:09AM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote riaria:
Quote pointofview: cemc and riaria:

What is it exactly you want from us? Please spell it out.

Same question to you, watchin.


RESPECT - how about some compassion for a mother who lost their child, a loss is a loss, but the way you responded to the person who lost their spouse was like they lost their own life. A parent should never bury a child (my grandmom had to bury her child when he was only two yrs old) so yes I have a huge amount of compassion for CEM. I would like you people to stop bashing Brooke all the time. All of you should be ashamed for being so ignorant to CEM's pain.


My mother-in-law is also dealing with the loss of her son. So, I haven't ever agreed with SEMEC, but I can understand what she's going through, as my mother-in-law is going through the same thing. A parent never thinks he/she will outlive her child.

#51   2008/04/24 12:11AM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Riaria,
Well, I am sorry that she didn't show as much compassion as you thought she should have shown. Like I said, my mother-in-law is going through grieving over the loss of her son, too., I am offended that you felt the need to minimize my pain in an attempt to make your point.

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#52   2008/04/24 12:20AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote Mimiky:
Quote riaria:
Quote soapsuds98:
Quote riaria:
Quote pointofview: cemc and riaria:

What is it exactly you want from us? Please spell it out.

Same question to you, watchin.


RESPECT - how about some compassion for a mother who lost their child, a loss is a loss, but the way you responded to the person who lost their spouse was like they lost their own life. A parent should never bury a child (my grandmom had to bury her child when he was only two yrs old) so yes I have a huge amount of compassion for CEM. I would like you people to stop bashing Brooke all the time. All of you should be ashamed for being so ignorant to CEM's pain.


You seem to think that no one else has suffered a loss as big as yours. We are people, we have all suffered a loss at some point of our lives. The difference is that some people deal with it, try to move on and keep the good memories alive. Then there are people like you, that use your loss to vent and take out your anger and inability to deal on people around you. In your case, people on-lne that you don't know. I hope that your hate and anger is not also being taken out on the people close to you. Try to find some peace...


I did not lose a child - cemc did. Just like the woman who started this thread is not the first person to lose a husband at least it was not a child. You are such an idiot. Where are your from.




i really can't stand this ignorant f..l anymore. How small are ya? There is no sense sugarcoating anything to this chick as she is so so dumb. Goodness! who is allowing u post anyway? who is the disease fighting for???some woman who lost her kid...what? 3 yrs ago???If i have followed the story correctly I assume she is the one that still has other kids, right? why can't she go on her knees and thank GOD for allowing her have/keep other kids...With that kind of attitude i find it haRD TO BELIEVE THAT SHE IS REALLY LOOKING out for her other kids as they all might fade in comparision to the one lost. How selfish! You think ur living kids will thank u for that one day? Think again!

Everyone has lost someone and you are nothing special or different, agreed! that is life. what can we do. Nada!!!

Live for the present, hope for the future and let go of the past. That is the only way forward unless you will end up sinking in the filth of madness that you have gottn yourself swamped in.


How dare you ask for respect Ria????????Do you give it? what have u been learning at school (assuming you have been going ofcourse)??? didn't ur teacher tell u that respect is reciprocal??? You don't give it, don't expect to get it in return. Go back to school and get your bearing right, Ok? atleast u need the reality.


Sorry about your loss trini, i had water/tears in my eyes while reading your story. I have always believed in "when one door closes another (or 2) opens. You have been dealt bad hands but things can only get better from here on. Every cloud has a silver.....


That is really nice. I am sorry to have made you cry. I hope you're right about the one door thing; two countries in less than a year....having to start from scratch...I definitely need everyone's positivity right now!

#53   2008/04/24 12:25AM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote Brendamouse: Trin, I am truly sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry for the other posters that have experienced tragedy in his or her life recently.


Thanks, Brenda, I appreciate it.

#54   2008/04/24 12:27AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote Luvdasoaps: lalalalalalalalalala

give it a rest.

Trinilisa,
sorry that someone like this is making it all about her. I hope all is well with you. I pray for strength to you. May God be with you.


Thanks for the prayers; it's funny, I have issues with God, but I do welcome everyone's prayers, though. I am sorry if I am making this about me; I really didn't mean to.

#55   2008/04/24 12:40AM
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trinilisa
trinilisa

Well, I have found an online support group. You can join a group, and I have joined "widows and widowers" and "young widows" to name a couple. I have also joined "bereavement". If Semc wants to join, and perhaps talk to those who have delt with this kinda thin, she can go to
www.dailystrength.org

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