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I used to log on this site as "AuntKeedlee4evr". I don't anymore b/c I forgot my login. But I'm back under new name.

Well some of you I have had conversations on different boards in the past. There was a board that i was on that spoke on conception, plans of conception, trying to conceive and pregnancy updates. I was on that board as one who was "trying to conceive". Well, my hubby and I did conceive and I found out that I was pregnant on February 14,2009. I made it to 12wks of pregnancy when I lost my precious baby. (March 30, 2009) This was a horrible time for my hubby and me...We were so excited about bringing this wonderful little person into the world!! There is more to my story, I will wait to see if anyone else posts before I go there!

Blessings to all of the ANGEL BABY MOTHERS out there!!!

Hi there. I'm Penny and I share your pain. Last year my Husband and I also lost a baby at 15 weeks. We didn't know I was pregnant until I was miscarrying because taking pregnancy tests don't always work for me because of hormonal issues. I was diagnosed with PCOS or Polycystic Ovary Syndrome and haven't been able to get pregnant since. August 20th (Which is my birthday) this year will mark one year since we lost our angel. I am still coming to terms with it. It's hard to do.

Yes, it is very hard to deal with after it happens. I lost my baby in March of 2009. I actually had a D&C b/c the previous week I was having contractions..this being my 1st pregnancy, I didn't know that I was...I went in on that Friday and Dr. told me everything was fine and that I was having Ligament Stretching...he didn't do an unltrasound, just a quick pelvic exam. Sunday, I started spotting...I went in on Monday...had an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. That was the worst feeling I could possibly have. The Dr asked me if I needed a few days to figure out if I wanted to pass the baby naturally or have a D&C. I asked what the D&C was and opted for that. I had it done on the next day. I felt that if I had naturally passed my baby and saw it, I would have died right along with her.

The Dr had chromosomal testing done on my baby's tissue and concluded that the miscarriage was natural and that the baby was a girl...we named her Mia Leigh!!

I am soo sorry to all of you that lost your babies. I have not experienced that, but my mother did...she lost 5. My Father blessed them all and named them Mary after the Blesssed Mother.

My heart goes out to you all and anyone who may have experienced this.

I love that you refer to your children as Angels. That to me seems so appropriate!

I did not know I lost my baby for 3 weeks - the doctor did not know why it did not pass naturally. We found out three weeks late when I spotted, just once. The ultrasound is what showed our baby had died three weeks prior. In my heart I know it was a boy and he's up there.

All of our stories are sad ones...losing a child is a hard thing!!

My story:
On that Wednesday, I started to get cramps as if my cycle was about to start. I called the Dr's office they advised me that it was my fibroids acting up. I took that and was satisfied with it...understand this is my 1st pregnancy, so if they told me pigs could fly, I would believe it. I decided not to go to work the next day b/c I was still a little uncomfortable. By 10am, I was sitting on my chaise in a fetal position in pain. I went for about 5 hrs with this pain...I finally called the Dr's office and made an appt. for the next day (Friday AM). Wen to the Dr., he called it Round Ligament Stretching and sent me home. Sunday night I began spotting...very light...I called the emergency line and was told to call the next morning, make an appt. and come in. I went in, got a ultrasound, there was no heartbeat!! I cried uncontrollably!! I got the D&C the next day b/c I couldn't 't live with my baby not alive inside of me and I would have gone crazy if I passed the baby and saw it.

A few weeks later the Dr. called me with the results of the chromosomal testing of the baby's tissue...the loss was completely natural, there was no medical reason for the loss, no deficiencies, etc. He also told me that the "fetus was female". We named our precious baby girl Mia Leigh.

As a memorial my hubby and I are getting tattoos for her. I'm getting my profile pic on my right wrist b/c she was attached on the right side of my uterus and I kept my hand there on her. I am getting another of a angle baby sleeping w/in it's wings on the right side of my back/shoulder b/c I know that she is watching over me (she has my back). My hubby is getting a huge one on the his entire inner fore-arm (thank goodness he is a deputy...it won't effect him professionally). In would at least be able to wear a watch or bangle on the one on my wrist!!

We plan to try again!! Mia was our first child!!

NOTE: Sorry for any typos!!!