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Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!

Started by Dakota 4762 at 2008/01/21 06:48AM
Latest post: 2008/12/02 01:11PM, Views: 73389, Replies: 5663
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#11   2008/01/21 03:01PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
JamesScott1Fan
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Dakota I have been where you are. I know you know that. Know that we are here for you! And that you have many friends!! That love ya and your comments! This is where we come to get away and things happen on here that shouldn't. I have looked at that thread and ours that got shut down. It is bull there's should get shut down to! I could say a lot but you all know and feel the same way. We know what is happening. So I will not waste anymore of my time on this we can handle it by sending e-mails...etc! We have all said it all. There is no need to just repeat myself now. We all are thinking the same things. I Totally agree with what everyone said on here and our thread that got shut down!! So Dakota PLEASE don't go!! You know that I have typed the exact same thing not long ago because of it! And all of you were there for me a made me want to continue to stay!! You guys are the reason I stayed on here! Even though at times I get close to leaving because of this person. But I refuse to let them win! And I saw what happened the week I wasn't able to post and how missed and loved I was! So this I why I am fighting this and you need to to! We should not have to leave and let this person win!! Love Ya! And again PLEASE don't go! I said something to you on the Daily Update!! HUGS!!! HUGS!! HUGS!! TO YOU!!!

suz Thank You!! For everything that you said!! You are so right in all your comments!! Perfect! Your the best! Love ya sista!

Tunes Thank You!! You are Great!!! Thanks so much for your help in this situation to!! I will pry e-mail you soon!

Thanks so much (DQ)Jess and gapeach!!!


Megan and Tess Thank you guys so much to!!! I saw your comments on our thread that got shut down!!



TO ALL OF YOU THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!! It means so much!! MUAH! Love you all!!!

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#12   2008/01/21 04:37PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Dakota 4762
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nana of 8, Tess, suzrocks,tune and JS1fan: I just read your messages. Thank you for the support. I hope everyone goes back and reads our closed out thread because I left messages for people on it that needs to get tranfered over to the new thread that tess just started. I emailed tunes, but I don't know if it went through because I have no new messages in my email box. suz, I understand your comments. The reason that I personalized this is because of what happened on Saturday. Some people think that they won because they play the underdog card. This person means nothing to me and never will. This person deliberately discovered our lounge thread and didn't add anything meaningful, only to "bash" me. I wonder when she said the moderators don't like this why she was able to do it. I feel like I was sent to detention like someone in high school. Frankly, this person can hate EJ until the cows come home. That is not even close to what caused the problem. She told the GH people that I/we have a problem w/ anyone that doesn't like EJ. When I made a point to call her out of a lie that was told about shoot EJ please...the same IP goes to Sydney. Wow, when someone gets caught in a lie they certainly go and make up things about others. My one laugh of the day is this is the same person who likes to call EJ a liar and THAT is only a SHOW!! PS: Please don't rub it in that I missed a great show today. I am so angry w/NBC for not showing DAYS in my area that I wish that I could have watched it w/one of you guys. I hate when I miss a good show because of some stupid sports event!!

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#13   2008/01/21 04:55PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Dakota 4762
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I emailed you and sent one to myself. I will recheck this and see if it worked.

#14   2008/01/21 05:22PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
JamesScott1Fan
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Dakota I hear ya! Very interesting!! The IP address huh. Yeah this person does tell us all that All the time and like you said hate him(EJ) till the cows come home. And that that had nothing to do with it. It is they way he/she goes about it Continually Everyday! And yeah that is a laugh!! I know Exactly what you mean.

And Yeah I Hate it if I miss Days because of something like that! UGH! It was a Great episode today! But I won't rub it in. If you want anyone of us could tell ya everything that happened. And also you might be able to watch it on YouTube but they might not have it on there yet. I am Sorry you missed it!


Tunes I will pry e-mail you soon.

#15   2008/01/22 03:32AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
outland
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Quote Dakota 4762: outland: I may not be a poster on soaps.com anymore. My DAYS thread was closed due to a misunderstanding and now it has left me w/ tears in my eyes and a bad taste in my mouth. The GH board bashed me and when I went to defend myself..I was made an example of. Right now I am very emotional and can't think straight. I met some great friends here but soaps.com moderators have played favorites.


Hi Dakota! I am sorry that I haven't been able to have read this message sooner. Do not give up. We have just started to learn about each other and to care about each other! You are now with us... Give the other boards time and go back strong. Let us support your strengths and rid you of the painful hole in your stomach until it has disappeared.

People can be real mean, that is just human-nature. We will not be able to change the world, but perhaps we will find our place in it, in that we change the wallpaper that surrounds us and get a new view of the barriers that we allow to be built around us.

I was mobbed at the job for the last 4 months, and that only because I told my head-supervisor that I am sick of
being played with through the connivery of a fellow employee who has been with the firm since it opened. We had a chat between the three of us and that was a mistake obviously, because she started turning all the other members of the team against me, controlling my work, tampering with assignments, lying about things that I supposedly have done and that to the head supervisory officials. I had no chance, but to fight back and as soon as I slammed the fist on the table... that is a german saying that means I got serious and told them that enough is enough... well on Friday it was so far enough and I dissolved the employment relations.

Mobbing is everywhere and although I am now seeking new employment, I am at least taking the time to heal myself. A part of this healing is to get my mind off my worries and to enjoy the company of my friends here online and off.

Please, take the time to get your mind on other things, stay with us on the B&B Boards and let us love you back to health. You are worth that and we are always ready to agree to disagree without getting personal!

Hope this helps.

Yours

Outland!

#16   2008/01/22 05:50AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Dakota 4762
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outland: Thank you very much. I am sorry that I had to bring the DAYS saga to the B&B board but I was so distraught yesterday and wasn't ready to open up a new thread in the lounge for DAYS so someone else was nice enough to do it for me. I hope this doesn't scare away other great people from B&B that I have met to post on this board. My DAYS friends now have this new thread started but it doesn't need to be segregated. I started this for B&B lovers to chat and so far you are the only one over here. I know alot of posters, post from work and then need to toggle back and forth between the daily updates and the lounge. It might be bothersome for them to do it. Yesterday, some people in the US were off due to MLK Day.
I feel bad for you about your job. That has happened to me on jobs and makes it hard to trust anyone. Stay in touch on here and get the word out for others to join us!!

#17   2008/01/22 06:11AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
outland
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HEY People!!! Believe it or not, and you probably won't believe it... THE SUN IS SHINING IN GERMANY!!! Gonna open a bottle of bubbly, this must be celebrated!

Grüß,
Outland!

#18   2008/01/22 07:43AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
dwebster
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Good Morning Everyone,

I was so darn mad at the way the two new posters came on and immediately started to complain that after I send them a welcome and the complaints continued I got mad. I got a response back from LUVDASOAPS saying she hadn't heard me talk like that. Well, she hadn't seen me p#ssed off before.

OUr group at B&B is great. Friendly and caring. I like that. I've met people from all over the country, and Germany, Hi Outland,and enjoy every minute of it.

Dakota: I noticed that Candace said something to you the other day about deleting your post. I read all those posts and I didn't see anything that would require her to remove it.

Oh well, now that I have found this here, I'll bookmark it so I won't get lost.

Diane

#19   2008/01/22 07:53AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
girly51
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Quote dwebster: Good Morning Everyone,

I was so darn mad at the way the two new posters came on and immediately started to complain that after I send them a welcome and the complaints continued I got mad. I got a response back from LUVDASOAPS saying she hadn't heard me talk like that. Well, she hadn't seen me p#ssed off before.

OUr group at B&B is great. Friendly and caring. I like that. I've met people from all over the country, and Germany, Hi Outland,and enjoy every minute of it.

Dakota: I noticed that Candace said something to you the other day about deleting your post. I read all those posts and I didn't see anything that would require her to remove it.

Oh well, now that I have found this here, I'll bookmark it so I won't get lost.

Diane


Diane, I'm with you, I'll have to bookmark this or I'll never find it again.

Dakota, don't leave us, we love your comments. To hell with those morons who come on just to make waves. Kindness will kill them...so, they'll either jump onboard or just go away!!

Anyone can email me any time, just don't get discouraged if I don't respond right away.

Cindy (aka Girly51)

#20   2008/01/22 07:56AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Dakota 4762
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dwebster: Thanks for joining us in the lounge. I hope more people from B&B use it. What happened to me yesterday and the abuse I got was worse then a SOAP OPERA!! I am just sorry that what happened on DAYS Daily got brought the B&B lounge. Hopefully, today will be a better day!!

#21   2008/01/22 07:59AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Dakota 4762
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Thank you girly 51: "We will kill them with kindness." I love it!!!

#22   2008/01/22 11:20AM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
outland
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Quote Dakota 4762: dwebster: Thanks for joining us in the lounge. I hope more people from B&B use it. What happened to me yesterday and the abuse I got was worse then a SOAP OPERA!! I am just sorry that what happened on DAYS Daily got brought the B&B lounge. Hopefully, today will be a better day!!


Ach was? That is okay, the days group are welcome here, too! I know that I was stamped as unfriendly, but that just goes to show... you can't win them all!

Hi D! and Girly! Genial that you guys are also here! Our girl here needs us, we are a bit feisty but friendly... let the others not like our cyberfriendships, I don't care, they are how they are and that is okay, too! I am not angry but taking it with like a grain of salt. The community is what is important, not tit for tat!

I love our Boards, it is a bit too much sensibility though. I understand that order must be... but.. I think it isn't so bad when a bit of personality comes through. My goodness, we have all lived through life up to now, we can relate to thought-waves of the written character once in a while and let us be nasty... so long as we don't hurt the Performer themselves, where is the problem.

No worries, we have to accept this, it is not our site and our page can be closed down sometime, too. So I will try not to talk about anyone specifically if I am upset... just situations and I guess no one can point me out for anything.

So enough blah, blah, blah... am curious to see what happens on B&B today.

Just checked in to say hello!

Yours

Outland

aka Dc

#23   2008/01/22 12:40PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
nanaof8
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Hey Dakota,
I have had you on my mind and have said many prayers for you and our group. My conclusion is for all of us to stick together, try to ignore those obnoxious posters that suddenly appeared out of the woodwork, and to continue to post as usual wherever we choose to post.

I think you are a wonderful person and I have grown to appreciate you and the kind and funny things that you say.
I have great respect for you and the situation that you have found yourself in, but I don't really think you are in a sitauation--these people are only trying to start trouble to a group of posters that have so much fun chatting, posting, voicing our opinions about the show, and caring for each other like family. Please don't let them have their way. Come back to the site and post as usual and ignore completely all the negative posts and snide remarks from people who really don't know any better. WE DO!!!

Remember, Dakota, you probably have more friends that care about you than they ever will. we care enough that we want you to try to forget most of this and come back to the site to post--it's just not the same without you. I am here for you anytime and you can email me anytime--I truly care and want you to do all you can to just forget these people. Look how many friends are here to back you up.

Remember, Dakota, united we stand, devided we fall!!!!

We love you and want you back!!!!! PLEASE!!

Definitely your friend, Love ya.

#24   2008/01/22 01:07PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Candace
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Hi Dakota!

Sorry to hear that you've been having a negative experience! Of course, I can't comment about anything from the other boards, but you are welcome on the B&B board! If I removed a post, I had a good reason, and I always try to leave a note! It's nothing personal at all - sometimes posters comment on someone or something and don't even realize there is a problem. Thanks to the wonderful group of posters on my B&B boards, I never have big problems there! I hope you continue to post on Soaps.com.

Unfortunately, this spot shouldn't be used to speak ill of the mods - Chrissi is very fair. Nor should other posters use this space to solicit on behalf of other sites or chat rooms. Thanks for understanding about that!

See you over at B&B!
Candace

#25   2008/01/22 01:15PM
Re: Fellow B&B Lovers that want to chat about personal things...join me!!!
Candace
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Outland:

Sorry to hear about your job issues! I used to hold a high pressure position and the atmosphere at work was very back-stabbing. The politics of the office eventually led me to decide not to return (after having my baby) to a position I enjoyed in many ways. Very tough, isn't it?! Now I work at home, and although I miss some of the social aspects - I have you wonderful gents and ladies to chat at whenever I want!

Best of luck!
Candace

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