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Quote baileysmommy: there is not much here in this rural area. i have told her that i could find a place to hide her and the kids many of times... she needs to leave him/ better yet, make him leave. Quote dcorn: he is a worthless, drunk, he better of not touched her. i bet he did, right in front of their 4 boys.... i wish they would tell me what is going on. i am so worried Would she be willing to leave him? Are there domestic violence organizations in your area? Would she be willing to stay at a safehouse? If he is beating her...she needs to get out. Especially if it is happening in front of her children. The majority of abusers witnessed their fathers abusing their mothers. I feel for you and hope I am not being to pushy, but she needs someone to help her right now. Good Luck! he is only that way when he drunk. anymore that is everyday. |
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Quote baileysmommy: Quote dcorn: he is a worthless, drunk, he better of not touched her. i bet he did, right in front of their 4 boys.... i wish they would tell me what is going on. i am so worried Would she be willing to leave him? Are there domestic violence organizations in your area? Would she be willing to stay at a safehouse? If he is beating her...she needs to get out. Especially if it is happening in front of her children. The majority of abusers witnessed their fathers abusing their mothers. I feel for you and hope I am not being to pushy, but she needs someone to help her right now. Good Luck! exactly. Spend the time being productive instead of worrying. Find a number for a domestic abuse shelter. You can give it to her and present your case for why she should go. Google battered women syndrome so you know some facts that you can actually give her. prepare yourself to be a shoulder and a source of strength. I know you are religious....pray, arm yourself with knowledge and prepare. |
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they are my -n-laws Raving... they are hubby;s brother and his wife. she might as well be my sister though... |
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Quote baileysmommy: Quote dcorn: he is a worthless, drunk, he better of not touched her. i bet he did, right in front of their 4 boys.... i wish they would tell me what is going on. i am so worried Would she be willing to leave him? Are there domestic violence organizations in your area? Would she be willing to stay at a safehouse? If he is beating her...she needs to get out. Especially if it is happening in front of her children. The majority of abusers witnessed their fathers abusing their mothers. I feel for you and hope I am not being to pushy, but she needs someone to help her right now. Good Luck! Just relax and let us know that everything is okay and i hope it will be |
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Quote dcorn: That is pretty hard to hear. I guess all you can do is hope that your sister in law is ok, and maybe she will either leave him, or they can go to councelling together. I know you must feel so helpless to sit and wait, but try to do the best you can. Hopeful that a** had the decency to not let their children see that, that would be tramatic and painful. Is this the first time it has happened?
Quote raving: he hits her. i am trying.... Quote dcorn: he is a worthless, drunk, he better of not touched her. i bet he did, right in front of their 4 boys.... i wish they would tell me what is going on. i am so worried d, hang in there.....he will tell you when he knows everything...he may be helping, and just be focused on that. youll know when he can tell you. I hope and pray that your sister and her children are ok....think positively! i know that hubby is trying to calm down his brother.... hopefully hubby is fine, worried that he might of punched his brother |
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Quote shirley 2: Quote baileysmommy: Quote dcorn: he is a worthless, drunk, he better of not touched her. i bet he did, right in front of their 4 boys.... i wish they would tell me what is going on. i am so worried Would she be willing to leave him? Are there domestic violence organizations in your area? Would she be willing to stay at a safehouse? If he is beating her...she needs to get out. Especially if it is happening in front of her children. The majority of abusers witnessed their fathers abusing their mothers. I feel for you and hope I am not being to pushy, but she needs someone to help her right now. Good Luck! Just relax and let us know that everything is okay and i hope it will be i will Monty.. i am so trying to relax... having a hard time though. wish they would send the boys up here to me....... |
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i gotta go now, hubby is back... i will update you in the morn. |
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Quote dcorn: they are my -n-laws Raving... they are hubby;s brother and his wife. she might as well be my sister though... oh ok....well I sure hope your hubs gets back to you soon....listen to bailey and plot....google what they said and make sure there isnt something close enough to you....but even if it is far away...that would be a good thing...dont write it off just yet...they are 100% right on this stuff |
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Quote dcorn: i gotta go now, hubby is back... i will update you in the morn. We're with you d...best! |
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Quote dcorn: Try to stay strong for yourself, and those boys and your sister in law. Relax and think positive that will really help.
Quote shirley 2: Quote baileysmommy: Quote dcorn: he is a worthless, drunk, he better of not touched her. i bet he did, right in front of their 4 boys.... i wish they would tell me what is going on. i am so worried Would she be willing to leave him? Are there domestic violence organizations in your area? Would she be willing to stay at a safehouse? If he is beating her...she needs to get out. Especially if it is happening in front of her children. The majority of abusers witnessed their fathers abusing their mothers. I feel for you and hope I am not being to pushy, but she needs someone to help her right now. Good Luck! Just relax and let us know that everything is okay and i hope it will be i will Monty.. i am so trying to relax... having a hard time though. wish they would send the boys up here to me....... |
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Okay d, get back to us in the morning, if you can, but in the meantime, main priority for you now is to relax and be there for your husband, because he probably needs you also. |
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d~kin ya git sumone ta beat his azzzz? cuz it sounds like its time~~gurl, thank gawd they have you~~ |
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Hey I hope all will be ok I'll say a prayer for you and your family remember feel free to email me if you need to talk. |
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DCORN... hon, i just saw your post this morning.... I hope your sister in law is ok... they need to take his butt to jail.... I know it will be hard, but she needs to do what's best for her and the children.... |
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well, last night, he went to jail. my sister-n-law hand was swelled up from him. i am not sure what he did to her hand. |
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