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good morning ladies, how is everyone this morning. and raggsies he knows i been throwing things out in fact he looked in the bag and didnt say anything. i know the watch is what killing him he paid alot of money for it but that went bye-bye last week. he still doesnt know his wedding band is gone. i am going to give my bands to my sister to melt them down and have rings made for the boys. as far as he is concern he lost it. i dont want anything from him. the only thing i will keep is the birds. cody was in rare form last night she was yelling nad i just sat there and let her do it, and sparrow kept telling her to shut up. he didnt say anything. well it is his own fault up to last week were getting along fine. saturday was it. it was like a punch in the gut. but what good came out of it i know i dont want him. so i fell good now we go forward me and the boys even if he is in the house longer then i expected life goes on. we are having another beautiful day i cant belive we havent used the a/c so far this summer.
raggsies i would love to see the blue angels. hope to talk to everyone later.

hey gval, goodmorning. i slept in because i was up so late last night. glad you are marching to the beat of your own inner drummer!! you are awesome! no air yet? gosh how warm does it get every day? we got more rain yesterday but so far it is clear. rain will probably come late this afternoon. i thought i would be late this a.m. where is everyone this morning. seem like it goes in spurts.

mary ann i hope you are feeling better. i have wanted to call but i am afraid you will be sleeping. you just take care of yourself.

guess i will check out the news and come back later and see who has had time to check in. gval, thats for the forwarded emails, i love them. talk with you later, raggsies

HI RAGGSIES temp has been going up to around 80 degrees and at night it drops i think to 60 but last two days we have a nice cool breeze.

Hi girls!
It's a beautiful, sunny day out here in NY and I have yet to go out and enjoy it! I plan on doing something outdoors w/the kids soon. I think thunderstorms are coming on Thursday though.

Raggs-I'm glad you could get some comfort here. Why do you think we all come here? You can rest assured that you have given me great comfort and peace many times when I needed it and when I didn't know I needed it. We have all said how this site helps us in so many ways. It teaches, comforts and shares good and bad from lovelies all over this land and Australia too! You are open and honest w/your feelings, that is a huge plus. By doing that, you are allowing us to reflect on your situation and remind us of our own experiences and voila', we share and we comfort eachother. It goes both ways, trust me. We all benefit here, when we get here! I remember your telling us of your fathers military background, of course. How lovely that he could watch from his own home! What a treat it must be for him. I didn't know your minor was archeology! How fascinating! We love anything here about ancient times, ruins and digs. It's amazing what can be buried and preserved under ground. Yes, Italy has many treasures to see, that's when we realize how young AMerica is as compared to the rest of the world. Pompeii is found near Naples and the volcano erupted while the town was sleeping and so when they dug it up, they found the ash had left the forms of the people while they are in sleeping positions. The fascinating part is seeing the beautiful artwork in the tiles and architecture that has stood the test of time. Remarkable! Also, she will be visiting Rome which has the famous Coliseum and many other ancient ruins still standing to this day. Italy is full of these wonderful places to visit. Wish I was there.....

Gval-you crack me up w/your cleaning! hee,hee,hee....must be something else to see his face! Now, I am glad that you are taking the jewelry to melt down and make something else. I was afraid you were throwing that out too. I am sooooooooooooooooooooooo happy you are going to PA for vacation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You so deserve this!!!!! Make sure you stick to your plans. Have you set a definite date? Look into the area and see if you can plan a spa day or something fun and relaxing for you to do w/your friend. Me time is so important!!!!! Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

MA-thinking of you and hoping you can feel our hugs!!!!

Auntiep-hope Sarahs doing better. Please keep us updated.

Susie-miss you much!!!! Please know that we think of you all the time. xoxox

hugs to all my friends!!!!!

Hey y'all Its been a busy time here. we're cleaning out the old stuff people had piled in my house. Most of it was burnt. Don't worry we've a firefighter in the family so he knows what he's doing. My nephew the electrician t more or less told me he wasn't helping with the new wiring. We have to figure out what to do there.
My nephew and his cousin is putting in the plumbing, but I am paying them 10 a hour.
Sarah has another bite on her side i am watching it. She may have to go back to the doctor. But I don't know who to take her to. If the nurse practitioner is back from having her baby I'd take Sarah to her. I went to school with her parents. She is really good with Sarah.

Gal WOW NO A/C Is there house next to you. Ours runs around the clock and so does our electric bill. Gal I wouldn't trust him in the home with you gone. Tell him he has to find someplace to stay when you leave. Then change the locks to make sure he does.

Raggs I always loved the blue angels. The younger crowd wouldn't know that they and the flag were the first and last thing on the TV way back when the station shut off at night. I am glad he got to see them.

Nydrama You give such good advise and have a big heart behind it. Thank ya kindly for being there for us. Now I know I ain't been telling ya much about the flowers here sorry. I ain't had time to stop and smell `em let alone look at `em. Today I noticed the Crapemyrtle blooming, picked one big bloom and brought it into mom. I tried to get some of her Rose of Sharon but I couldn't get the darn things to break off. Our Mimosa have already bloomed. They are so fragrant. I love to smell them. I am not sure but I think in Australia they have Crapemyrtles and Mimosa's there also.
(((Do they Auss-gal???)))
Mom keeps yelling at me gotta go. Take care all God bless love auntiep

hi, we are off to see harry potter.today is Daniels birthday. whats weird is I opened my bible to read .I opened it from the bottom.it came open at Daniel & the lions den.and Jesus has save Daniel from drowning 3 different times.amoung other things.oh yeah hes 20.he got 2 tee shirts, 2 movies (used)tennis shoes.he will get to sleep in my bed tonight. his bed is harder than mine. so Im suffering through it.I hope it sets a good example to share.but he does have to earn it.Michelle & joe is coming over to night.Im making him a cake.he is a very good son.but he is human. so that means room is half way good.I get just enough clean space.he collects every thing.but he is adhd,autisic, emotional.

GOOD MORNING EVERYONE.

alfie i would like to wish daniel a very happy birthday!!
i hope he has a wonderful day and the harry potter movie looks good. you can also tell him good people are born in july.

Alfie tell Daniel happy birthday. Sarah's B-day is tomorrow. We won't have the B-day party until my sister comes back from Florida she's making the cake. She is also taking me to see Harry Potter when she gets back. The reason I say B-day is that is the way Sarah says it. Take care all God bless Love auntiep.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SARAH!!!! AUNTIEP GIVE SARAH A HUG AND A KISS FROM ME.
and for everyone else good morning it is suppose to be hot sticky today but i cant conplain so far this summer has been good.
alfie did daniel have a good birthday did he like the movie?
raggsies where are you is everything ok with your dad? and maryanne where have you been? well everything here has been quiet. i stop talking to hubby altogether tired of his lies we have been busy at work so that keeps me busy . well ladies talk to you later.

Good morning all my little bluebirds! I call you all that because you spread so much happiness!

Thanks for all your 'get well' wishes. I'm feeling much better but the danged cough will hang on, I'm sure. Got to push myself to go shopping for an outfit for my nephew's wedding, which is on Aug. 1st. It's coming so fast!

Raggs, I've been following that double murder investigation in Pensacola. It's turning into quite a mystery, isn't it? It was the first story on the news this morning. More and more people seem to be involved. Sad situation.

Haven't had any response to my letter to Susie yet. It must have gotten there by now. I'm praying that's not a bad sign. You all pray, too, please. I know you are.

A belated Happy Birthday to Alfie's Daniel and Happy Birthday today to Auntiep's Sarah.

Auntiep, you said Sarah has another 'bite'. Do you mean from a recluse again? Is she getting bitten inside the house or outdoors? Email me your mail address when you get a chance. I'll send you something that could help the situation.

Roe and Gval, guess you're getting ready to go on your vacations soon. Have a wonderful time! My vacation was in March when I went to CA. We haven't heard from Aussie for a while. She may be on her vacation now. She mentioned something about one recently.

NY, as usual, your posts are so uplifting. Hope you're getting some 'me time', yourself. Your daughter's trip sounds great. My friend's son just got back from a 10-day trip to Italy with his Latin Class. He had a wonderful time. Can't wait to see all his photos.

Oooh, just had a nice phone call from Raggs. It was so good chatting with you, sweetie.

Well, I'd better finish this off before I lose it. Have a great day, gals.

Love, M.A.

hi everyone, i missed everyone yesterday. gary and i were traveling all around the countryside going to our different doc appointments. between the 2 of us we had 21 perscrptions!! it was renewals and some new ones for both of us. hate to see that pharmacy bill later on tonight. even with our copays that is going to be a big one.

maryann it was nice to hear your voice this morning and i am so glad you are feeling better. keep your errands to a bare minimum as you recover. pray baout the dress, i believe HE will guide you to where to look so you don;t run yourself crazy.

i just phoned susie's number agin and it went straight to voice mail which is strange. it usually rings for a while and then goes to voice mail. keep her and her family in your prayers. i believe they need them right now. god in heaven please lift susie up into your angels arms and keep her safe and at peace. amen

okay, so how is everyone doing? by the way you NJ and NY gals did yall see the video or picture of that huge 25 ft shark. OMGoodness! he was huge? i think he could have swallowed a whole boat if he wanted too. that was amazing. i hope they run test on him and find out some hidden secrets about his type. he was a big stud!!!

the update on the pensacola murders of the billings couple, they now have 8 arrest in the case. this gets stranger by the minute. appears that they are all talking and pointing fingers at each other.they still think they have a few more to arrest. today is their funeral and i feel so bad for all the kids. i am sure that wear tv.com will have it on the computer. god bless that whole family today.

gval, not talking at all? something big must have happened or was it that you just had enough? i don;t know how you keep your composure. what he is doing is mentally verbally abusive. by thelling you and the family that the marriage is over and then staying, like a stalker. to know that you are going to be abandoned suddenly is torture. i remember the day my ex announced he was "disbaining" our family. it is horrible to feel that emotion. hang in there sister soilder. we are marching with you!!!

well, yall check in, mary ann is suppose to post this morning. talk to yall later.
love, raggsies

let me chime in with birthday wishes for our two very special gh pal mascots!!!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANIEL!!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SARAH!!!!!


both of you are very special to all of us. did yall know that someone says a prayer for both of you each night that god and his angels watch over you as you sleep and play? well i do pray for yall and i always will for the rest of y life!!! love to you both!!!!

maryann, yes the p'cola news is so devasting. on these two websites you can get all the local news on it

Pensacola News Journal.com

WEAR TV.com

they have the most up to date news. i am so proud of the escambia county sherriffs department, their chief of command, and all that are involved in solving this horrible crime.

roe, we are all saying prayers for good results at the doctors appointment for michael. good results mean no problems or there is a cure for the problem. he will be safe either way!!

aussie has been posting on the other site, i will give her a yoo hoo today when i go over there. mostly everyone is new on the site. still a few of the old regulars. on the most part they seem ok, sometimes they get layed astray with the bickering but nothing like it use to be.

i got to check my email, and i will be back at lunch time. have fun today, even if you are at work. tell someone a really good joke!!

hi maryanne and raggsies glad to see you on today.
does anyone know the motive for the murders. was any of thier children involve.
raggsies i just had enough of hubby i am not playing his games , he wanted everything easy until he moved out or what ever he was doing but it is not happening. i dont talk to him i wont sit at the table and eat with him. i am not figthing with him, i just cant be botherd with it any more it got old. its going on three months since he said he needed time and he was moving out well it is time for him to go. i even took him out of my cell phone. and once he is gone i never have to talk to him again. i told him either to txt me or email me.

Hi girls!
Yesterday was a gorgeous day here in NY and so my sisters and I took our boys to my moms house and they all went in the pool. Had a great time. Watered my moms gardens and picked some arugula to make a salad. When I went to water the veggie garden, I was shocked to find one red ripe cherry tomato!!! I couldn't believe it. They're never ripe at this time. So I put that itty bitty thing in the salad too! I spoke to my daughter on the phone for over an hour and a half trying to cheer her up! Ladies, she has got to be nearing her "special time" (hee,hee,hee...) cuz her moods are crazy! Anyway, I told her she'll be talking to daddy when we call back if she continues her lamenting! I rec'd an email from her later and she said she would try to do all the things I told her to do! Hope she means it! She is my toughest customer!

Happy b'day to Daniel and Sarah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My sons b'day was on the 10th and my little sissy on the 9th. My girlfriend's b'day is this weekend so we are getting together. She's left me in charge of planning.... Wait till she sees the nasty card I got her!!!! It's my job to always make her laugh.

MA-glad to have you back! Those nasty coughs can linger and linger.... Keep drinking your fluids, that will really help.

Auntiep-I don't think I've ever seen or smelled Mimosas. Waht do they smell like? If you can describe it. All of June we had rain her in NY. When I came back from vacation, all my flowers looked so dreary. Now that we've had a few days of sun, what a difference! My petunias are full a vibrant. My moms hydrangea are gorgeous-such beautiful shades of plum and magenta and blues. You know something crazy? Every time I plant a plant like hydrangea or azalea, my crazy hubby goes whacking everything w/the weed whacker, once in a blue moon, and sure enough, he whacks those bushes too! I have one hydrangea that survied, wonder if I'll see those blooms. I've made sure to point them out now. My marigolds always look good. They are starting to fill in nicely. They are one of the few flowers that the deer don't eat. So I plant more of those than anything else ,now that I've learned. I plant impatients in the shade, but have to sprinkle cinnamon on them when it looks like the deer are munching on them too. It works! Hope Sarah's feeling better. I'm thinking you should get her a new doctor, if that's possible. Change can be good. My cousin was having difficulty w/her chest, breathing, coughing etc and her doctor kept prescribing all different meds, but nothing really worked. I told her I didn't like the sound of that and she should consider trying a different doctor. She did and now she was officially diagnosed w/asthma and on the proper meds and feeling much better. So, sometimes, we need to weigh our options and see what works, what doesn't work and what changes can be made to help. Sometimes a new person will see something that the other one never thought of. Just a thought.

Gval-hmmmmm.....I agree w/Raggs. Must not be too easy for you to live under those conditions. Please take care and do what feels right. Ignoring him and not speaking w/him must trigger all kinds of negativity w/i you. That cannot be good for you and not a healthy way to live. All this bitterness and having to see him living in your home after everything he's said and done doesn't make it easier. He's not giving you any firm answers and basically that leaves you guys in the lurch, waiting for the other shoe to drop. Maybe you should ck w/people who could help you in trying to figure out what you should do about this. I don't think you should be living under these conditions.You and the boys have been through so much and continuing in this manner is allowing you to move forward. I just want to make sure you have all your bases covered and are taking care of what's necessary for you and the boys. Do you know anyone or someone else who knows someone in family counseling or law who could advise you? It just helps when you know your rights and what's to be expected. Just a thought. I just hate that you have to suffer like this. When he's around, for now, you definitely have to do something that keeps your mind focused on positive things. You know what makes you feel good, laugh or get distracted. Don't make yourself sink into that deep, dark hole. Ok?

Alfie-what kind of cake did you make for Daniel? I always take the easy way w/the son w/the July b'day- we always get Carvel icecream cake! Yum! He likes all vanilla w/crunchies, just like my sister so they are both happy w/their cake!

hugs to everyone!!!!