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GH Pals Chatting Place
Started by jcrobinson at 2008/01/19 11:35AMLatest post: 2009/11/20 01:00PM, Views: 175818, Replies: 16795
alfie1 |
Quote NYDrama: Hi Ladies, Raggs-I am so shaken and don't even know how to begin. Your story has left me in a state that I haven't felt before. I am crying for you, my friend. I am so sorry that you had to endure such horrors. I just wish I could hug you right now! Why do things like this happen? It angers me to no end! I hate that men can be so evil, cruel and heartless. You definitely have proven, without a shadow of a doubt, that you are one very, very strong person. The courage and strength you needed to go thru such a thing and then your ex throwing that crap? Bless you, bless you, bless you! Thank God for your wonderful family, and your loving father. You are a very special woman, and obviously God wanted to keep you here so you can spread your wisdom. Faith and forgiveness are 2 things that many of us question. You have come so far and healing is still going on. Thank you for sharing w/us. It must be a difficult story to tell. How are your kids? I pray God continues to bless all of you and that each day seems brighter and full of hope. May you always be surrounded by beauty. I need to re-group, but I will come back later. hugs to all I agree thats alot to deal with.Im so sorry!no one should have to think about living through that. Im so glade your with us, and we love you.has your ex. ever said that hes sorry?and begged for your forgiveness. he should have been more wanting to kill the person. that even that about hurting you. |
gval25 |
alfie men are a different breed all together. they are mostly self centered and always worry what they want. but the funny thing is as mothers we bring them up so what are we doing wrong to make a male so self centered. |
auntiep |
Hey ya'll. Raggs words can't desribe how I feel now. (*) Consider that a big hug from me. Some Man can be worse then animals. They have a soul and it can be filled with light or darkness. The man that attacked you was all darkness. I pray to God he is not doing that to anyone else. |
raggsies |
Quote alfie1: hi alfie, yes my ex asked me to forgive him 6 years after we divorced. i forgave him already about 3 years before. i knew it would take him time to realzie that what all he did and what all he said was terribly hurtful to me and the kids. he has apologized to them too although i don't think chad has fully forgiven him. chad realizes more and more how much his father abandonded him too. now, if ralph could forgive himself then maybe he would die a peaceful man. i pray that he does because i do not want him to suffer anymore. there is no point to it. he drinks his sorrow away. in my mind it is more important that the OFFENDER forgive themself. then the forgiveness is full circle. remember that and the anger does go away.
Quote NYDrama: Hi Ladies, Raggs-I am so shaken and don't even know how to begin. Your story has left me in a state that I haven't felt before. I am crying for you, my friend. I am so sorry that you had to endure such horrors. I just wish I could hug you right now! Why do things like this happen? It angers me to no end! I hate that men can be so evil, cruel and heartless. You definitely have proven, without a shadow of a doubt, that you are one very, very strong person. The courage and strength you needed to go thru such a thing and then your ex throwing that crap? Bless you, bless you, bless you! Thank God for your wonderful family, and your loving father. You are a very special woman, and obviously God wanted to keep you here so you can spread your wisdom. Faith and forgiveness are 2 things that many of us question. You have come so far and healing is still going on. Thank you for sharing w/us. It must be a difficult story to tell. How are your kids? I pray God continues to bless all of you and that each day seems brighter and full of hope. May you always be surrounded by beauty. I need to re-group, but I will come back later. hugs to all I agree thats alot to deal with.Im so sorry!no one should have to think about living through that. Im so glade your with us, and we love you.has your ex. ever said that hes sorry?and begged for your forgiveness. he should have been more wanting to kill the person. that even that about hurting you. |
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raggsies |
Quote auntiep: Hey ya'll. Raggs words can't desribe how I feel now. (*) Consider that a big hug from me. Some Man can be worse then animals. They have a soul and it can be filled with light or darkness. The man that attacked you was all darkness. I pray to God he is not doing that to anyone else. auntiep thanks for the hug. yes, terrible experiences will help you get through worse ones. you can hide from the fear all your life but then you would be miserable. i am not saying it was all peaches and cream but everyday i had to decide to live and be productive and not waller in the pity and shame and anger. my only real true fear i have ever had was that i would lose one of my children, husband, or my parents and siblings. i am experiencing this process with my dad now and i thought i never would have the strength to do it. remember me posting about how i knew i wouldn't be able to deal with one of their's death? then suddenly it was in my lap. i could have ran and hid from it but instead i am determined to turn it into a wonderful time for my dad and i. my mother will be able to count on me and rest easier. i will hold up because i have gary and my children and i have yall. it is and will be sad but it will not destroy me. roe's experience when she lost dee helped prepare me some too. i learn from everyone and i hope and pray to god that others learn from me. Now your ex (AAAARGGHHHHH) That's me pulling my hair. Thank God you have a man now that is very special. You lived through Jobe's live now as he was rewarded in the end so are you. God loves ya girl and so do we. You are a very strong in your faith. It has carried you through many terrible times. It will carry you through what's ahead. God bless and take care my friend. Love auntiep MARYANN where are ya gal, off riding in that newly fixed car like it is a convertible and you are chasing james dean around!?!?!? i took a nice nap and meghan snuck into the cheeto's chips and marshmellows and ate them all. when lisa picked her up i said thank god because i knew that the sugar would be hitting her soon. one of lis's test showed that she had multiple cysts on her one remaining ovary and she will have to have surgery. "she" said the doctor told her she had gangrene but she did not give her any perscriptions and she won't be able to have surgery through the va for about 3 months. i figured lisa wanted some "mothering" by that statement so i did give her alot of attention but it was hard to keep a straight face. she went for a mamogram so i don't know how the obgyn came into play. sometimes she is like a child stumbling to make up a story as she goes but bottom line she needs needs some attention. i don't mind listening to her because they keep me smiling later in the day. yall all have a great evening. i will be on my own tomorrow. crystal and the kids got to aunt ruby's around 1:30pm so they arrived ok. crystal had an incident with a male steward and she complained to continental and so did another passenger that came up on his own to complain on how he talked to crystal. she now has 2 free roundtrip tickets to fly anwhere in the us. she says she doubts she flies with them anywhere. she just needs to calm down. talke with yaoll in the morning. love raggs |
cjsmom926 |
SO, here I was feeling a little sorry for myself--last weekend CJ would have graduated from HS and Adam the 8th grade)-when I buzzed on to the pals site to check and see how everyone was and I read Raggsies story. OMG I am sitting at my desk with tears streaming down my cheeks. That someone (2 someones actually) could treat another human being so horrifically is beyond my comprehension. And now I know what has made Raggs so strong and wise and compassionate. I am so happy that your dad was there for you and obviously always has been. Go and enjoy the rest of the time you have with him. And Raggs, always know that you are loved by all of us! When I need an extra scoop of strength, I will think of you! |
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raggsies |
Quote cjsmom926: SO, here I was feeling a little sorry for myself--last weekend CJ would have graduated from HS and Adam the 8th grade)-when I buzzed on to the pals site to check and see how everyone was and I read Raggsies story. OMG I am sitting at my desk with tears streaming down my cheeks. That someone (2 someones actually) could treat another human being so horrifically is beyond my comprehension. And now I know what has made Raggs so strong and wise and compassionate. I am so happy that your dad was there for you and obviously always has been. Go and enjoy the rest of the time you have with him. And Raggs, always know that you are loved by all of us! When I need an extra scoop of strength, I will think of you! hi sweetie! good to see you post. i know you miss cj and adam so much. my heart breaks for you there. YOU give us strength. all of our "lives stories" are so important to each of us as a group and individually. it just amazes me that we as women can endure so much! yet, we grow stronger and move forward. i always believe that god gave us our tender "mommy" hearts to kinda cushion the impact of dealing with horrible things. sounds strange but it is true. if men had to endure some of the degrading things that women have had to do they would not survive i believe. i never want to lose my tenderness i have in my heart no matter what i am going through. it enables me to forgive and move forward. cjs you have endured so much. i know the "reminders" are so difficult. just embrace the memories and be thankful that you have them. wrap your arms around yourself and give "them" the biggest hug. they will always hug you back. next time you feel sad and lonely picture me, friend, holding your hand, walking forward out of the forest. WE can always make it and walk into the sunshine arm in arm. hugs from me to you sweetie! love, raggsies
xoxox cjsmom cjsmom |
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raggsies |
Quote cjsmom926: SO, here I was feeling a little sorry for myself--last weekend CJ would have graduated from HS and Adam the 8th grade)-when I buzzed on to the pals site to check and see how everyone was and I read Raggsies story. OMG I am sitting at my desk with tears streaming down my cheeks. That someone (2 someones actually) could treat another human being so horrifically is beyond my comprehension. And now I know what has made Raggs so strong and wise and compassionate. I am so happy that your dad was there for you and obviously always has been. Go and enjoy the rest of the time you have with him. And Raggs, always know that you are loved by all of us! When I need an extra scoop of strength, I will think of you! hi sweetie! good to see you post. i know you miss cj and adam so much. my heart breaks for you there. YOU give us strength. all of our "lives stories" are so important to each of us as a group and individually. it just amazes me that we as women can endure so much! yet, we grow stronger and move forward. i always believe that god gave us our tender "mommy" hearts to kinda cushion the impact of dealing with horrible things. sounds strange but it is true. if men had to endure some of the degrading things that women have had to do they would not survive i believe. i never want to lose my tenderness i have in my heart no matter what i am going through. it enables me to forgive and move forward. cjs you have endured so much. i know the "reminders" are so difficult. just embrace the memories and be thankful that you have them. wrap your arms around yourself and give "them" the biggest hug. they will always hug you back. next time you feel sad and lonely picture me, friend, holding your hand, walking forward out of the forest. WE can always make it and walk into the sunshine arm in arm. hugs from me to you sweetie! love, raggsies
xoxox cjsmom cjsmom |
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raggsies |
sorry about the double post gals. my finger jumped and popped right down again on the button! |
MaryAnn42 |
Well, there is only one way to respond to all of this and that is with a prayer. Gals, please join me. |
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gval25 |
GOOD MORNING LADIES. i hope everyone woke up to a wonderful day. its sunny and hot today. tonight i go for a hair cut and and a dye job and i need it. |
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raggsies |
goodmorning mary ann and gvalie. mary ann what a wonderful prayer, thank you and thank you amen!!!!i hope all of you feel the closeness to each of you and me in return. bless yall. see, we can talk about anything on this site. all our sharing stories are for a reason.now, i feel a great big huge relief. i do have some down days occasiontally, i have Post traumatic stress and i take medicine for that. some days i have flashes alot. but they are fewer and far between. i use to feel very alone when that happened but now i know that yall will be able to understand and help me through those days. i started something new this year kinda like playing a trick on my mind. the attack lasted 1 hour and 20 minutes so i give myself that same amount of time to get out of my funk. (they knew this from the radio alarm clock that broke) i just tell myself that these flashes will last no more than that time period and then i try to keep moving around. i turned that one hour and twenty minutes into a strengthening aide to me. during that time i also do something i really like and i watch the clock. it usually takes the flashes away in about 30 minutes!!! please don't upset yourself and cry maryann. i love you honey. |
NYDrama |
Hi girls! |
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auntiep |
(AMEN) Maryann thank you for the prayer. I think it was what we all needed. |
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gval25 |
HI LADIES |
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