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Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License

Started by OspreyGirl at 2009/10/15 03:35PM
Latest post: 2009/11/03 04:13PM, Views: 386, Replies: 40
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#1   2009/10/15 03:35PM
Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
OspreyGirl
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Yes...it happened in this day and age. Does a judge have the right to deny signing a marriage license for an interracial couple based on his own personal convictions?

IMO...HE!! NO! He has no right denying any couple the right to marry...I don't care if the groom is fuschia and the bride is lemon merangue!

What a racist creep! And many wonder and criticize why we need to have civil rights laws on the books...


http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091015/ap_on_re_us/us_interracial_rebuff


He actually referred to them having kids as "race mixing." And this guy is a judge? WOW! It seems society will let any fool these days on a bench.

#2   2009/10/15 03:38PM
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SassyFrass
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WOW! Just goes to show that even the highly-educated are really just stupid!!!

This is so sad.

#3   2009/10/15 04:12PM
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baileysmommy
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Quote OspreyGirl: Yes...it happened in this day and age. Does a judge have the right to deny signing a marriage license for an interracial couple based on his own personal convictions?

IMO...HE!! NO! He has no right denying any couple the right to marry...I don't care if the groom is fuschia and the bride is lemon merangue!

What a racist creep! And many wonder and criticize why we need to have civil rights laws on the books...


news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091015/ap_on_re_us/us_interracial_rebuff


He actually referred to them having kids as "race mixing." And this guy is a judge? WOW! It seems society will let any fool these days on a bench.


Oh course he has no right to do this! The Supreme Court ruled on this in 1959 in a case called "Loving v Virginia"!

#4   2009/10/15 04:28PM
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bigtimesoapfan
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where do you find this stuff? I think it sounds ridiculous and there must be more behind it! I know all I did when I wanted to get married was go to the town hall asked for a form and filled it out. There was no judge involved. We were in/out in less than 5 min. if I remeber correctly. so something here imo just doesn't sound right imo

#5   2009/10/15 04:38PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
baileysmommy
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Quote bigtimesoapfan: where do you find this stuff? I think it sounds ridiculous and there must be more behind it! I know all I did when I wanted to get married was go to the town hall asked for a form and filled it out. There was no judge involved. We were in/out in less than 5 min. if I remeber correctly. so something here imo just doesn't sound right imo


Ospreygirl, provided a link. It's orginally from the Associated Press. Here's the openin few sentences:
NEW ORLEANS – A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."

I think the fact that the judge cited he allows Black people to use his bathrtoom says it all!!!!!

#6   2009/10/15 04:45PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
bigtimesoapfan
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Well then he's an ediot what can I say! I thoght you meant obtaining the liscense! And either way they should go to someone else and tell anyone who will listen what a flake the other guy is! If they want to get married bad though Im sure they'll find away!! Thats all thats needed imo. I know where I live Justices of the peace area dime a dozen! They perform marraiges on the side to make extra cash, so if he doesn't want to marry them Oh well his loss!! someone else can make the $$ I know mine cost $100(and I was married in my familys home)

#7   2009/10/15 04:48PM
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clicquot1
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Quote baileysmommy:
Quote bigtimesoapfan: where do you find this stuff? I think it sounds ridiculous and there must be more behind it! I know all I did when I wanted to get married was go to the town hall asked for a form and filled it out. There was no judge involved. We were in/out in less than 5 min. if I remeber correctly. so something here imo just doesn't sound right imo


Ospreygirl, provided a link. It's orginally from the Associated Press. Here's the openin few sentences:
NEW ORLEANS – A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."

I think the fact that the judge cited he allows Black people to use his bathrtoom says it all!!!!!

Ok, does this judge even know that CAJUNS are a mix oif Caucasian, African, Carribean, Canadian, and French just to name a few. my sister is married to a Cajun man and they have been married over 30 years. As has everyone in his family. Most Cajuns are Catholic and have longggggggggg marriages. Where did this man get his information. I hope this couple "sues" the judge and it goes all the way to the SUPREME COURT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#8   2009/10/15 04:48PM
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puddycat
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Well - - I read the link and this is far too funny for me to even indulge in. The justice of peace didn't refuse to marry them, just said HE wouldn't do it. More stupidity. I don't even call it racisim anymore - - just pure stupidity and just goes to show there are still Neanderthals living.

#9   2009/10/15 04:50PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
clicquot1
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Quote puddycat: Well - - I read the link and this is far too funny for me to even indulge in. The justice of peace didn't refuse to marry them, just said HE wouldn't do it. More stupidity. I don't even call it racisim anymore - - just pure stupidity and just goes to show there are still Neanderthals living.

Well said, and thank you for the clarification...............................................

#10   2009/10/15 05:13PM
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OspreyGirl
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So does he think Barack was a mistake too? This judge was trying to spare "any kids from this couple's union" from having a tough time in life...

Last time I checked, it takes two to make a baby. Not two plus a judge's signature. The baby is not going to demand before he comes out, asking for his parents' marriage license or pictures of the wedding...so what gives?

Oh, yes, I remember...he lets black people use his bathroom...I wonder if they are allowed to use his drinking fountain too!

#11   2009/10/15 05:15PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
clicquot1
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Quote OspreyGirl: So does he think Barack was a mistake too? This judge was trying to spare "any kids from this couple's union" from having a tough time in life...

Last time I checked, it takes two to make a baby. Not two plus a judge's signature. The baby is not going to demand before he comes out, asking for his parents' marriage license or pictures of the wedding...so what gives?

Oh, yes, I remember...he lets black people use his bathroom...I wonder if they are allowed to use his drinking fountain too!

HEY, OSPREY! Do you "really" care what someone like that thinks? Most of us DON'T and just walk away from that. I really have BETTER things to do.........................................................

#12   2009/10/15 05:34PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
bigtimesoapfan
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Quote clicquot1:
Quote OspreyGirl: So does he think Barack was a mistake too? This judge was trying to spare "any kids from this couple's union" from having a tough time in life...

Last time I checked, it takes two to make a baby. Not two plus a judge's signature. The baby is not going to demand before he comes out, asking for his parents' marriage license or pictures of the wedding...so what gives?

Oh, yes, I remember...he lets black people use his bathroom...I wonder if they are allowed to use his drinking fountain too!

HEY, OSPREY! Do you "really" care what someone like that thinks? Most of us DON'T and just walk away from that. I really have BETTER things to do.........................................................


I know I do!

#13   2009/10/15 05:39PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
OspreyGirl
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Quote clicquot1:
Quote OspreyGirl: So does he think Barack was a mistake too? This judge was trying to spare "any kids from this couple's union" from having a tough time in life...

Last time I checked, it takes two to make a baby. Not two plus a judge's signature. The baby is not going to demand before he comes out, asking for his parents' marriage license or pictures of the wedding...so what gives?

Oh, yes, I remember...he lets black people use his bathroom...I wonder if they are allowed to use his drinking fountain too!

HEY, OSPREY! Do you "really" care what someone like that thinks? Most of us DON'T and just walk away from that. I really have BETTER things to do.........................................................


Yes, I do care that there are people in positions of power who should be protecting the rights of citizens, namely apply for a marriage license, but sit on his racist a@@ and pronounce he has nothing against black people, but won't sign a license to let one marry someone non-black.

If you can't handle requests like that, step down from the bench. I wouldn't expect a doctor who is pro-life to be forced to give abortions. If it bothers him that much, then don't be in the position to dash someone else's desire just because you don't "think it's right."

It's unjust and I don't sleep on fools like this--they've been excused for too long and swatted away as ignorant hicks, but as we've seen the 400% increase in racist hate towards the president, the astronomical rise in gun purchases by idiots anticipating a "race war" etc, this judge's ignorance should not be anywhere near a court of law nor does he deserve to hold any title of honor. He cannot be impartial and uphold civil rights equally for any citizen, and I hope the Justice Dept comes down on him hard...

WHEW! That felt good...lol

#14   2009/10/15 05:39PM
Re: Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License
bigtimesoapfan
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Quote baileysmommy:
Quote bigtimesoapfan: where do you find this stuff? I think it sounds ridiculous and there must be more behind it! I know all I did when I wanted to get married was go to the town hall asked for a form and filled it out. There was no judge involved. We were in/out in less than 5 min. if I remeber correctly. so something here imo just doesn't sound right imo


Ospreygirl, provided a link. It's orginally from the Associated Press. Here's the openin few sentences:
NEW ORLEANS – A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."

I think the fact that the judge cited he allows Black people to use his bathrtoom says it all!!!!!


You know the old saying "open mouth insert foot"? I think it applies her! We've all said things with out thinking it out and it comes out badly! I don't think he meant it as bad as it sounds. imo I bet this is an older man and maybe in his experience he is right. imo I think all Religious our Judical officials who preform marriage ceremonys should make engaged couples take more time maybe jumop thru some hoops before marrying them! aybe it'd cut down on the divorce rate!

#15   2009/10/15 05:42PM
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baileysmommy
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Quote bigtimesoapfan:
Quote baileysmommy:
Quote bigtimesoapfan: where do you find this stuff? I think it sounds ridiculous and there must be more behind it! I know all I did when I wanted to get married was go to the town hall asked for a form and filled it out. There was no judge involved. We were in/out in less than 5 min. if I remeber correctly. so something here imo just doesn't sound right imo


Ospreygirl, provided a link. It's orginally from the Associated Press. Here's the openin few sentences:
NEW ORLEANS – A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."

I think the fact that the judge cited he allows Black people to use his bathrtoom says it all!!!!!


You know the old saying "open mouth insert foot"? I think it applies her! We've all said things with out thinking it out and it comes out badly! I don't think he meant it as bad as it sounds. imo I bet this is an older man and maybe in his experience he is right. imo I think all Religious our Judical officials who preform marriage ceremonys should make engaged couples take more time maybe jumop thru some hoops before marrying them! aybe it'd cut down on the divorce rate!


His decision had nothing to do with giving more thought to a life-time commitment...it had to do with him not wanting to marry two people who were from different races!
BTW, there really is no such thing as race since it has been proven that all humanbeings share the same DNA!!

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