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TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B "UPDATE" BOARD....AND EVERYONE ELSE

Started by trinilisa at 2008/04/19 02:55AM
Latest post: 2008/05/17 08:25AM, Views: 1707, Replies: 90
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#21   2008/04/21 12:23AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
trinilisa
trinilisa

Quote wannazach: Hi Trinilisa,
I don't watch B&B and only post on AMC and the lounge. Your story is really very touching. I am so glad you have this board to help you in some little way in this sad time. I wish you all the strengh and courage there is to help you through this. Please feel free to vent anytime in any way here in the lounge. I'll be here for you if you need me and I know your many friends will be too. We all take care of our own. Lots of good wishes to you.


Hey, I think I might have misdirected a post to you earlier on; sorry about that! Well, I never really got into AMC, although I do remember Tad and DixyÉ And OpoleÉ And my cousin was in love with Jonathan Jackson, back in the day, when he used to be on AMC...

#22   2008/04/21 11:50AM
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soapsuds98
soapsuds98

Trinilisa, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband and as far as people like 'riaria' go, they're just not worth your time. I guess you're on your way to Canada, I hope you're having a safe drive. Again, I'm sorry about your loss, death is such a hard thing to accept and deal with. Just remember the best and cherish those memories.

#23   2008/04/21 12:47PM
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cemc

:( I am so sorry for your loss, I lost my 8 month old son to HYPO PLASTIC LEFT HEART SYNDROME IN 2005 - IT DOES NOT GET ANY HARDER THEN LOSING YOUR CHILD, I hope and pray that you have a strong family that will help support you throught your loss of your husband. I too have lost my temper because of residual feelings that I had built up inside becuase of my son's passing. Just be good to yourself that is what is important.

#24   2008/04/21 12:49PM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
cemc

Quote soapsuds98: Trinilisa, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband and as far as people like 'riaria' go, they're just not worth your time. I guess you're on your way to Canada, I hope you're having a safe drive. Again, I'm sorry about your loss, death is such a hard thing to accept and deal with. Just remember the best and cherish those memories.


Be fair to riaria because you do not know what is going on in her life as well. We are humans not animals treat each other with respect is what I learned in school and in church.

#25   2008/04/21 01:22PM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
riaria

Quote cemc:
Quote soapsuds98: Trinilisa, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband and as far as people like 'riaria' go, they're just not worth your time. I guess you're on your way to Canada, I hope you're having a safe drive. Again, I'm sorry about your loss, death is such a hard thing to accept and deal with. Just remember the best and cherish those memories.


Be fair to riaria because you do not know what is going on in her life as well. We are humans not animals treat each other with respect is what I learned in school and in church.


Thank you cemc for your understanding/support, I am so sorry about the loss of your son, I could not imangine losing a child words can't even explain sorrow. Why are people here so mean?

#26   2008/04/21 01:32PM
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Greema2four
Greema2four

Quote riaria:
Quote cemc:
Quote soapsuds98: Trinilisa, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband and as far as people like 'riaria' go, they're just not worth your time. I guess you're on your way to Canada, I hope you're having a safe drive. Again, I'm sorry about your loss, death is such a hard thing to accept and deal with. Just remember the best and cherish those memories.


Be fair to riaria because you do not know what is going on in her life as well. We are humans not animals treat each other with respect is what I learned in school and in church.


Thank you cemc for your understanding/support, I am so sorry about the loss of your son, I could not imangine losing a child words can't even explain sorrow. Why are people here so mean?


Did you even read these posts, Riaria?? Do they sound like "mean" people to you??

#27   2008/04/21 01:35PM
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Greema2four
Greema2four

Hi there Trini...

I was very sorry to hear about your sudden loss. I know it is difficult to comprehend the "fairness" of life sometimes, but rest assured good things will come your way. Keep the faith, anyway you can, and let yourself love. The ladies on the BnB board are phenomenal - their concern and love for you is genuine so, please let them help you. I am not so phenomenal but I am willing to lend an ear anytime you need one.

Take care,
Greema (Dianne)

#28   2008/04/21 01:49PM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
riaria

Quote Greema2four:
Quote riaria:
Quote cemc:
Quote soapsuds98: Trinilisa, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband and as far as people like 'riaria' go, they're just not worth your time. I guess you're on your way to Canada, I hope you're having a safe drive. Again, I'm sorry about your loss, death is such a hard thing to accept and deal with. Just remember the best and cherish those memories.

I was only making a comment this topic is about a woman who just lost her husband and another person who has lost her son. Please let us have some respect for these two people and not get catty.
Be fair to riaria because you do not know what is going on in her life as well. We are humans not animals treat each other with respect is what I learned in school and in church.


Thank you cemc for your understanding/support, I am so sorry about the loss of your son, I could not imangine losing a child words can't even explain sorrow. Why are people here so mean?


Did you even read these posts, Riaria?? Do they sound like "mean" people to you??

#29   2008/04/21 03:03PM
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sickofbrooke
sickofbrooke

this is only more proof that cemc=riaria.

"thanks for your understanding/support"??? for what? u were the one that spewed that madness that REQUIRED trini to clip u n the first place.


trini, i was moved by your post which is why i came to your thread. i'm so sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best. you had absolutely nothing to apologize for.
for future references, i would recommend ignoring all commments from cemc=riaria. they contain alot of personal attacks against other posters. ignore them and you won't have to worry about explaining your actions. best wishes to you.

#30   2008/04/21 03:28PM
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Luvdasoaps
Luvdasoaps

Quote sickofbrooke: this is only more proof that cemc=riaria.

"thanks for your understanding/support"??? for what? u were the one that spewed that madness that REQUIRED trini to clip u n the first place.


trini, i was moved by your post which is why i came to your thread. i'm so sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best. you had absolutely nothing to apologize for.
for future references, i would recommend ignoring all commments from cemc=riaria. they contain alot of personal attacks against other posters. ignore them and you won't have to worry about explaining your actions. best wishes to you.


ITA, she comes on here and says she's bitter and had the nerve to say something about church, seems like no one is listening or are they standing outside the door?

Look at the time the posts are and how she defends this chick, somebody has some type of personality disorder.

Trinilisa, I don't know why she keeps following us right into the box.

Somebody needs to start thinking outside the box, if you hold so much bitterness for the loss of a loved one, how can you move on? Sounds like someone is blaming someone for taking their child.

#31   2008/04/22 08:45AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
cemc

Quote Luvdasoaps:
Quote sickofbrooke: this is only more proof that cemc=riaria.

"thanks for your understanding/support"??? for what? u were the one that spewed that madness that REQUIRED trini to clip u n the first place.


trini, i was moved by your post which is why i came to your thread. i'm so sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best. you had absolutely nothing to apologize for.
for future references, i would recommend ignoring all commments from cemc=riaria. they contain alot of personal attacks against other posters. ignore them and you won't have to worry about explaining your actions. best wishes to you.


ITA, she comes on here and says she's bitter and had the nerve to say something about church, seems like no one is listening or are they standing outside the door?

Look at the time the posts are and how she defends this chick, somebody has some type of personality disorder.

Trinilisa, I don't know why she keeps following us right into the box.

Somebody needs to start thinking outside the box, if you hold so much bitterness for the loss of a loved one, how can you move on? Sounds like someone is blaming someone for taking their child.


Could you move on after the loss of a young child. LUVDASOAPS - I think you said you had a few children- I BLAME MYSELF FOR MY SON'S DEATH - TRY LIVING WITH THAT FOR YEARS. HE DIED IN MY ARMS - WHEN he took his last breath I was so out of it I did not even realize that he had died. Are you happy now LUV I BLAME MYSELF FOR THE LOSS OF LUCAS, I am at least in therapy and groups to help me deal but with people like you showing no comapssion does not help.

#32   2008/04/22 09:13AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
Luvdasoaps
Luvdasoaps

Quote cemc:
Quote Luvdasoaps:
Quote sickofbrooke: this is only more proof that cemc=riaria.

"thanks for your understanding/support"??? for what? u were the one that spewed that madness that REQUIRED trini to clip u n the first place.


trini, i was moved by your post which is why i came to your thread. i'm so sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best. you had absolutely nothing to apologize for.
for future references, i would recommend ignoring all commments from cemc=riaria. they contain alot of personal attacks against other posters. ignore them and you won't have to worry about explaining your actions. best wishes to you.


ITA, she comes on here and says she's bitter and had the nerve to say something about church, seems like no one is listening or are they standing outside the door?

Look at the time the posts are and how she defends this chick, somebody has some type of personality disorder.

Trinilisa, I don't know why she keeps following us right into the box.

Somebody needs to start thinking outside the box, if you hold so much bitterness for the loss of a loved one, how can you move on? Sounds like someone is blaming someone for taking their child.


Could you move on after the loss of a young child. LUVDASOAPS - I think you said you had a few children- I BLAME MYSELF FOR MY SON'S DEATH - TRY LIVING WITH THAT FOR YEARS. HE DIED IN MY ARMS - WHEN he took his last breath I was so out of it I did not even realize that he had died. Are you happy now LUV I BLAME MYSELF FOR THE LOSS OF LUCAS, I am at least in therapy and groups to help me deal but with people like you showing no comapssion does not help.


Girl, get a grip! Its not your fault that your son died. How can you say that? You really need to get in some counseling to deal with your loss.

Yes, I have 3 grown children. If they die, I will be devasted as anyone would that has children.

Seriously, you don't need to be posting here with all the hostility you have. You will drive yourself crazy believing it was your fault. Do you realize that your son while growing inside of you had this defect when he was developing in your body?

And as far as me "spewing" as you say bad things about your son is ludicris! Your mindset is that if anyone says anything negative about Brooke that we have a problem because her voice made your son smile while he was ill. Anyway, feel what you want and say what you want. You know why, you mean nothing to me.

Get your mind right.

The way you're acting could affect your children and your marriage. If you get help you may feel better about yourself and live life for Lucas.

Do you tell your group what you tell us here? Do they encourage and say its your fault? If so, you need to get to a one on one couseling session or have your OB/GYN refer you to someone.

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#33   2008/04/22 09:18AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
outland
outland

Quote cemc:
Quote Luvdasoaps:
Quote sickofbrooke: this is only more proof that cemc=riaria.

"thanks for your understanding/support"??? for what? u were the one that spewed that madness that REQUIRED trini to clip u n the first place.


trini, i was moved by your post which is why i came to your thread. i'm so sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best. you had absolutely nothing to apologize for.
for future references, i would recommend ignoring all commments from cemc=riaria. they contain alot of personal attacks against other posters. ignore them and you won't have to worry about explaining your actions. best wishes to you.


ITA, she comes on here and says she's bitter and had the nerve to say something about church, seems like no one is listening or are they standing outside the door?

Look at the time the posts are and how she defends this chick, somebody has some type of personality disorder.

Trinilisa, I don't know why she keeps following us right into the box.

Somebody needs to start thinking outside the box, if you hold so much bitterness for the loss of a loved one, how can you move on? Sounds like someone is blaming someone for taking their child.


Could you move on after the loss of a young child. LUVDASOAPS - I think you said you had a few children- I BLAME MYSELF FOR MY SON'S DEATH - TRY LIVING WITH THAT FOR YEARS. HE DIED IN MY ARMS - WHEN he took his last breath I was so out of it I did not even realize that he had died. Are you happy now LUV I BLAME MYSELF FOR THE LOSS OF LUCAS, I am at least in therapy and groups to help me deal but with people like you showing no comapssion does not help.


HEY!!!! Cemc... will you calm down a bit?

What is up with you?

I have told you before and I will tell you again, I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that these are just words, but more than these, I can not give.

Everyone had shown you compassion and you started beating them up... hitting below the belt and slamming all actions of sympathy toward you.

No one has ever said anything bad about your Kids, yet you have hounded Luvda the whole time.. accused her of taking drugs, living in a trailer park with 4 pit bulls and all kinds of ludacrous things...

Still, we tried to get you back on board and then you threatened us with Pa-Troll-ing the B&B Boards. And.. you have done so.

I will tell you this personally..

I used to like your spunk, your dedication and your conviction when you spoke about Brooke. It seemed however, that you were projecting all that has gone wrong in your life with all that is happening to a ficticious character and then you started to flip out... Any one who attacked the character, attacked you.

We have tried numerously to get you to pipe down and reassess... it did no good, you became more obnoxious and relentless...

SO... now Trini has posted her frustration with a couple of comments from you.. when you were riaria, she needed this space to vent and to let go...and what do you do? You come here and hand out a left-handed compliment and then you slam her in the face... afterwhich you communicate with yourself.. that is pretty sick and I would love you to get better... real soon... I am afraid that you are loosing it and that is such a waste for a young mother to bring what do you have, 4 kids? To bring them into the world and to turn up all hell in order to satisfy this meek but strong will to destroy everything that is good.

Take it easy, go to your therapy and TELL THE WHOLE STORY...

Don't take it out on us, we never wanted to cause you any harm... but at some time or the other, also the most patient of all, is without means to turn the other cheek and to look the other way.

Start being yourself with us... and it will be okay... It must be horrible being you, I feel for you somehow, but neither I nor any of the B&B Posters are to blame... Brooke is not your mirrow reflection and the B&B is just a show...

OKAY???

Man, haven't been over to ABC for a while, but if you act up there as you have been by us... you are in for a rude awakening... think about that!

Outland!

#34   2008/04/22 09:36AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
Greema2four
Greema2four

Hey Cemc

Now that you have shared all the gory details of your son's passing with us - how about sharing all the good moments. The special times you shared with him - tell us the details of his LIFE.

#35   2008/04/22 10:41AM
Re: TO ALL THOSE ON THE B&B
riaria

Quote Greema2four: Hey Cemc

Now that you have shared all the gory details of your son's passing with us - how about sharing all the good moments. The special times you shared with him - tell us the details of his LIFE.


CEMC don't share any deatails of your son's life with her, she seems like she doesn't even care how can one person feel sympathy for a woman who lost their husband (not a child) but have no sympathy for a woman that lost her flesh and blood her baby. Don't let these people get to you, remember pick your fights wisely, I think this site is a joke and it is so funny how these people get riled up so easily over a SOAP OPERA I guess that is what happens when people do not get educated properly PWT is what my grandmother use to say and she was right. My prayers are with you.

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