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A friend of mine was going to set me up with her cousin. She& I have been talking to him for about 3 weeks(she married, but her husband knew what we were doing). When he was talking to her at one point he asked a question that she didn't answer because she didn't feel it was any of his business. She also didn't answer because she didn't feel it was her place. I don't know if can put the question on here without getting in trouble. Can I(it's about sex)? He also told me that he loved me&that I was his girlfriend. I've never told him that that he was my boyfriend or that I loved him. I said we could be friends, but nothing else right now. Tonight he told me and his cousin that he was in the process of getting a divorce. We didn't even know he was married(she hadn't saw him in a while, so she didn't know either). He told me that it was none of my business that he was getting a divorce. He said he didn't want everybody to know his business. But, wouldn't you think that if you told a girl that you loved her and she was your girlfriend that she would have a right to know. Had I known he was married(they have been separated for 3 years, but are just getting a divorce). He told me and his cousin that she should have been the one to tell me he was married. How was she supposed to tell me if she didn't know herself. She had also told me everything else that she knew, but she didn't know this&neither did her mother. Also, I found out that he couldn't have children(his cousin my friend told me that a few days ago. He also told us that he couldn't get his license, but he can. He also said that he wanted me to wait for him for 5 months when he can come to see me. He only lives(right now)about 100 miles from me. I'm 29&tired of being single, but should I wait on this guy or move on? I don't think I can(or want to)wait on him because he has already lied to me so many times. Any opinions? What should I do?

Tell him that you are in the process of a sex change. See how fast he runs - - and see how he likes being deceived!

This guys sounds like a complete loser. He is not the best option you can consider in a man so please leave his sorry a@@ alone.

i agree leave him in the your dust... just be careful sounds like this guy can be the stalking kind.

i know how you feel. you will meet the right guy when it is time. you will know it. promise... i did not meet my soulmate intil i was 28.

If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer. He's not on the up and up and you can expect more of the same if you get further involved. Spend your time hooking up with a more worthy guy.

I wouldn't be surprised if he wasn't married and just trying to put you off. Strange his aunt didn't know! I am afraid he spells trouble for you and you need to make a complete and firm break.

That this from a good guy me and i say ditch him now or regret it forever. You do not need a guy like that he will always break your heart so honey you need to get rid of his sorry azz.

Listen to your gut- it is trying to guide you- you just need to listen to it-

Reverse the situation and pretend that a friend or loved one just told you this very story....What would you say?